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What's the best way to say 'no' to a client

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When I beginning working on my one I had on occasion where a client, who I had no chemistry with continued to phone me and even came to my motel and started banging on the door.

It was pretty scary but he eventually went away but it left me nervous.

How do other W/Ls deal with that sort of behaviour?
 
Chenell i have always found that honesty is the best poli0cy and no matter how you try to please everyone your not able to,

you can only please some of the people some of the time


John
 
SxcSamFun had a post or thread on this look up Sam's Being Picky thread
 
I am totally with Curious1 babe - sounds like you need to play a lot safer and take your safety deadly seriously - you may not be so lucky again. TRy talking to other W/L's - they may have some suggestions or may be able to reccommend someone trustworthy for you.
 
Im more than qualified and plenty of experince here and afar in security...so if you ever need some advise let me know.
Or, i could be hired for a fair price ;)
 
You gotta be strong with that no cos when we horney a little "oh thats not a good idea" type of no wont work
 
SexyBlackChanell said:
When I beginning working on my one I had on occasion where a client, who I had no chemistry with continued to phone me and even came to my motel and started banging on the door.

It was pretty scary but he eventually went away but it left me nervous.

How do other W/Ls deal with that sort of behaviour?
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First of all never let the client know where you stay/live and secondly never give the client your phone number. Stay discreet could be a good policy so secure your safety.
 
I believe the best way to say 'no' to a client is to be upfront with your service so he knows what he can do and can't do. When you are nice and polite and talk sexy, men easily accept your word.
 
Miranda said:
Why being picky, no need, all the girls are beautiful farm boy!!
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....SxcSamFun was a former member of the forum who created, if memory serves, a thread about "being picky". It wasn't Farm Boy's thread.....he was just making reference to it. :)
 
Thanks Mate. And yes I am not picky , but if it has not got Kenworth Steiger New Holland
or Land Cruiser on the bonnet Its no good.
 
When I was a young man the WL on Hay st Kal were not averse to throwing a bowl of DDW over cheeky street urchins .
 
Your post leaves me wondering Farm Boy...?
How many times were you one those 'cheeky street urchins' that copped it from the ladies on Hay St, Kalgoorlie? Lol!

And as for the 'how to let clients down gently' scenario...there is not really a fool proof way of saying 'No' in a nice way. It is best to be direct, honest and non-wavering. If you give those clients even a hint of uncertainty about your decision, they will attach themselves to that little glimmer of hope that it could develop into a more personal thing.
I would have to agree 100% with what Miranda said about not letting any industry met man know your phone number or where you live or stay under any circumstances. I would even suggest not letting them know exactly what time you finish? Let's face it, there are some real weirdo's out there and it's pretty hard to make a judgement call on whether they are or are not part of that category, during the time spent on a booking?
Over the past 20 years I have only given my number out to 3 clients...for the purpose of business exchange only, and I really ended up regretting it every time!
So learn from us old experienced ducks, that have already made all the wrong choices...and just DON'T!!! Keep your life safe...and the only guaranteed way to do that is to keep it private...

Lisa xxx
 
Farm Boy said:
When I was a young man the WL on Hay st Kal were not averse to throwing a bowl of DDW over cheeky street urchins .
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As a bloke of similar vintage I think you will find it wasn't DDW rather a cruder liquid they threw at you FB If the w/l's from Dingy old roe street were any guide
 
happy2 said:
As a bloke of similar vintage I think you will find it wasn't DDW rather a cruder liquid they threw at you FB If the w/l's from Dingy old roe street were any guide
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Well H2 you know that little bowl the girls washed there clients with when checking punters then after its all over themselves, ( bear back sex in those days) that in polite society was known as Dirty Dick Water , but your right the true details are more gruesome.
 
Farm Boy said:
Well H2 you know that little bowl the girls washed there clients with when checking punters then after its all over themselves, ( bear back sex in those days) that in polite society was known as Dirty Dick Water , but your right the true details are more gruesome.
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Well I may not be a dirty dick but I am a Stupid Dick I thought it may have been Dirty Dish Water
 
You on the right track now H2 the girls washed Dicks someone else did the dishes .
 
The best way to say NO? to a client?
How about a gentle(Or not so gentle) knee to the nether regions?
 
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