Hm...well from my experiences as a transexual woman and from other transgirls ive talked to, most people who seem to be 'obsesses' with trans people basically want the 'best of both worlds'. Not only does the media percieve us to be nothing but sex objects, but it seems society in general has a...facination with us because its different i suppose...its out there...
But the key thing to remember is transgirls ARE women. We just sometimes have cocks. I've had a few experiences where people treat me like a man, and i find it very degrading to my gender identity and to me as a person...
Sorry about the angry rant, it just kind of ticks me off when i hear transgirls being reffered to as 'men' or sex objects...thanks