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Working in the sex industry......

Yes, agree wholeheartedly!

However, must say, when it comes to the work place, what is said and what is meant can be two different things.

For example:
"Why don't you have a boyfriend?"
Translation =
"I want a regular root but I either can't or won't afford to keep coming back to see you so I'll try it on and see if you buy it."
Or
"Will you be my fuck buddy because I want a regular free root?"

Or if your client is less savvy:
Translation =
"That crazy sex can only mean that we are in love and I want you all to myself!"
Red flag - needy and possessive.

Either way this means headfuck and drama, no WL should want or need to deal with-
Or!
Perhaps experience of turning the wrong clients into boyfriends leaves me jaded and wary of emotional attachment with what should be a simple yet fun business transaction with NSA.

Disclaimer: I am sure that there are other translations I have not added here because all clientele are different with varying needs, ideas and motivations. Don't want to offend anyone!
 
client- do you have a boyfriend
me-no
client- why not?
me- because i have a girlfriend
client- so your a lesbian
me- no i like having sex with both men and women - im bi
client- oh cool

this conversation happens alot so my question is are there actually working ladies who identify themselves as lesbian but perform full service?
 
Zara Daniels said:
client- do you have a boyfriend
me-no
client- why not?
me- because i have a girlfriend
client- so your a lesbian
me- no i like having sex with both men and women - im bi
client- oh cool

this conversation happens alot so my question is are there actually working ladies who identify themselves as lesbian but perform full service?
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I can never understand why a guy would want to ask that. I met a lady in Perth once and the first thing she said to me wasn't, hi or nice to meet you etc, it was, "if you ask me anything personal I'll lie". I thought wow awesome, if a lady is confident enough to say this then I'll book her immediately :)
 
I have met a few ladies in the industry who identify as lesbian. I would call myself bi but I am not gay - the lady I fucked last night was though ;)

I once asked a girl if she would do a bi double with me, she refused because she agreed with her girlfriend that pussy is not allowed at work. I'm guessing everyone sets different rules in relationships to compromise.

I know it gets annoying with the same question over and over but it is like users calling IT support and the worker replying, "Have you tried turning it off and on again?"

Dallas is right though, pure honesty is surprisingly magnetic. A sales spiel doesn't have to be dishonest, it just needs to use the right words for reading between the lines. Politicians are very good at this.
 
HAHAHA love it!!!
Im not sure Mary-Anne would agree with that:D
perhaps we could add a "hello" at the beginning :wacky:
i am curious to know who said it but i think i have a good idea lol
 
I like to keep my personal life, personal but that's one of the standard questions we get, along with " why do you do this job" but as long as someone is just being friendly, I will always answer openly xx
 
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