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Age gap

antonov

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Here's a question for old punters and young WLs!

Recently in Perth there was a situation where an old guy (about 78 I think) was visited by a young call girl (early 20s?) who allegedly freaked out when she saw him, called him a paedophile and beat him to death. She is currently undergoing psychiatric assessment.

At the other end of the scale, there have been situations where I have been to RnT establishments and not felt entirely comfortable with the cool attitude of the young lady providing the service (I am no young stud but definitely don't think of myself as a paedophile either!). I've generally just put it down to "not clicking" or "A bad day" - but now I'm not so sure...

So I am just wondering how the young WLs really view us older clients? Don't worry, you can always quote "a friend of a friend"!) Is there a "decent" age gap that us older guys should aim for in selecting our ladies? Should WLs who don't like old guys just come right out and say so up front so we can pass them over?
 
This is a very good question i would like to hear some feed back from this to . Cathy xx
 
this is a very good question .

i have noticed in some of the W/L 's adds an age group either "not over ? or not under ? ".

John
 
I guess this would be ok for private girls but in a establishment i dont know if were aloud to do that.
 
This thread got me very curious so i asked my boss and she said yes lady's do have the right to refuse the older male client if she pleases and does have the right to advertise the age group of the males she would like to see. This i see in a good way and a bad.

GOOD: That you get to choose in a matter of speaking.

BAD: I have a feeling that if you put a limit on the age of the people you will see you may loose alot of clients.
 
Well, I am a fair bit older than most of the ladies I have visited and have never had my age affect the outcome. I always ask the lady up front if she feels comfortable going with someone my age and, so far, have never been refused.

However, if a lady had an aversion to older or less attractive men (like me) I would far rather she just said so up front than take my money then turn in an indifferent service.
 
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Well, I am a fair bit older than most of the ladies I have visited and have never had my age affect the outcome. I always ask the lady up front if she feels comfortable going with someone my age and, so far, have never been refused.

However, if a lady had an aversion to older men I would far rather she just said so up front than take my money then turn in an indifferent service.


I completely agree with you svengali if i was a male i would prefer them to tell me straight up.
 
hi Sven i totally agree with what u said as it has happened to me , the W/L was around 15 years younger than me , n she was so hot , i made the booking and the lady took my money but she really didn't want to be there with me for this playtime session .


i would rather the lady say , " thanx but no thanx " as i like to for us both to have a gr8 play-time session , n not just me banging away.


John
 
I know it's early days but interesting that apart from Cathy, only us old guys are debating the issue! I hate to say it, but my experience is that the young ladies won't walk away from easy money, they'll just give crap service - and know that the 'old gents' won't complain!
 
I know most of this topic has been focused on the older client - younger W/L arrangement, but what are the primary reasons for have an age limit of "not under" for clients?
 
I know it's early days but interesting that apart from Cathy, only us old guys are debating the issue! I hate to say it, but my experience is that the young ladies won't walk away from easy money, they'll just give crap service - and know that the 'old gents' won't complain!

who says i'm old ???? . i'm only as old as the women i'm feeling lolol


John
 
I know it's early days but interesting that apart from Cathy, only us old guys are debating the issue! I hate to say it, but my experience is that the young ladies won't walk away from easy money, they'll just give crap service - and know that the 'old gents' won't complain!

Take your money and your bloody lucky I even bother to see you at all and thank God he didn't do a Billy Sneden on me
 
Sorry johnlou, I guess you added 20 years or so to your age when you wrote your profile then, did you? My mistake!
 
I hate to say it, but my experience is that the young ladies won't walk away from easy money, they'll just give crap service.

....I wouldn't totally agree with this, Explorationist, as I'm sure that some WLs maybe "pressured" into seeing all clients regardless whether the WL is or is not comfortable with the client's age.

There is another thread on the forum with a similar theme and I must admit that I was surprised at the number of younger WLs for whom the "age gap" was not an issue. However, unless I know that the WL doesn't have an issue with seeing an older client, I will not make a booking with a younger WL.

Fudd :)
 
I know most of this topic has been focused on the older client - younger W/L arrangement, but what are the primary reasons for have an age limit of "not under" for clients?

Just a thought.....you could have a situation were a WL may had a son when she was very young. If she is in her late 30s now, her son may be 20 or so and she may find it uncomfortable if a friend of her son's rolls up for an appointment.....just throwing this out there.

Fudd :)
 
thank God he didn't do a Billy Sneden on me

And for the young WLs who are wondering what the hell this is about: Billy Snedden (an Aussie politician) died "on the job" with his son's ex girlfriend!
 
I always thought it was because they were likely to be inexperienced, in too much of a hurry and too rough!
 
Some very interesting posts. I'm 73 this year and I always ask the private lady if they have a problem with age. A 22 yo in Melbourne was a bit unsure but as I always like a dinner date first she accepted and later commented " it was much better than she expected" . I was too much of a gentleman to ask her what she meant! We did go to a top Melbourne Restaurant though.

A 24 yo in Sydney always texts after a dinner date what a great time she has had, lovely to be with a gentleman, etc. However a few weeks ago dinner at best Sydney restaurant, great show at the Opera House, back home in my car which she had never seen before. Now I love my '85 Ford Fairlane aka "the Beast" and when I pointed in out in the car park she said "my dad had one of those!". When we got home by 1.am I had gone the distance once but she wanted more,uhuh, big day, big night nn nn! Got the usual text in gratitude but not picking up calls since.

Now, please Forum friends, answer this question (OR should it be posted in the "Car" posts?) Is it my age? my car? or my performance?

While thinking about it raise your glass to the Beast - clocked 800,000k this week! Cheers!
 
Some very interesting posts. I'm 73 this year and I always ask the private lady if they have a problem with age. A 22 yo in Melbourne was a bit unsure but as I always like a dinner date first she accepted and later commented " it was much better than she expected" . I was too much of a gentleman to ask her what she meant! We did go to a top Melbourne Restaurant though.

A 24 yo in Sydney always texts after a dinner date what a great time she has had, lovely to be with a gentleman, etc. However a few weeks ago dinner at best Sydney restaurant, great show at the Opera House, back home in my car which she had never seen before. Now I love my '85 Ford Fairlane aka "the Beast" and when I pointed in out in the car park she said "my dad had one of those!". When we got home by 1.am I had gone the distance once but she wanted more,uhuh, big day, big night nn nn! Got the usual text in gratitude but not picking up calls since.

Now, please Forum friends, answer this question (OR should it be posted in the "Car" posts?) Is it my age? my car? or my performance?

While thinking about it raise your glass to the Beast - clocked 800,000k this week! Cheers!

All calls or just you,
 
Hi Explorationist so pleased to hear from you I must admit that its so disheartening to hear that Gentlemen get treated this way ,any age and size or shape.
Im old school and have been in the industry some 30 odd years in one way or another Here and the UK ( i know im a pom dont hold it against me lol) and my principles have always been the same..... It is the responsibility to the management and owners to get to know what servises their staff like to do ,and not to do
this way they can address issues before they actually happen ,By regular meetings and comunicating Then this way no one then has an embarrissing time, as for the ladies that have just been taking the money and have not fulfilled their service shame on them and the establishment ( thank heavens we dont have that here) But you are within your rights to let the duty manager know or owner so they can address it promptly .
You can also speak to the duty managers firstly and ask for suggestions or their advise. There are so many establishments here in perth and i have proberly been to all of them lol but the concept should be the same, good caring service for very hard earnt money ,but unfortunatly they are not, and the young gals that come on the sceen should be Helped and trained to the art ,the way we do ,and coming back to the age thing there should be no diffrence after all its just a number, you should always have the respect as we respect our ladies for respecting our clientel and have a bloody good time . xx Andrea
 
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I totally agree, you at the end of the day pay for a service and i would expect to get what i wanted. So if a young working lady doesn't they shouldnt say so. I recently had a wonderful time with an older gentlemen whom treated me like a lady and was very polite thats all a WL wants, to be respected of her profession.
 
Hi Farm Boy, Thanks for your reply. I have no idea - she is private, no site, only phone number. Hey, the sea is full of fish!
 
A lot of you all bring up very good points.

I would like to give my POV.
I am a 21yr old W/L and yes i have an age limit as to whom i will see but in saying that you cant always tell someones age by looking at them. My age limit is 80, my reason being that i'm actually born on the same day as my pop; who is 90 this year and am very close with him.

I love having older clients! they know how to treat you like a lady and they be gentlemen. I also find they are far more experienced in how to please a woman. Young men (boys) generally have no idea of what they're doing and try and fuck you like a porn star and want to do every position under the sun. Its just not fun at all.

Talking for the no one younger then a certain age, fudd has a good point i know from my mature W/L friends they dont want young (under 20's) for the reason of they are close to their child age its its wired and awkward. Some woman love being cougars but not all.

xxSarahxx
 
This a really good topic. I no the W/l have a choice but is it one of the reason men go and see W/Ls?to have someone a bit to alot younger than u may not meet/pick up or have as a partner..In most asian countrys(im not sayings its right or wrong) must older men go with the young w/ls and its seems pretty normal..
'You are only as young as the women that you are feeling at the time'..
Keep the post going.
 
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This a really good topic. I no the W/l have a choice but is it one of the reason men go and see W/Ls?to have someone a bit to alot younger than u may meet/pick up or have as a partner..In most asian countrys(im not sayings its right or wrong) must older men go with the young w/ls and its seems pretty normal..
'You are only as young as the women that you are feeling at the time'..
Keep the post going.

you are quite right! they come to live out fantasies and because they know that in visiting these establishments they will be able to go with a young and hot girl that they wouldn't normally be able to pick up. I stand by my statement 'older men are the best they know what they're doing and how to please'

xxSarahxx
 
Dear SweetSarah,

Thank you for your comments. I now have another reason to come to Perth where all the talent is!! As if I needed one but you sound exciting. I try really hard to remain very active, busy professional life, exercise, etc., but nothing beats the thrill of being with a beautiful sexy woman who is happy to be with you. Thanks again. XXX
 
Dear SweetSarah,

Thank you for your comments. I now have another reason to come to Perth where all the talent is!! As if I needed one but you sound exciting. I try really hard to remain very active, busy professional life, exercise, etc., but nothing beats the thrill of being with a beautiful sexy woman who is happy to be with you. Thanks again. XXX

You're Welcome

xxSarahxx
 
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I agree with you EEK. If you say 'yes' to a business relation ship you have to provide the best posible service. no cheating!!!!!! I don't really care about age. I am not a spring chicken anymore, I am bang in the middle so 20 years older or younger is all possible. What is important for me is the connection and if that happens I don't care how old the person is I am with. (I actually find older men more attractive.......)
Now turning somebody down does not have to be a terrible task.......be honest but polite.....no need to hurt somebody's feelings and I am sure if I can't connect the client will feel it as well and we part without an awkward situation.
I think nobody should be concerned about their age.......just be yourself and happy and things will be taken care of.

R.xxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
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