Why Women’s Pleasure Still Makes People Uncomfortable

[Beverley]

Somewhere between the moan and the myth, women’s pleasure became a taboo. We live in a world that sells sex everywhere — from perfume ads to burger commercials — yet still flinches when a woman owns her desire out loud.
For centuries, female pleasure has been treated like a privilege, not a birthright. Women were taught to be the canvas, not the artist — desired, but not desiring. Even today, a man talking about pleasure is confident. A woman doing the same is “too much,” “too loud,” or “too sexual.”
But here’s the truth: pleasure isn’t shameful, it’s power. It’s connection, control, and self-knowledge wrapped in skin. Every time a woman says, “This is what I like,” she breaks a silent rule written by centuries of patriarchy.
Maybe that’s why it still makes people uncomfortable — because a woman who knows her pleasure can’t be controlled. And that kind of liberation? That’s the sexiest revolution of all.

 

[West1]

That may be true in some countries but certainly not Australia

 

[Sally]

Ah, I love reading this.
This statement is compelling and holds a painful truth. It's surprising how society can be flooded with sexual imagery, yet when a woman openly discusses her own pleasure, it's often viewed as transgressive or inappropriate. This double standard is deeply ingrained, and overcoming it requires not only courage but also community support. Posts like this contribute to that essential change. Embracing our desires goes beyond just sex—it’s about reclaiming our autonomy, voice, and self-worth. Here’s to more women becoming the architects of their own pleasure.

 

[Bigmick]

Oh god no, not for me anyway.
Absolutely love it when the lady is enjoying herself. Makes for an amazing session and connection.

 

[Phoebe]

I could be wrong here.. but since I am know on here for all things good/bad and well down right ugly too. here goes..

"You are not much of man, if you don't allow a woman to cum 1st, and actually make her cum without toys"

A REAL woman's orgasm is such a pleasure to watch and a privilege too, she only truly shares those moments with those she trusts the most, the pure heavenly experience of the female orgasm is one that should be listed as a Modern day wonder of the world....

 

[Sally]

I could be wrong here.. but since I am know on here for all things good/bad and well down right ugly too. here goes..

"You are not much of man, if you don't allow a woman to cum 1st, and actually make her cum without toys"

A REAL woman's orgasm is such a pleasure to watch and a privilege too, she only truly shares those moments with those she trusts the most, the pure heavenly experience of the female orgasm is one that should be listed as a Modern day wonder of the world....