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Katie Quinn

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Alain De Botton In this rigorous and supremely honest book Alain de Botton helps us navigate the intimate and exciting - yet often confusing and difficult - experience that is sex. Few of us tend to feel we're entirely normal when it comes to sex, and what we're supposed to be feeling rarely matches up with the reality. This book argues that 21st-century sex is ultimately fated to be a balancing act between love and desire, and adventure and commitment. Covering topics that include lust, fetishism, adultery and pornography, Alain de Botton frankly articulates the dilemmas of modern sexuality, offering insights and...

How to think more about sex .

 
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pause78

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Alain De Botton In this rigorous and supremely honest book Alain de Botton helps us navigate the intimate and exciting - yet often confusing and difficult - experience that is sex. Few of us tend to feel we're entirely normal when it comes to sex, and what we're supposed to be feeling rarely matches up with the reality. This book argues that 21st-century sex is ultimately fated to be a balancing act between love and desire, and adventure and commitment. Covering topics that include lust, fetishism, adultery and pornography, Alain de Botton frankly articulates the dilemmas of modern sexuality, offering insights and...

How to think more about sex .

Thanks for sharing @katiehellokitt2 , just started reading The Ethical Slut that you mentioned in another thread, so will read this new book after that :)
 

Katie Quinn

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Pictures of bookcases please Iā€™m fascinated and stealing ideas for book Depository!

Iā€™ve contemplated the library but being a minimalist I really enjoy collecting books and not much else ...

Xxx have a happy Saturday everybody
 

Katie Quinn

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I read that years ago. I even have a copy and have been to a few of Allan Pease's Body Language Conferences :)
Where were they held ??

Probably not useful as they wouldnā€™t be doing them anymore ..

Do you have any recommendations for further reading after those conferences please ?
 

pause78

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Perhaps this article will help you

Really interesting, thanks for sharing!

I guess a lot of times it depends on what else is happening in a persons life and how they deal with it.

If life is stressful then one person may not think about sex at all, while others in a stressful circumstance use sex as an escape and can think of little else.

This is where Emily Nagoskiā€™s description of ā€œacceleratorsā€ and ā€œbrakesā€ really helps shed light on an individuals sexual response to different stimuli.
 

Penny S

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Tell you what For me weather its a bad day or somehow not a busy day I'm thinking of SEX
 

Terti

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Really interesting, thanks for sharing!

I guess a lot of times it depends on what else is happening in a persons life and how they deal with it.

If life is stressful then one person may not think about sex at all, while others in a stressful circumstance use sex as an escape and can think of little else.

This is where Emily Nagoskiā€™s description of ā€œacceleratorsā€ and ā€œbrakesā€ really helps shed light on an individuals sexual response to different stimuli.
I agree with you pause , depends on life circumstances
 
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