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Here are nine indicators that you and your partner are compatible:1. You Don't Hesitate to Speak Up
When you live together, it's simple to spot when your partner does something you don't like; perhaps they don't call you for two days or don't help out around the house. However, it's not always simple to express your feelings to your significant other. You'll feel confident enough in a relationship, to be honest with your partner.
2. The foundation of any relationship is trust
All relationships are built on trust, but with social media and smartphones, it can be all too simple to snoop. But you don't have to do that in a happy relationship. That's in part because your partner has proven to you that they are reliable. Giving you the freedom and space you require without continuously checking in on you, including checking your phone, is another way they demonstrate their faith in you.
3. You understand each other's language of love
The 5 Love Languages is a book that many couples rely on since it reveals your partner's preferred method of expressing and receiving love (through words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, acts of service, or physical touch). You have spent time learning each other's "love languages" in a healthy relationship so that you may communicate your love in a way that is comfortable for both of you.
4. You Acknowledge Disagreement on Some Matters
Every couple argues. Contrary to popular belief, you do not have to address every problem. In fact, it's acceptable to have a few issues that you and your partner will never resolve. Sometimes "agreeing to disagree" is perfectly acceptable. There are at least five topics that are "no talkers" in happy partnerships. These are the topics on which you two have different viewpoints, and that's okay.
5. You Support One Another in Pursuing Your Objectives
It's acceptable if your dreams don't line up with one another as long as you "respect and encourage each other to reach your goals," since "many of us have a dream or vision for our lives, and especially as we age, we want to preserve those visions."
6. Your partner and you have different interests
The strongest relationships are those between partners who are able to preserve their interests without blaming the other for not sharing them. In other words, you both support one another as they pursue their passions independently.
7: You feel at ease in your own skin
Knowing your strengths and shortcomings is essential when you're in a relationship, Perhaps you are self-assured at work but confident around friends. Or you are aware that minor irritations, such as your partner forgetting to take out the garbage, can cause you to lose your temper. Whatever your qualities are, being conscious of them can help you get to a place where you can love and accept yourself, which can then help you love and accept your spouse.
8. Boundaries Are Respected and Honored
In a good relationship, you should be supporting one another. Both parties in a healthy relationship talk and settle on significant issues that matter to one another. An unsupportive partner in a toxic relationship doesn't respect that objective and may even damage it by pressuring you to spend money on useless things.
9. You Experience Joy and Support
Check-in with yourself once the novelty of a new relationship has worn off to see if you still feel content and supported by your spouse. How do you feel about yourself right now? It's healthy to communicate with your significant other if you experience any strain or a lack of support.
