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What women want in bed 2020

Harlots_Bec

Harlots Mackay
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“A lot of men think that they know exactly what women want in bed. Whether this is male ego or just a fear of asking women directly, it’s not really clear. However, combined with the fact that a lot of women are also afraid of speaking up and asking for what they want, this leads to plenty of unfulfilling sexual encounters.

To counteract that, we’d like to present a list of some of the top things women really want in bed.

  • More foreplay : Instead of jumping right in, the vast majority of women asked stated they all want more foreplay. Not only does it increase the odds of orgasm, it also makes your partner feel like she is the most important person in the world when you pay extra attention to her.
  • Surprise Us : The longer you’ve been together, the more predictable sex can get. However, a lot of women would love to be surprised by you in unpredictable places or at unpredictable times. Get frisky in the kitchen. Send a text during the day about getting lucky right when you get home. Different is exciting, and can remind you both what you love about each other.
  • Compliment Us More : Logically, if we’re having sex, you think we’re attractive. But it’s easy to feel self conscious when the clothes come off. Tell us how beautiful we are when we’re naked, talk about the parts of our body that really turn you on. We may not believe it, but it helps to hear it.
  • Bring The Romance : Light some candles, put rose petals on the bed, meet us at the door with a glass of our favorite wine and the lights down low. Putting a little additional effort into making alone time special and romantic does a lot for how turned on we get.
  • Be Patient : Generally speaking, it takes women longer to have orgasms than men. What they don’t talk about is that women are perceptive, and we know if you’re starting to get bored or impatient. Just telling us to take our time, and not watching the clock, lets us relax enough to be able to focus more on getting off.
  • Be Vocal : Seriously, if it feels good, let us know! Just moaning your approval to something we’re doing boosts our ego and turns us on more than you know. Don’t hold those noises in, let them out!
  • Don’t Forget About Our G-Spot! : When foreplay gets skipped or done too quickly, lots of women’s erogenous zones get missed. This is unfortunate, because the g-spot is one of the most pleasurable and exciting spots of the female body! Want to make your partner literally shake? Remember the g-spot, which can be found by making a “come here” motion with your fingers while they are inside of her. Not to mention, this means extra foreplay!”
 

Goodstuff36 Bon truc in french

Goodstuff. Bon truc in french
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Do you agree or disagree? Post your opinions below ladies & gents!


“A lot of men think that they know exactly what women want in bed. Whether this is male ego or just a fear of asking women directly, it’s not really clear. However, combined with the fact that a lot of women are also afraid of speaking up and asking for what they want, this leads to plenty of unfulfilling sexual encounters.

To counteract that, we’d like to present a list of some of the top things women really want in bed.

  • More foreplay : Instead of jumping right in, the vast majority of women asked stated they all want more foreplay. Not only does it increase the odds of orgasm, it also makes your partner feel like she is the most important person in the world when you pay extra attention to her.
  • Surprise Us : The longer you’ve been together, the more predictable sex can get. However, a lot of women would love to be surprised by you in unpredictable places or at unpredictable times. Get frisky in the kitchen. Send a text during the day about getting lucky right when you get home. Different is exciting, and can remind you both what you love about each other.
  • Compliment Us More : Logically, if we’re having sex, you think we’re attractive. But it’s easy to feel self conscious when the clothes come off. Tell us how beautiful we are when we’re naked, talk about the parts of our body that really turn you on. We may not believe it, but it helps to hear it.
  • Bring The Romance : Light some candles, put rose petals on the bed, meet us at the door with a glass of our favorite wine and the lights down low. Putting a little additional effort into making alone time special and romantic does a lot for how turned on we get.
  • Be Patient : Generally speaking, it takes women longer to have orgasms than men. What they don’t talk about is that women are perceptive, and we know if you’re starting to get bored or impatient. Just telling us to take our time, and not watching the clock, lets us relax enough to be able to focus more on getting off.
  • Be Vocal : Seriously, if it feels good, let us know! Just moaning your approval to something we’re doing boosts our ego and turns us on more than you know. Don’t hold those noises in, let them out!
  • Don’t Forget About Our G-Spot! : When foreplay gets skipped or done too quickly, lots of women’s erogenous zones get missed. This is unfortunate, because the g-spot is one of the most pleasurable and exciting spots of the female body! Want to make your partner literally shake? Remember the g-spot, which can be found by making a “come here” motion with your fingers while they are inside of her. Not to mention, this means extra foreplay!”
Got a hard on while reading this.
 
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Tania Admin

Women are quite forthright these days. From my personal experiences women are generally much more open about what they want than men.
And the older women get, the more comfortable they are in their sexuality and insuring their sexual, sensual and emotional needs are met in the bedroom.
 

Harlots_Bec

Harlots Mackay
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"Women’s Sexual Peak Age Range
Women (and men) in their 20s typically have sex more frequently than people in their 40s and beyond. But for women, “sexual peak” is often associated with sexual satisfaction, which tends to increase with age as people (and their partners) become more familiar with their bodies and confident in their desires.
Interestingly, sexual dysfunction in women tends to decline as they age. And once the fear of unintended pregnancy is gone (thank you, menopause!) some women enjoy sex in a way they didn’t when they were younger.
Psychologist and sex therapist David Schnarch says we should make a distinction between “genital prime” and “sexual prime.” Our bodies change as we get older, but typically our capacity for intimacy increases. Men and women of all ages can have exciting, satisfying sex lives."

 
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Tania Admin

Interesting article.
I must say that most of the women I know that are over 35 have a much higher drive than my younger friends. I also noticed this a lot when in a reception or management position within the industry.
 
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Madmax1700

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Do you agree or disagree? Post your opinions below ladies & gents!


“A lot of men think that they know exactly what women want in bed. Whether this is male ego or just a fear of asking women directly, it’s not really clear. However, combined with the fact that a lot of women are also afraid of speaking up and asking for what they want, this leads to plenty of unfulfilling sexual encounters.

To counteract that, we’d like to present a list of some of the top things women really want in bed.

  • More foreplay : Instead of jumping right in, the vast majority of women asked stated they all want more foreplay. Not only does it increase the odds of orgasm, it also makes your partner feel like she is the most important person in the world when you pay extra attention to her.
  • Surprise Us : The longer you’ve been together, the more predictable sex can get. However, a lot of women would love to be surprised by you in unpredictable places or at unpredictable times. Get frisky in the kitchen. Send a text during the day about getting lucky right when you get home. Different is exciting, and can remind you both what you love about each other.
  • Compliment Us More : Logically, if we’re having sex, you think we’re attractive. But it’s easy to feel self conscious when the clothes come off. Tell us how beautiful we are when we’re naked, talk about the parts of our body that really turn you on. We may not believe it, but it helps to hear it.
  • Bring The Romance : Light some candles, put rose petals on the bed, meet us at the door with a glass of our favorite wine and the lights down low. Putting a little additional effort into making alone time special and romantic does a lot for how turned on we get.
  • Be Patient : Generally speaking, it takes women longer to have orgasms than men. What they don’t talk about is that women are perceptive, and we know if you’re starting to get bored or impatient. Just telling us to take our time, and not watching the clock, lets us relax enough to be able to focus more on getting off.
  • Be Vocal : Seriously, if it feels good, let us know! Just moaning your approval to something we’re doing boosts our ego and turns us on more than you know. Don’t hold those noises in, let them out!
  • Don’t Forget About Our G-Spot! : When foreplay gets skipped or done too quickly, lots of women’s erogenous zones get missed. This is unfortunate, because the g-spot is one of the most pleasurable and exciting spots of the female body! Want to make your partner literally shake? Remember the g-spot, which can be found by making a “come here” motion with your fingers while they are inside of her. Not to mention, this means extra foreplay!”
Oh my, so many needs....... no chance for the man if it’s 3 some 🤪🤪🤪🤪😂
 

Sexty8

Sexty8 - you do me , and then I owe you one!
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I think a good tip is that the foreplay needs to last longer than it takes to read this article 😜
 
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Tania Admin

What is this foreplay you speak of? 😀
Foreplay.
Foreplay in a "one night stand or Friend With Benefits situation" is important and a smart woman will lead the way.

Foreplay in a relationship is emotional and sexual and is ongoing. Compliments, a w i n k, kind words, being helpful, appreciation and of course intimacy,,it's a constant.
 

Phoebe

Some Village lost an Idiot!
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Foreplay.
Foreplay in a "one night stand or Friend With Benefits situation" is important and a smart women will lead the way.

Foreplay in a relationship is emotional and sexual and is ongoing. Compliments, a w i n k, kind words, being helpful, appreciation and of course intimacy,,it's a constant.

I would sooner foreplay than intercourse at times..
 

AusGopher

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While having a conversation, why not give the lady a massage instead the man getting one or giving him the first massage. The lady is most probably under stress to "perform", so allowing her to relax hopefully will make her feel better.
 

SashaL

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"Women’s Sexual Peak Age Range
Women (and men) in their 20s typically have sex more frequently than people in their 40s and beyond. But for women, “sexual peak” is often associated with sexual satisfaction, which tends to increase with age as people (and their partners) become more familiar with their bodies and confident in their desires.
Interestingly, sexual dysfunction in women tends to decline as they age. And once the fear of unintended pregnancy is gone (thank you, menopause!) some women enjoy sex in a way they didn’t when they were younger.
Psychologist and sex therapist David Schnarch says we should make a distinction between “genital prime” and “sexual prime.” Our bodies change as we get older, but typically our capacity for intimacy increases. Men and women of all ages can have exciting, satisfying sex lives."


OMG so my sexual peak is still ahead? I'm horny all the time now, what's gonna be later :eek:
 
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