Any other guy hate bjs?

[table]

I feel like im the only guy on the planet who doesnt enjoy blowjobs.

The visual is a delight and it will make me hard if im not already.

But otherwise it just feels uncomfortable rather than pleasurable and ive had many girls give it a go.

On the other side of the coin i love giving oral.

Its not a big deal but i just wondered if im alone out here or if anyone might know why.

 

[John Smithl]

I feel like im the only guy on the planet who doesnt enjoy blowjobs.

The visual is a delight and it will make me hard if im not already.

But otherwise it just feels uncomfortable rather than pleasurable and ive had many girls give it a go.

On the other side of the coin i love giving oral.

Its not a big deal but i just wondered if im alone out here or if anyone might know why.

Maybe communicate more with what you'd like them to do/not do?
Are you talking about physical and/or psychological discomfort?

 

[CraigieBoi]

I love bjs but I know of 1 guy who hates bj. He had bad prior experience. Remember mouth has teeth. Would put your d in angry gf mouth after argument?

The only time i felt uncomfortable during bj is when i take too long to get excited or not feeling it.

We are wired differently. Maybe you are giver. U like giving oral. I too love giving pleasure to the woman. There are some women who dont love oral performed on them. Cause they are worried what the guy thinks of their body, hygiene etc. So some ppl have trouble relaxing and thinking about the pleasure instead of other things

 

[Master Yoda]

Can’t live without them

 

[ozwarlock67]

Correct. You are the only guy on the planet who hates them.

 

[Jimmy long]

Me too, teeth against is rarely a great experience, Vanessa was one of the best

 

[Uncle Bobby]

Yes
Never cum from them and only cum from them when they end up using majority hands

handjobs for the win for me

 

[asianguy77]

I love it if it's done the way I enjoy it. Slow, good suction and sensual mixed up with licking

If it's done fast, and trying to imitate like something they see in porn movie, it feels like going through the motions.

 

[jebradio]

It's a skill to give a good bj and I can't say that I have ever had a really good one... it's great to get you in the mood but I get off more getting her hot and bothered any way I can ... mouth, rubbing, fingers... I mean it really doesn't take much to get a guy going.. but get a girl going right and the benefits are awesome

 

[mountainbikingateve]

I hear you table. It wasn’t until I was in my 40s that I’ve really enjoyed receiving a great BJ.
For me, what put me off was a combination of; I like to give, a few experiences with teeth(a bit painful) and a girlfriend that tried to deep throat me and ended up vomiting all over the bed/me.
What changed for me was a FWB asked me why I never came in her mouth. She was a sub and loved that. Sex with her every other way was amazing.
After that, communication with a partner and taking time to relax.
Now, I enjoy a good BJ and have a favourite lady that loves me finishing in her mouth. Just remember to drink plenty of pineapple juice!

 

[User184]

I'm not a big fan. I wouldn't necessarily say I hate them, but they don't really do anything for me.

 

[massage]

Not me. I reckon I'd take a good BJ over sex.

 

[Anto]

Depends - I feel the same about hard and fast BJs but definitely prefer a slower more sensual style

 

[Lingham]

I'm not a big fan. I wouldn't necessarily say I hate them, but they don't really do anything for me.

I agree. I don’t hate them, but they do nothing for me, which surprises a lot of WLs. I do love giving a girl oral though.

 

[Jimmy long]

And another thing, usually offered as an enticement to pay for more service, if you refuse, which I do, the service offering stays at the original price

 

[No idea what to do]

I feel like I'm the only guy on the planet who doesn't enjoy blowjobs.

Although you had many BJ's in the past,------- I can only suggest you give Olivia Sinn's a go.
She dishes out a great deep sloppy BJ and I find it a challenge not to blow the beans in her mouth,
try a side by side 69'r (gr8 view) and hopefully she will re-adjust the way your thinking about BJ's

The Frenchman

 

[JezzaJ]

Not the only guy on the planet, but you are definitely in the minority!

 

[Goodstuff36 Bon truc in french]

Nothing better than having my cock sucked.

 

[OMGIlovenudity]

I won't say I hate it but not a massive fan. If there was one sexual pleasure that I had to be without it would be that.
I'm with you about giving oral though, nothing sexier than a girl coming in your mouth

 

[KingFrosty]

I hate receiving them. Has no allure to me. I prefer to give them as well.

 

[DeletedUser]

Not a fan.. maybe it’s because I’ve had partners that never really did it.

 

[jebradio]

I would rather it be a mutual thing... oral both ways as a starter more than a finisher ... it does feel great if done right .. but if done right you are gone in minutes and then what are you both meant to do for the next hour

 

[No idea what to do]

jebradio

I'm with you on that one for sure.
BJ and DATY together or one after the other so you got half a chance of giving and receiving the pleasure and sensation's that cum with it.

The Frenchman

 

[peartywerty]

I would rather a handjob than BJ with a condom.

 

[Deleted member 49173]

Often a blowie will dull my senses , but recently Im getting a wonderful service where she likes me to suck her nipples and play with her very wet pussy while she swallows without missing half a beat .. awesome

 

[Searlymat]

Yeah I love em. Only heard of blokes not liking them when chick's aren't the best

 

[mike hunt]

Yeah I used to shy away from them in my younger days, after I meet this older chick from the elephant and the wheelbarrow she took me back to her flat, turned out she was on her monthly…… bummer

she said I will suck your dick, I nearly denied!!! Oh boy the things that woman did I felt like that part of Star Wars when then travel at warp speed,,,,, blew almost immediately!!!

 

[Luckypete 08]

I love Bj's especially done slowly with eye contact and when younger i was a 5 second wonder but now i can stay pretty well.

 

[Tea Bag]

I wouldn't say I hate them, not at all, but I find it very difficult to come from them. In my case it's an easy diagnosis because I have a very deep-seated inhibition that blocks orgasm unless my partner goes full-on porn star, so it's just easier in most circs for me to be giver rather than receiver.

 

[Mrs Langtrees]

Ive meet men that don't like head jobs they preferred to give them