SELF CARE 💅🏻💆🏼‍♀️💎

[Francecsa Fine]

What are your self care routines ? I can’t stress the importance of taking time out for yourself after a day with clients (regardless of what your job is!) but particularly escorting and full service SW. Every day we take on the energy of people around us but more so as working ladies in this industry. We have to wear many hats during a shift, we can be therapists, porn stars, motherly figures, doms, subs, just to name a few. And on the odd occasion we have to deal with difficult clients who aren’t so nice to us. A few suggestions from me to you

get yourself a black obsidian Yoni egg and wear it for an hour or two when your shift is over, black obsidian is great for removing any negativity you may have picked up.

take a salt bath or a hot shower and imagine the water washing away anything from the day that doesn’t serve you.

have a hot lemon and honey drink and stay off social media for a couple of hours post shift.

These three things help me immensely. Be kind to yourself, you are providing a service for people from all walks of life and that can be a great experience but it can also be mentally challenging at times.. and lastly, tell yourself tomorrow is a new day!

 

[Honey Diamond]

I like to take extra time before bed at the end of my shift to do my skincare! And sometimes if our timing lines up I sit on the phone with my best friend to decompress and discuss how my shift went. If I can’t get her on the phone sometimes I’ll talk to my cat about mt shift- talking about my night out loud really helps me feel like I’m leaving the night behind me!

 

[Francecsa Fine]

I like to take extra time before bed at the end of my shift to do my skincare! And sometimes if our timing lines up I sit on the phone with my best friend to decompress and discuss how my shift went. If I can’t get her on the phone sometimes I’ll talk to my cat about mt shift- talking about my night out loud really helps me feel like I’m leaving the night behind me!

Awesome this is perfect I also talk to my cat they understand us in their own way

 

[WildBrumby]

I used to stop on the way home and have a coffee as a circuit breaker to not take stress of the shift home. It also helped to get off the adrenaline rush if I had a difficult callout.

 

[Francecsa Fine]

I used to stop on the way home and have a coffee as a circuit breaker to not take stress of the shift home. It also helped to get off the adrenaline rush if I had a difficult callout.

Coffee makes everything better !

 

[DickieWu]

I used to stop on the way home and have a coffee as a circuit breaker to not take stress of the shift home. It also helped to get off the adrenaline rush if I had a difficult callout.

 

[WildBrumby]

I think this thread is awesome, really great content, engages thought. Some brilliant self-care ideas.