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Ageism

glen

glen

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I haven't noticed much ageism in the industry. Most girls I see either don't care about a clients age or are very good at faking it. However 'faking it' must be the number one skills criteria for the sex industry, so whats the 'rub' here. Only once have I noticed an ad saying no older clients, but several ads stipulate mature.
I have asked some girls if its OK to see me as I am over 60, but its never been an issue. I would prefer girls who are comfortable with me, but if they are prepared to fake it I will take that too! Thank you ladies.
Any thoughts, I wonder if presentation and respect trump age?
 
Good Presentation and good hygiene helps a lot and there is a select few who do not wish older clients, or Asian etc etc.
Telling the ladies your age is a good strategy, but, generally they are smiling if you a good paying customer.
 
I have to admit when I 1st started in the industry and I was 19, one of my regular clients was in his 80's. I hated the bookings, but being green I had no idea I could say no. He said things that made me uncomfortable too.
In my 30's someone the same age wasn't an issue but I was also much better at steering bookings too (as in conversation etc).
 
I know it's generalising, but I've been led to understand that some ladies prefer mature clients because ... how do I say it ... we might tend to be more thoughtful and less energetic ... 😌
 
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Lingus said:
I know it's generalising, but I've been led to understand that some ladies prefer mature clients because ... how do I say it ... we might tend to be more thoughtful and less energetic ... 😌
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In my 30's I always found mature age clients more gentle, better conversationalists and better in the boudoir (more relaxed, less impatient and more thoughtful).

When I was 19 they were seeing me for a very different reason and it did make me uncomfortable as explained above.
 
Tania's comments have piqued my curiosity, but perhaps I won't go there ...

... except to say that I have some happy high school memories whereby I will forever be fond of the regulation pleated tartan skirt. As for ageism, these days I'm as pleased to see such a uniform worn by a 25 year old woman or a 50 year old woman. 🎓
 
Lingus said:
I know it's generalising, but I've been led to understand that some ladies prefer mature clients because ... how do I say it ... we might tend to be more thoughtful and less energetic ... 😌
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I think you said it perfectly, Lingus 👍
I have also been told similar things by a few ladies, well in a far less Political Correct way 😂
 
People also think that mature punters may be a little richer and more generous with tips, perhaps.
 
I’m early 50’s and have no interest in any lady under 35 to be honest as I find that this demographic works for me.
less inhibited more open minded and a better experience invariably as we both have enough miles under our belt to make things work for each other.

Fat boy said:
People also think that mature punters may be a little richer and more generous with tips, perhaps.
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Or maybe just a little more respectful?

Tania Admin said:
In my 30's I always found mature age clients more gentle, better conversationalists and better in the boudoir (more relaxed, less impatient and more thoughtful).

When I was 19 they were seeing me for a very different reason and it did make me uncomfortable as explained above.
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Older guys rule! Reluctant to say old in full yet as my appetite hasn’t decreased but my endurance has🙂👍

Happy Pirate said:
Good Presentation and good hygiene helps a lot and there is a select few who do not wish older clients, or Asian etc etc.
Telling the ladies your age is a good strategy, but, generally they are smiling if you a good paying customer.
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Yep👍
 
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