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Anal sex

My feelings on the subject

Actally had it done to me when I was a young lad, quite an interesting experience and absolutly no pain, maybe because we were so young and it was in a pool.

Anyway I digress. my ex and I tried it after a wild night out and she was pretty drunk, the most important part from a males part is to GO SLOW, this I did and she really got off on it. I think mainly cause we DID IT. We then did it a couple of more times however I find the feeling of a nice warm pussy so much more of a turn on. But it was a great method when both really horny and it was that time of the month, and no I can't go there then, but she certainly did get off on it every time.

Cleanliness, trust and patience is the key.
 
perthminx said:
And knowing inside and out what women want you would pick up no problem!!
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Interesting comment, as if picking up was all to do with what a women wants. Meeting someone of the opposite sex is more about chemistry than the shallowness of females.
 
:angry2: I had a client last year, he asked for a blow job. then trunned around and wanted Anal. Next minute, I was on the bed been Anal raped and I had no one to help. I am still feeling the effects
 
Lisa said:
:angry2: I had a client last year, he asked for a blow job. then trunned around and wanted Anal. Next minute, I was on the bed been Anal raped and I had no one to help. I am still feeling the effects
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If he did it against your wishes and without your permission, then it was rape and you should have had him charged. If we allow clients to take those kinds of liberties and get away with it, we're making it worse for the next WL they see.

Chrissie
 
My beginnings with this most pleasable act were quiet painful and un-inspiring.
But with the right partner, I have cum to enjoy it, a lot.
The best thing I did was to use butt plugs of varying sizes and over a couple of weeks got comfortable with inserting them myself and getting use to the sensations they induced. I learned to relax my anus more and more and once I became comfortable with the whole deal was ready to move on to letting my partner enjoy 'all' of me.
I'm so pleased that I put in the effort as it makes me feel very versatile as a woman and I enjoyed the challenge of conquering one of life's taboo's.
Deanna
 
Chrissie

It was Rape, I did report it, but nothing was done, even thou I am still suffering still. Its his word against mine, after the service, the !!!!!!!!!!! took the money back that he paid for the service..

Lisa
 
Lisa said:
It was Rape, I did report it, but nothing was done, even thou I am still suffering still. Its his word against mine, after the service, the !!!!!!!!!!! took the money back that he paid for the service..

Lisa
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Did you file an 'ugly mug' report with Magenta? I know it's not the same as having him charged, but at least it gets the word out to other workers to watch out for him.

You might like to think about joining SWAG also (Sex Workers Action Group) which is an independant group for past and present sexworkers that works to improve conditions for sexworkers, both private and brothel based.

Chrissie

PS - I am really sorry that you had this happen to you. Luckily there are far more good clients out there than there are pricks like that.
 
Lisa, I can scarcely imagine the pain and anger you must feel. Some ppl don't even deserve the air they breathe.
 
::) Yes I am still angry and hurt, What hurt me the wrose, is that another private Escort was raped around the same time as myself. She got all the help. Like countciling. She got the guy charged, doctors check ups. and all I got was "Sorry to hear that". That hurt the most and I am still paying for it..

Lisa
 
Lisa said:
::) Yes I am still angry and hurt, What hurt me the wrose, is that another private Escort was raped around the same time as myself. She got all the help. Like countciling. She got the guy charged, doctors check ups. and all I got was "Sorry to hear that". That hurt the most and I am still paying for it..

Lisa
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Lisa i dont understand? if the other worker got him charged etc and was given counselling what ws the reason u were denied the same priveledge? I used to deal alot with the sexual assault unit in perth as it was attached to the hospital i was workin with at the time. We used to get many sex workers in that had been raped and the view was that we went all out to help these women, they were given access to all the community services and given extensive counselling ( i never came across any male sex workers that had been raped so cannot comment on this but i am sure this can happen as well esp with the male to male escorts).

Lisa i am not surprised you are angry and still upset over it must have been an awful ordeal........
 
Anal Rape

I did report it. All I got was I am sorry, then some one was going to come around to take my statement and to let them know what the guy looked like and all that and I am still waiting. I got a feeling that no one cared about what happen to me because the other worker is well known in Melbourne. Even thou she got a way with murder when it comes to looking after her health and clients needs..
::)
 
isnt there a 'blacklist' of sorts for sex workers then they know who can't ever get any in that city again?
i think its more of a security and safety issue, unless people want to have bouncers around when they go into a place.

sigh. whats the world coming to, dont people ever get told when young not to hit ladies or told when a gal says no... she means NO...
ok, sometimes its fun to roleplay... but then i think people should be able to realise when she really means it.

R
 
When you are a private worker. and hav a client in your home. There is normally scurity {like security or bouncers around}. In the five years I never had one, except after it happens, not before... that Sucks, all the othe Private workers do.

Lisa
 
first time

Like most males i suppose i eventually wanted to try anal - giving- that is. :love76:
Well the opportunity finally arose the other day. I met a nice lady and after chatting we decided that we were both after the same thing..lol..say no more.
As part of our conversation we discussed fantasys and taboos and she provided the infomation that she liked anal...and I as an "anal virgin (giving)" pricked up my ears.
We linked up and met at her house. Her instructions were that I needed to be "rock hard" in order to have anal sex.
No problems in that department.
After some mutual sucking she lubed me up well and truly and then herself and got on all fours.
I probed her anus with my cock and eventually just slid it in slowly.
She was very experienced in this type of sex and was well prepared. To be honest it didnt feel any different than a fanny just a little tighter but boy did she moan. It does appear that anal sex can intensify a ladies orgasm.
So with that I tried it and certainly wasnt disappointed. I look forward to the next time but I must admit there certainly isnt anything wrong with the tried and tested method of fanny sex. Lol
 
doubtfire

Heloo my pets and how are we all. Without sounding a prude why is there so much obsession with doing it up the dung funnel. In my day it was unheard of, my hector tried it about fifteen years ago . Well i tell you jolly what he never tried it again the silly ass. I gave him such a flogging with the soup ladle that he never came near me for weeks, god bless his dear little soul.The good lord made it for waste whats the world coming to.
 
I treat it as an exit and not an entry.

However, even though I said no, someone has done it to me before - and though he didn't lube up or anything before hand, therefore splitting the skin, it did, at the time, feel alright....but you have to, HAVE TO, be comfortable with the person you're with and RELAX!!! Otherwise, pain is gonna come to no end - especially for the next few days...and condoms are good for it too - yuckies on ur peepeewand. ahahahah

I still don't want to do it for a long while - until I'm with someone I completely and utterly trust anyway.
 
Well I got to try it with my wife and she absolutely loved it!

It's true that you have to be in the mood. She likes to be spanked and I thnk this helped to relax her and a finger in her arse was felt as part of the punishment/pleasure thing.

After that I had two fingers in there with LOADS AND LOADS of lube so they were very freely sliding in and out. I she loved it when I pressed down slightly while I was sliding my cock in her pussy. She then begged to try anal sex!

Well I wasn't going to turn it down! It was properly stretched (slowly) and lubed so we got to it and she had the most intense orgasm imaginably (her words) and then experienced another one when I went down on her afterwards!

She loves it and now wants to experiment with a butt plug...

I think being married and therefore trust has a lot to do with it also.
 
this has been a great discussion showing all different points of view - some like it, some don't, others think about it. well, that's just it, it's not for everyone & should never be forced on anyone.
i have occaisional anal with my partner & another lady I see & both have said they can get an unreal orgasm, but it's only done at their invitation. both would also like dp when the time is right. i really enjoy it too, but like them only every now and then as nothing beats the real juicy thing!
 
anel sex

my wife and I are into anel sex . we start by giveing each other enemas then we get each other lubed up .we like to use tampons as anel beads
 
Hi All,

I'm another newbie to this site, I have read through most of the forum and found it very interesting and glad that I can have the opportunity to talk to other sex lovers about sex related topics maturally. Anyways back to the topic.

I would love to try anal sex with my girlfriend and have sarcasticly hinted it a few times but I don't think she wants to. Don't get me wrong - we have excellent sex the usuall way all the time. But it's something just nagging in the back of my mind. Any tips on how to bring it up? or how to approach the subject with her? We have been together for 5 years and it's something i really want to try. If she says 'no' - well i can't do much about it and I am definatley not going to cheat on her and try it with someone else. I just get the feeling it's never gonna happen and i really want to try it. I think it's because of the more that I can't - the more that I want. I know from reading everyones post it's a slow and steady process which could require some preperation. I feel like i'm some expert now after researching and reading a lot of stuff regarding the topic even though I haven't done the deed. I know all this info and my girlfriend doesn't know a thing about it. How do I get her knowledgable like me? I can't just plonk her on the comp and say research anal sex. From what i gathered from the majority of people on this forum that have written in this topic that 90% love it and have wicked orgasms and the rest don't and don't want to do it again. Do i need to get that point across? The other obstable is that I don't think she feel's comfortable with the sex subject talk. Anyways of breaking the ice?

In desperate need of help

Thanks Heaps
 
Slowly Slowly Slowly start with Gentle Massage insertion and I mean gentle after a during a really horny massage and encourage her to do the same to you.
Asking for finger insertion is less threatening and leads the mind to taking it further some time later in the future.
Remember to use a condom over your finger. Even gentle insertion can make your muscles feel like you need to poo quite quickly, so stop at this stage and after she has tried go onto a great head job on her letting her know how much she means and then next time she will go a little further.
Took me a long time to feel relaxed enough to have comnplete control over the anal muscles for the ultimate......



(edited by naughtybuttnice 10th Jan 06):-)
 
Constant Urinary Tract Infections

Firstly I would like to welcome myself Athena (the Greek Goddess) to this forum..... and what a great forum it is.

My problem is that I love Greek and all of my partners love using a variety of different toys on me at the same time....... Yee Haa... I know it sounds great.....AND IT IS.....
The problem is that I am constantly plagued by Urinary Tract Infections and its driving me mad as there is no way in hell I am going to give up all of my rewarding and very stimulating adventures for that.

If anyone can help me overcome this problem I would love to hear from you...... preferably by the weekend as i have a group booking I need to attend.

From

Ms Orifice
 
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This is the type of question we like to see on our forum
and have to answer quickly now so you can get your weekend in order, but would love the Goddess to re ask this as it's own thread and I will answer with a indepth thred.
You probably have thrush as well and a new partner.
To get rid of the thrush you need to get the one pessary caneston cream which I think needs a doctors prescription.It takes about 36 hours to clear the thrush so take it on Thursday.
For the urinary tract infection what usually happens is you have bruised the bladder with all your action plus been drinking alcohol.
No alcohol and drink as many glasses of water a day with the recommended use of (urinal) the fizzy tablet that flushes the system and then get some eno's and take some more.
Buy the largest milligram of vitamin C you can get and drop at least 10 tablets a day.
Water Water Water, for the next four days, you need to drink about 30 glasses a day or just over one glass a hour,
No coffee also helps.
Dosen't matter how much vitamin C because your body can't store excess and with the water it will help flush out the system totally.
Keep away from Carbonated drinks over the next four days as well.

By the week end you should be comfortable enough to start your active sex life again if you follow this.
Do make sure when you start again that you get a bowl of water and a flannel and keep by the bedside and make sure when going from anal play to vaginal play that you wash in between.
The orgasm that live in these areas are different and not compatible so what has caused most of your problems is cross infection.
Hope this helps and I will reword this with all proper terms and spelling as soon a you start the new thread and I get the time.



(edited by naughtybuttnice 13th Jan 06) :-)
 
Dead Right Vitamin C in massive doses is the secret.Can not harm you as the body only absorb what it needs and then flushes.
Try not to get the chewy ones as 10 plus of those a day are sickly sweet.
Vitamin C also clears up herpes with in 48 hours by drying out the infection, better than the expensive drugs on the market can't remember name.
 
My partner I have been having anal sex for around six months. We both love it and the we find it really arousing when I cum inside her ass.
 
The key word is definitely LUBE...and going sloooowwly.
If you're well lubed, and your partner takes it nice and easy the first few strokes, it's fabulous...most guys who know what they're doing will make sure you're warmed up and relaxed by starting with fingers, but they do need to be reminded to be lavish with the lube.
P.S. - if you've got the flash new warming lube - awesome!
But like Senile says, make sure you're handled gently - ripping is bad, and some nasty things can happen if things get damaged inside.
 
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