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whip or paddle or?????????

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devlin

which is best for bondage/slave control????
I prefer a leather whip myself, though used correctly
comments or preferences??
 
Not sure about control, but I just love using a paddle for eroticism. When used correctly, and lightly it warms the bottom evenly, brings the blood to the erogenous zones and therefore enhances feeling and does leave the bottom nice and warm (or hot - lol), with a lovely pink or red shade.
Ideal before going into the doggy style position - you can feel a hot arse against you.
 
i've found both to be satisfing it all depends on my partner if she is experianced or a novice whip and cane are harsher but the paddle can be both so the paddle studded one side and plain the other is more versitile for me
 
Hmmmmmmmmm - maybe I should try and control you, Chrissie - ROFLMAO
 
I have yet to try either, Ive just hadda good ol hand spanking....one day ;D ...

It's good to hear others thoughts on it, though I do believe it would hafta be purely a personal preference
 
I've no experience in BDSM let alone being a slave but I would love to be whipped! There's something ancient and raw and real about it
 
Control?

Greetings All,
To control ?
I prefer the voice , the eyes and guiding hand.
As far as the the toys for playing then the instrument that is first choice to use on whomsoever I am playing with is the "Violet Wand" .
A gentle spanking with my hand or a mitt ,just for warm-up , an assortment of floggers , building to either the single-tail whip or one of my canes , and of course intersperse this with a gentle touch , this elicites a response simmilar to "Fire & Ice".
Depending on whether I desire my subby to "fly" or "drop".
But , , , Toys are for pleasure , , , Never for control!
 
My wife prefers a paddle to a whip. Although I'm finding it difficult to find an inexpensive paddle in Perth. Most want $70 plus!

I might try and find a table tennis paddle! Maybe the rubber covering will add some spice to the proceeding...

Interesting comment too about spanking bringing blood to the erogenous zones. Is this true? I'd be interested to know what you do after giving your lady/man a good spanking as I'm looking for some ideas right now...
 
Cacatous said:
My wife prefers a paddle to a whip. Although I'm finding it difficult to find an inexpensive paddle in Perth. Most want $70 plus!

I might try and find a table tennis paddle! Maybe the rubber covering will add some spice to the proceeding...

Interesting comment too about spanking bringing blood to the erogenous zones. Is this true? I'd be interested to know what you do after giving your lady/man a good spanking as I'm looking for some ideas right now...
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Ping-pong paddles are great for playing ping-pong - not much else. They tend to break under stress where the handle meets the paddle, which can cause some nasty scratches - and whilst they make a great noise, they really don't have any impact - great for show, lousy for sensation.

Chrissie
 
Thanks Chrissie...

Maybe I will fashion my own. If I do I'll post some pictures!
 
try a chastity belt. There are a few items on the market that can be worn long term and the effects can be powerfull .. in the least.

Add a whip into the equation and you might have the makings of an interesting time.
 
Paddles or ?

Greetings cacatous,& others,
A quick visit to your local Kiddy type toy store, will produce a wide variety of implements for this purpose, I have found some very strong plastic implements with semi-rigid plastic on one side and the hook part of Velcro on the other.Heavy duty ping-pong style paddles and a "rounders" bat (like a tiny cricket bat about 18 inches long over all).
Then We have instruments like the sole of a worn out tennis shoe, a wide-leather belt (from the op shop), And of course the home-made variety***.
A sheet of 3 1/2 mil. leather some gasket rubber and a handful of leather rivets and finally either some velvet or some suade .
Using a good quality contact adhesive, cut the leather to the desired shape including the handle, cut the gasket rubber to the same shape, glue the 2 together, decide which you desire as your impact side the leather or the rubber, punch the holes for the rivets in whatever patern you decide, and put the rivets in. Next glue the cloth or suade over the the bit you decided was not the impact side, remembering to cut it to shape including the handle. wrap the handle in tape of your preference (I like the heavy-duty canvas tape).
Now you have a simple paddle that has a "Gentle" side in whatever fabric you decided and a "Sadists"side with either leather or rubber and roudhead rivets.
If you are planning to use the "Sadist" side do remember to "Warm-up" the area to be paddled, to NOT do so could result in "Deep" bruising which can take weeks to recover from and can cause permanant damage with "Deep tissue scarring".
As for whips, oh how I love a good single tail and the welts they leave can be altered according to the tip that is used. My Mentor would not allow Me to use a single tail until I could demonstrate to His satisfaction that I could hit a spot the size of a 50cent piece at maximum range 20 times in a row , if one missed then it was start from one all over again.
Of course a whip like a cane is used towards the end of the play when all the areas to be struck are "warmed-up" to a reasonable depth.
Even floggers can be fun but like all tools need to be used properly and with the apropriate safety precautions taken
Do have FUN
 
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