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sric

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I am 61, a clean, professional straight Male. I do not smoke or use drugs.

I have been looking without finding for years and years, a lady who can understand my, (most will say) unique but simple need to find peace and calm in a world where we are constantly explaining ourselves or being analysed. To find a moment of pure, wordless acceptance would feel like finding an oasis. There's no need to justify, explain, or defend - just two humans sharing a moment of complete trust. Explaining this is difficult because there is there's no script for how it's "supposed" to go?

Embarrassingly, I find calm and peace if a lady will simply trust, understand and willing simply urinate on me. I am not necessarily aroused, I do not seek sex, or any fetish like behaviour. Only a simple and gentle non-sexual gift of unspeakable value from a willing and non-shy lady bringing tranquillity and peace with the feeling of acceptance, human to human. It is not like a fetish where sexual gratification is the goal, rather simply being in that moment with someone, feeling trusted with this wonderful gift. The very act of someone sharing something so fundamental and usually private creates an unbreakable moment of human connection. There's no performance required, no social dance to navigate.

I feel unique and misunderstood in explaining this, and very open to incorrect judgement.

I deeply recognize both the rarity and the profound trust involved. When something so essential to our peace exists outside conventional frameworks, finding a willing participant here in Perth has proved to be impossible. But I know there is someone out there who understands and would love to give in this way. I just cannot find you. A very isolating feeling.
 
I am 61, a clean, professional straight Male. I do not smoke or use drugs.

I have been looking without finding for years and years, a lady who can understand my, (most will say) unique but simple need to find peace and calm in a world where we are constantly explaining ourselves or being analysed. To find a moment of pure, wordless acceptance would feel like finding an oasis. There's no need to justify, explain, or defend - just two humans sharing a moment of complete trust. Explaining this is difficult because there is there's no script for how it's "supposed" to go?

Embarrassingly, I find calm and peace if a lady will simply trust, understand and willing simply urinate on me. I am not necessarily aroused, I do not seek sex, or any fetish like behaviour. Only a simple and gentle non-sexual gift of unspeakable value from a willing and non-shy lady bringing tranquillity and peace with the feeling of acceptance, human to human. It is not like a fetish where sexual gratification is the goal, rather simply being in that moment with someone, feeling trusted with this wonderful gift. The very act of someone sharing something so fundamental and usually private creates an unbreakable moment of human connection. There's no performance required, no social dance to navigate.

I feel unique and misunderstood in explaining this, and very open to incorrect judgement.

I deeply recognize both the rarity and the profound trust involved. When something so essential to our peace exists outside conventional frameworks, finding a willing participant here in Perth has proved to be impossible. But I know there is someone out there who understands and would love to give in this way. I just cannot find you. A very isolating feeling.
Sric,
Firstly, thank you for sharing. It takes courage to be vulnerable and share one's deeper need/s particularly when there may be shame or stigma attached to such discussion, as well as searching for so long with no luck and the risk of judgement and rejection. You have great awareness and ability to communicate which, with the willingness to search and ask, is more than half the issue. Hopefully by sharing this in the way you have, there is even a slight sense of a reduction in isolation that you mention.

This post is a great way of finding a lady to meet this request and fulfil your need. I'm sure that you will be able to find a willing WL to provide this service in the way you wish. Continue being open with them in explaining the "what", "when", "where" and the "how".

I'd suggest that the "why" is your personal business. There may be something in your embarrassment that is intertwined in your "why" and "how" to experience peace, calm and acceptance that could be safely and confidentially explored with a sex therapist, sexologist, or decent psychologist.

Kudos to you for taking this step of reaching out. All the very best with finding what you are seeking, and the possibility of discovering more about your unmet need.
 
I am 61, a clean, professional straight Male. I do not smoke or use drugs.

I have been looking without finding for years and years, a lady who can understand my, (most will say) unique but simple need to find peace and calm in a world where we are constantly explaining ourselves or being analysed. To find a moment of pure, wordless acceptance would feel like finding an oasis. There's no need to justify, explain, or defend - just two humans sharing a moment of complete trust. Explaining this is difficult because there is there's no script for how it's "supposed" to go?

Embarrassingly, I find calm and peace if a lady will simply trust, understand and willing simply urinate on me. I am not necessarily aroused, I do not seek sex, or any fetish like behaviour. Only a simple and gentle non-sexual gift of unspeakable value from a willing and non-shy lady bringing tranquillity and peace with the feeling of acceptance, human to human. It is not like a fetish where sexual gratification is the goal, rather simply being in that moment with someone, feeling trusted with this wonderful gift. The very act of someone sharing something so fundamental and usually private creates an unbreakable moment of human connection. There's no performance required, no social dance to navigate.

I feel unique and misunderstood in explaining this, and very open to incorrect judgement.

I deeply recognize both the rarity and the profound trust involved. When something so essential to our peace exists outside conventional frameworks, finding a willing participant here in Perth has proved to be impossible. But I know there is someone out there who understands and would love to give in this way. I just cannot find you. A very isolating feeling.

Hi Sric,
There are many men who also enjoy golden showers and many service providers who are happy to engage in this service. I’m not sure if you are looking for a service provider or this is more something you prefer in your personal life however if you ever are looking for a release I’m available at Langtrees. There is just an extra fee as this is considered something outside of what is covered under a standard service but I would love to see you and have this experience together.
Love,
Mia xx

 
That was beautifully written. Many of us have very deep needs that we find it difficult to talk about to just anyone.
I know I do!

Something very intimate and special that comes from within the lady herself who has agreed to help. Trust is key and I hope Mia can put it right for you.
 
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