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Anal sex

Its all about relaxing the muscles, when inserted I just get them to sit in that spot for 30secs..for some reason the muscles adjust and then away you go...lube of course...and a partner who really knows what he is doing makes a HUGE difference....if not you guide and control thrusting!

Also I find squattiing over them can be a good position, opens up the passage...everyone automatically goes for doggy but there many positions you can do anally!!

True a but plug or even a smaller vibrator to get yourself comfortable and relaxed with soemthign foreign being up your bum....but it really is a awesome sensation....hmmmm LUV IT!!!
 
Look its up to the person, I have done it before and in my honest opinion , it doesn't really float my boat ..... it doesn't make me orgasm and sometimes on the odd occasion has been quite painful for me as well , Have tried it lots and just can't get in the groove
 
Love its how you do it that counts. First time ouch but if you stop and do it again ouch. so sometime its best to learn what you want and how. I like going on top to start then I have the control. Other wise they ram it in and it hurts. I don't do it a lot but when I do I do a couple of things.
1. go on top
2. Anal ease it helps ease the pain
3. Lie on top of him both facing up, legs on the side and wow you ll cum so hard you will want anal again.
4. play with yourself while he is inside if not feeling good. makes you feel better about it and forget the uncomphertablness
 
Its all about relaxing the muscles, when inserted I just get them to sit in that spot for 30secs..for some reason the muscles adjust and then away you go...lube of course...and a partner who really knows what he is doing makes a HUGE difference....if not you guide and control thrusting!

Also I find squattiing over them can be a good position, opens up the passage...everyone automatically goes for doggy but there many positions you can do anally!!

True a but plug or even a smaller vibrator to get yourself comfortable and relaxed with soemthign foreign being up your bum....but it really is a awesome sensation....hmmmm LUV IT!!!

:( Reading this has me all worked up
 
Anal is so hot! And is great if done slow... At the start haha
My fav position is entry like doggy but you and yours kneeling upwrite if ya get me? so hot! Both hands are free to play with her clit and tits, even biting ur neck is crazy while you fuck her silly!
Spooning is also ez going for the girl, prob called anal spooning or something....::)
 
Had my 1st experience with Anal at Langtrees about 4 years ago. It was ummm interesting...
 
I love anal sex when I'm in the mood for it and I really get into it but I like it slow and steady at first. I have never had a orgasm from anal alone. My fav posi is with me laying on my stomach second would be spooning. Men can get carried away in the doggy position and just wanna slam it home even from the start.
 
Hey thanks for the tip... I have never had anal sex but think about trying it soon!!! It sounds fun....

I would say that good fourplay would make me in a mood to try it...
 
I only tried anal with one of my ex gf and a WL. To be honest, I think they both enjoyed it more than me! haha
 
Done it once wasnt convinced over it maybe thebath abd too much water and slipping alk over theplace.

Have had it done to me was embarresed at first but i actualy love it now
 
Never tried it before. I can imagine for man should feel the same, for woman, wondering what's the feeling in the ass compare to her virgina
 
not my thing. With a pussy available, and all that lubrication, and the mouth as a second option, and alternating pussy and oral, why would I want to try anal?
 
I've always thought that you just can't go past the tuppy, but this thread has me convinced anal might be pretty good when done right. :D
 
i done it once and wasnt very impressed. it is tight but i prefer the feeling of the front bum. maybe i was doing it wrong. i dont think its any more erotic than doggy style
 
Anal sex is amazing for both women & men.
For men it hits the prostate & this combined with a good blow job or hand job can bring on the most intense orgasms that can last longer than 45 secs...

For women it is perfect as the pressure from anal sex rubs on the Gspot. Those women attune to their gspot can orgasm readily & intensely from anal sex. Combine with clit stimulation & it will blow your mind.

It is however a very sensitive area & if you jam it roughly you can tear inside. The trick is to go slowly & gently & loads of lube. Start with a finger or small probe & replace it with a larger one till the area is completely relaxed & ready to take that lovely hard cock... then away you go...

Happy anal everyone.
 
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my girl and I tried it once, I loved it and I think she's not quite okay about it we didn't use that lube thing but I have to ask her to try it again with that lube...
 
My girl loves it now.....started with getting her used to penetration there...lots of massaging and fingering when going down her seemed to help...I've read around the place that getting her to subconsciously associate the pleasure of a good orgasm with anal penetration can help a lot. Now she regularly uses a butt plug whilst we have vaginal sex.
 
i think $100 is about right for me. Anything more and she'd have to be amazing at it
 
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