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18 Years old, and a Submissive sex worker?!

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Ariel Dilyn

Hello kinksters!

I have had a lot of mix responses to my services and I just wanted to see what you guys have to say about it!

I'm recently turned 18 and my services (although I still offer a very fun standard service) are very fetish and kink based.
I have had some clients and workers show some mix feelings about me doing the services I do.

Some people, of course, just full stop don't understand my submissive nature and how pain/submission/BDSM works and why I'd do it in my private life, let alone at work with strangers.

Some people look at my age and instantly assume I'm in desperate need of money, or have no idea what i'm getting myself into.

Some people look at my prices and tell me to CHARGE MORE for my services. As an example, I provide anal as an extra. But I've been told I don't charge enough extra for it?

All in all, I really love my job, I am not in it for the money, above all else pleasing people is the force that makes me want to work. I am a pain slut who loves LoVeS LOVES making people feel great about themselves and safe in the knowledge that no judgement will ever be shot your way for a fetish you indulge in during your time with me.
 
Being submissive by nature myself I fully get the dynamics/emotional reward that comes from being a sub.
Where this is only one person I see work wise I feel comfortable and safe with them it's not something I personally feel safe doing with any body else.

May I ask how much extra you charge for anal?
I offer anal and IMO anything under $100 fantasy fee is to low in saying this I fully respect what ladies charge for extra's is their own personal choice.

WL who are very open being subs is very uncommon and perhaps this if where some of the lack of understanding/judgement may be coming from. In my 20 years this is only the 3rd time I have come across a lady like your self

Some years ago in my private life I was involved in BDSM with a male friend on what could be called an extreme level. I still have the scars on my arse 10 years on. I was not in a good space as far as self esteem or respect for myself. One night he crossed the line and branded my arse this was not part of the agreement and it was after this point I saw the danger in what I was doing.

The thing with these types of fantasy one level no longer excites so you go to the next and so on. BDSM is something you do with a person you fully trust and as time go's on the trust builds but as I know from my own experience it can go terrible wrong and scared for life.

Please don't take my comments are judgment in any way as that is not my intention. I am only talking as someone who has done this.

Is this a safe service to do with any Joe Blow who walks off the street?
Have you got a safety plan in place or people at your work place if something go's wrong
Do you know your limit?
These are some things that come to mind

At the end of the day luv it's your life, your body.
Only you can choose how you wish to be treated by men
I will be completely honest your young age would worry me, I have children older then you.
But again luv I don't judge you in any way. I'm the sort of lady to be very honest and upfront on what I think.
What other people think just brush it off, if they disapprove of what you are doing that is there issue.
I posted this on here before but will do it again. One of the best things every said to me was "Not every one is going to like you" and I always remember this when people or their comment's/judgment are getting to me.

I'm a BBW WL and know it's not easy to cut it in an industry build on looks and glamour, being outside what is classed as the norm.

Wishing you all the best
 
In my private sexual life I certainly find myself in the dom spectrum and have been in a relationship with a submissive woman who was also a W/L. She didn't advertise herself as a sub due to the same uneducated things that are said to you.
She had a great paying part time job that have her ample money, she was a W/L because she enjoyed it. I think it's great that you are open about it and wish you the best of luck.
You provide an invaluable service, especially to those wanting to explore their dom side in a safe environment. The kink community in Canberra is great but sometimes there are people who do not want to be so open (Canberra being the public service place it is). You are a wonderful alternative.

I hope we can arrange a session one day :)
 
I am very safe in my sessions. I only work in house and being a lounge setting, I do get to scan my clients before arranging my sessions. I also discuss discuss discuss before a booking. I will also generally opt to avoid full restraints and work with the clients wishes to make sure we are both safe before we have a scene,

I know my age tends to ring alarm bells, but people don't know me before they let them sound. My madam never hires girls my age, especially ones offering my services but she made an exception because she and I had a long discussion and she realised i'm not the average teenage girl, in any stretch of the imagination. My kinks and extras are something I WANT to provide. Not something I have to. I get lots of standard bookings, and will turn someone down for an extra that I don't want to provide to them. I am good at reading people, and very safe when making decisions about how to conduct my bookings. Everything is at my discretion and I make sure my clients know that before I even think of entering a scene with them. I completely respect your views on this, Miss Monique. And I understand another level gets added when you have children to compare other workers to. I appreciate your advice, acceptance and opinions on the matter.

Although this all sounds very clean cut and boring, thats not how my sessions are once we are in the room!

Magrov, thanks for sharing your story. It really helps my case and helps explain it for others who see this post. I've had people come in looking for a standard booking, open them up and bring them into my kinky little world. Helping people find what makes them feel the best they possibly can is my favourite thing. I take both submissive and dominant bookings for that reason.
Id love to have a booking with you someday, also! You're welcome to call the VIP Lounge or message me here privately and have a chat about it whenever you like,
 
Are the people telling you to charge more for your extra's working ladies as well? This could be due to them feeling you may be making them lose out on potential clients because they charge x amount for the same services.

Good call on the no restraints during a submissive session! I can tell you have thought out your services and know what you are wanting from this industry. I think this is something to be admired!

Xx
 
Ariel Dilyn said:
Hello kinksters!

I have had a lot of mix responses to my services and I just wanted to see what you guys have to say about it!

I'm recently turned 18 and my services (although I still offer a very fun standard service) are very fetish and kink based.
I have had some clients and workers show some mix feelings about me doing the services I do.

Some people, of course, just full stop don't understand my submissive nature and how pain/submission/BDSM works and why I'd do it in my private life, let alone at work with strangers.

Some people look at my age and instantly assume I'm in desperate need of money, or have no idea what i'm getting myself into.

Some people look at my prices and tell me to CHARGE MORE for my services. As an example, I provide anal as an extra. But I've been told I don't charge enough extra for it?

All in all, I really love my job, I am not in it for the money, above all else pleasing people is the force that makes me want to work. I am a pain slut who loves LoVeS LOVES making people feel great about themselves and safe in the knowledge that no judgement will ever be shot your way for a fetish you indulge in during your time with me.
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hi Ariel Bilyn and welcome to the forum :-)
1st up you do what you think is right by you and not someone else , if you are happy with your prices and how and what you do then screw them all .

if clients believe you should be charging more then they can give you a heavy tip befor they leave your presence :-) :-)


always enjoy what you do and you will never work hard in your life time :-)
 
maybe im wrong but I take a true dom/sub relationship to be built up trust and mutual.
in a paying situation I would have thought its far to common just to get a guy that enjoys hurting and humiliating women masquerading as a "dom"
 
Thats not accurate at all. I service many dominants and have wonderful work relationships with them. I truly enjoy submitting, and obviously am not going to submit to anybody who shows signs of being abusive.

Not all submissive and dominant relationships are built on love. Mutural respect, trust and a deep understanding of ones limits and the obvious enforced use of safe words and protocol can make for a fun, safe and enjoyable booking.

Finding people in the outside world who are interested and happy to take part in certain fetishes is hard for even some of the best, most experienced dominants
 
Ginger Spice said:
Are the people telling you to charge more for your extra's working ladies as well? This could be due to them feeling you may be making them lose out on potential clients because they charge x amount for the same services.

Good call on the no restraints during a submissive session! I can tell you have thought out your services and know what you are wanting from this industry. I think this is something to be admired!

Xx
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People are trying to make me charge more for lots of things, even more vanilla services such as anal.

Im glad there is a submissive worker out there on my side who provides similar services and shares my opinions on the subject.

♡♡♡
 
Ariel Dilyn said:
People are trying to make me charge more for lots of things, even more vanilla services such as anal.

Im glad there is a submissive worker out there on my side who provides similar services and shares my opinions on the subject.

♡♡♡
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What's your number and are you available tonight
 
Thedamage said:
What's your number and are you available tonight
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Welcome to the forum hun if you could pop an avatar pic up that would be great if you need help yell out.
And the gorgeous Ariel can be found at Langtree's in Canberra
 
Ariel Dilyn said:
People are trying to make me charge more for lots of things, even more vanilla services such as anal.

Im glad there is a submissive worker out there on my side who provides similar services and shares my opinions on the subject.

♡♡♡
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I do offer a submissive service, but I am not submissive outside of that service :)

You should also tell these people to mind their own beeswax, I would lose my sh*t if a girl ever questioned why I charge the amount I do for extra's (whether it be too small, too big) We all know what our service is worth and in all honesty an experienced submissive working lady is a dime in a dozen so you have next to no one to compare your prices with.

I think peta's words "not my box, not my problem" is appropriate in a time like this.... I don't care what other ladies charge for extra's in the room, or what extra's she does as long as she isnt putting herself or me at risk lol.
 
ozwarlock67 said:
Anyone know if Ariel is still working? Her phone seems permanently set to voicemail.
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Sadly Ariel is nit listed on Langtree website or been on here since August 2016
Perhaps she has left the industry, moved on or gone private. All the best in finding her sweetheart
 
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