Are clients getting worse

[Stella Vouge]

Short answer YES.

Context. As society moves forward it would be hard pressed for anyone not to adapt and adjust to new norms and ways of life.

For example never in a million years did men expect woman not to need them! The wages to be equal. Home loans only in "her title name".

Nor did woman expect to raise children solo let alone have them by choice this way.

As we work thru whatever period in time they call this "wtaf period" is my guess. I do wonder is there a bigger divide ont he floor and how can both sexes close this gap?

Will men adjust to boundaries, the word no and respect the hustle for what it is? Will girls keep educating clients?

Sometimes its more exhausting than sex itself. And sex is a marathon some nights. Hehe We love a marathon in the rooms guys.
To the legend clients ignore this and to the amazing girls that rock its not a dig at all. This is just a discussion that has me super curious.

***Client come in and have fun thats the whole point isnt it? Connection is priceless. So is our time. XXX

 

[Stella Vouge]

 

[Seduce me]

I don't think there's a simple yes or no answer. People have different expectations, boundaries, and communication styles, and not everyone is going to be compatible.


Some clients will feel standards have changed, while some providers will feel clients have changed. Both perspectives can be true at the same time.


Rather than trying to change the other side, I think it's more about finding people whose expectations and personalities are compatible. That probably leads to a better experience for everyone.

 

[Stella Vouge]

I don't think there's a simple yes or no answer. People have different expectations, boundaries, and communication styles, and not everyone is going to be compatible.


Some clients will feel standards have changed, while some providers will feel clients have changed. Both perspectives can be true at the same time.


Rather than trying to change the other side, I think it's more about finding people whose expectations and personalities are compatible. That probably leads to a better experience for everyone.

SM,
I like how diplomatic you are. I need to adapt this style more often. Libra sign?
Agreed not everyone is for everyone. Thank the lord.

Men chime in here.. so curious.

 

[Seduce me]

SM,
I like how diplomatic you are. I need to adapt this style more often. Libra sign?
Agreed not everyone is for everyone. Thank the lord.

Men chime in here.. so curious.

Haha, thank you, I appreciate that.

I just think most things are a bit more nuanced than "men vs women." Both sides can have valid perspectives, but we're all individuals at the end of the day.

Not every client will suit every provider, and vice versa. Finding people whose personalities, boundaries, and expectations are compatible probably solves more problems than trying to change each other.
Also... afraid not, I'm a Sagittarius. ....i assume you're a fire sign haha

 

[Shazaam]

Short anwser YES.

Context. As society moves forward it would be hard pressed for anyone not to adapt and adjust to new norms and ways of life.

For example never in a million years did men expect woman not to need them! The wages to be equal. Home loans only in "her title name".

Nor did woman expect to raise children solo let alone have them by choice this way.

As we work thru what ever period in time they call this "wtaf period" is my guess. I do wonder is there a bigger divide on the floor and how can both sexes close this gap?

Will men adjust to boundaries, the word no and respect the hustle for what it is? Will girls keep educating clients?

Sometimes its more exhausting then sex itself. And sex is a marathon some nights. Hehe. We love a marathon in the rooms guys.

To the ledgend clients ignore this and to the amazing girls that rock its not a dig at all. This is a just a discussion. That has me super curious.

***Clients come in and have fun thats the whole point isnt it? Connection is priceless. So is our time. XXX

From the body of your post I can't work out what your point is. You're trying to imply women are superior? In regard to the title of your thread. Common decency may not be as common as it used too be. You need to elaborate on exactly what your query is please and keep it on topic.

 

[Stella Vouge]

Haha, thank you, I appreciate that.

I just think most things are a bit more nuanced than "men vs women." Both sides can have valid perspectives, but we're all individuals at the end of the day.

Not every client will suit every provider, and vice versa. Finding people whose personalities, boundaries, and expectations are compatible probably solves more problems than trying to change each other.
Also... afraid not, I'm a Sagittarius. ....i assume you're a fire sign haha

Ahaha saggggiiiii! Look at us go communicating. Cancer. Water.
Have a great day! X

 

[sydney25]

Babe… it’s not that deep. We’re all just surviving the wtaf era where men are still updating their software and women are running on low battery.

Clients aren’t worse, some are just unprepared for boundaries. Girls aren’t less tolerant, they’re just done giving free kindergarten lessons on “No Means No”.

Most clients are good, few like me... are legends. Most girls are professionals, some are not so. I thing it’s the tiny chaotic minority making everyone question humanity and making this relationship difficult.

But hey… some nights are a marathon, sex work is hard work. But the girls always finish strong — even if the patience ran out

 

[Seduce me]

Babe… it’s not that deep. We’re all just surviving the wtaf era where men are still updating their software and women are running on low battery.

Clients aren’t worse, some are just unprepared for boundaries. Girls aren’t less tolerant, they’re just done giving free kindergarten lessons on “No Means No”.

Most clients are good, few like me... are legends. Most girls are professionals, some are not so. I thing it’s the tiny chaotic minority making everyone question humanity and making this relationship difficult.

But hey… some nights are a marathon, sex work is hard work. But the girls always finish strong — even if the patience ran out

I think that's probably true for some people, but I'd be careful about generalising. Most clients are respectful, and most providers are professional. Like any service industry, it's usually a small minority on both sides that create the stories everyone remembers. Compatibility, communication and mutual respect probably solve more problems than assuming one side needs to change more than the other.

 

[Stella Vouge]

From the body of your post I can't work out what your point is. You're trying to imply women are superior? In regard to the title of your thread. Common decency may not be as common as it used too be. You need to elaborate on exactly what your query is please and keep it on topic.

Not saying either or is superior. Not my intention. Maybe I should use chat gpt after all. Humans are equal. Just to clarify.

The query is how do we bridge the gap between client and girl if there is one. So everyone has a great time. Its not always that way and most nights as we know are so good.

Shazaam ^ hope that help.

 

[sydney25]

There is no way of bridging the gap. We always have good days and bad days. The only way you can have a great day everyday is to set upyour mind to it, and genuinely love your job (that is sex). There is no other way I see. Life's good.

 

[Stella Vouge]

There is no way of bridging the gap. We always have good days and bad days. The only way you can have a great day everyday is to set upyour mind to it, and genuinely love your job (that is sex). There is no other way I see. Life's good.

Nice..

 

[Shazaam]

Not saying either or is superior. Not my intention. Maybe I should use chat gpt after all. Humans are equal. Just to clarify.

The query is how do we bridge the gap between client and girl if there is one. So everyone has a great time. Its not always that way and most nights as we know are so good.

Shazaam ^ hope that help.

Don't make us pay! Having to pay really kills the vibe so you know. Haha.

 

[Stella Vouge]

Don't make us pay! Having to pay really kills the vibe so you know. Haha.

That would be ideal. Haha

 

[AmandaO]

From the body of your post I can't work out what your point is. You're trying to imply women are superior? In regard to the title of your thread. Common decency may not be as common as it used too be. You need to elaborate on exactly what your query is please and keep it on topic.

I'm totally digging where this is going and from what I'm reading its an inside perspective of what all WLs out there are going through on a daily basis. But getting into the whole communication thing ... MY GOD ... the art of actual talking has died. In my day we talked like, with our mouths, for hours until our jaws hurt and someone eventually had to pee. Real conversation baby! I don't know if the deal of real communication is a good thing or a tragedy, but I'm lighting a candle for it anyway. Also, for the record I don't believe Stella is saying women are superior goddess-queens who should rule the planet (tempting thought tho!). She's merely pointing out that we've evolved, honey. We went from barefoot in the kitchen to running empires in heels while juggling feelings, clients and that one guy who still doesn't understand what "maybe later" means.

For the record and where I stand 92% of punters are fucking legends ... it's just that 8% minority that make it bad for the whole industry. But then again those stats are in every industry and alot worse.

 

[Stella Vouge]

I'm totally digging where this is going and from what I'm reading its an inside perspective of what all WLs out there are going through on a daily basis. But getting into the whole communication thing ... MY GOD ... the art of actual talking has died. In my day we talked like, with our mouths, for hours until our jaws hurt and someone eventually had to pee. Real conversation baby! I don't know if the deal of real communication is a good thing or a tragedy, but I'm lighting a candle for it anyway. Also, for the record I don't believe Stella is saying women are superior goddess-queens who should rule the planet (tempting thought tho!). She's merely pointing out that we've evolved, honey. We went from barefoot in the kitchen to running empires in heels while juggling feelings, clients and that one guy who still doesn't understand what "maybe later" means.

For the record and where I stand 92% of punters are fucking legends ... it's just that 8% minority that make it bad for the whole industry. But then again those stats are in every industry and alot worse.

Wow I think youve sparked something inside me. Thanks for your response and insight. Communication is connection. God damit I love it. Good yarn, a few candles and a debate. Lets hear it. How are you really?

Night,
Stella. X