Ps.. I kno thin women get scrutinised for their size just as much, I am against all size discrimination. Just bigger women seem to disgust people in general, so it is harder to be yourself and be positive.. rant over lol x
We all have unique personalities and come in unique packages, short, tall, fat, skinny, black, white... Who fuckin cares <<taken many years for me figure that one out.
I'm me and I'm unique and I love that. I am one of these freaks who cannot put weight on as much as I would like too. 6'2 and 73kg (I used to be 70kg my whole life but I put on 3kg in last two years woohoo lol, mind you eat like a horse and mainly carbohydrates due to my workplace)
I was very conscious of this but now in my late 30s I could not care less. This attitude has played the biggest part changing sexual interactions ie. being more comfortable directly equates to being more extroverted
As mentioned by Happy2 media plays the biggest role, in my opinion, at skewing societies expectations. However I do believe this 'ideal woman' is slowly fading. Some media outlets are conscious of this now and don't touch up photos for instance. Plus size modeling agencies are not short of work either.
The internet is probably the leader in this field. Sure there is dedicated BBW websites but more importantly there is social networking, dating sites, forums and the like. This is real people uploading media of themselves untouched, unaltered. Just take a look at all the amateur porn out there on the www. A vast percentage of these participants are not your stereo typed average. Youtube, facebook, dating sites it's out there everywhere eroding perceptions by stealth. Basically the more society sees 'normal' people the media greater the acceptance.
It can only get better....
You really got me thinking about my like of BBW particularly my bulging pubic mound remark and it reminded me of a paper I once read.
Essentially we as humans are built and programmed to reproduce. The different genders have vastly differing methods of choosing partners. It all comes back to the hunters and gatherers scenario albeit it in this instance breeders and nurturers.
Men are here is this respect to sow the seeds and do it as often as possible to pass on his dominant genes. To ensure success the male 'sizes' up his potential partner. Big boobs signal the ability to suckle and rear offspring, a rotund belly indicates an ideal incubator and so on.
While society has changed and sex is almost exclusively about pleasure studies show that this 'sizing up' process still takes place.
In that vein one may draw a conclusion that a bulging public mound could be to some an advertisement of fertility and thus an attraction.
Women on the other hand when sizing up a partner look for different key indicators. For example big muscles indicate health and strength to be passed on. In theory their ability to reproduce is limited to once every 12 months so she will be more selective to ensure success.
OMG think I have changed the tone this thread from erotic to intellectual, socially and psychologically analyzing sex, who do I think I am the offspring of some Barbara and Alan Pease and Dr Phil ménage et trios.
I’m a tradie not a scholar, I apologise.
What are you doing to me HotSexyBBW? I joined this site to think with my dick not my head lol
Back to thinking with my little head, mmmmm eating scrumptious BBW pussy