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Sugar babies?

Be very careful and clear of what the expectations are for both participants. Not a route to anything permanent or even really lasting. If you are the type of person who might get attached, or jealous, steer well clear.
 
I tried for a while here, but there's not a great deal of options and it was very slow to get anything organised. Met one girl, picked her up from work, she then tells me she's not quite 17 yet, dropped her off at the next bus stop. Another one, cute but wanted me to bring an up to date STI test printout with me. Third one, 30's and lots of fun but unreliable.

There were a few that seemed to expect to be paid to go on 'dates'

The scene here is nothing compared to the UK. If you ever get over there, join seeking.com and have a new girl every night, whatever your taste. I lived over there a bit and it was an absolute gold mine but you've got to filter the weirdos carefully. Even had several regulars from seeking that I never paid a penny, they just wanted someone who wasn't a complete loser like most men.

As Dick says, be careful about expectations as there are some on there that want to get pregnant to someone who has money.......
 
So older blokes I know has said very similar, you wanna be very clear of what the arrangement is and you will deal with a lot of hit and misses as many are seeking to just get paid to do basically nothing and will find many who will promise one thing but not deliver so be prepared to just dump and move onto the next girl and don’t get played ,

But probably most importantly only get into it if you’re seeking a girl for fun times not an emotional connection on a deeper level as it isn’t real and you can only hurt yourself.

And lastly try avoid any girls who are connected to you in anyway as having a daughters friend as one can lead to an awkward situation haha
 
I've been doing the 'sugar' thing for about 7 years. seeking.com is the site I use. I have found it to be very productive! As mentioned above don't confuse love and lust and beware the weirdo's (and there are a lot of them) Stay clear of the ones who clearly think it would be your privilege to date them, you know the instafamouus, aren't I gorgeous types. I have had some red hot encounters but my rule is 2- 3 months and I'm done and I move on to the next. Send lots of messages out, nothing will happen unless you make it happen. Don't share your pics until you are certain she's worth the next step. If you pick the right girls money is way less an issue, treat them well, be a gentleman and you will be repaid x 10.
 
I noticed there is an app for Seeking for Android but not for iOS. Scroll down to the end of the webpage for the app link.

Another reason why I recently purchased a cheap Android second phone. iOS doesn’t allow some apps.
 
IrvingMorrell2 said:
Anyone here use one of the sugar daddy / baby websites? Any recommendations?

Anyone here been a sugar daddy? Thoughts? Things to look out for?
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Yes I do! I’ve been a sugar baby before and can only speak upon my successes although happy to help you out if you need some advice. Just ask away!
 
Foxii said:
It’s depends on you and your SB. Everyone has a different preference. It can start from ppm which isn’t the best option. A weekly or monthly allowance is where it’s at.
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I agree. After a coffee/cocktail meet I always go for a monthly allowance. It feels less like a transaction for both then.
 
Temporarily looked into seeking.com didn’t appear to be many profiles for Perth. Some of the women I know from other sites so decided to give this website a miss.
 
WildBrumby said:
Temporarily looked into seeking.com didn’t appear to be many profiles for Perth. Some of the women I know from other sites so decided to give this website a miss.
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There are definitely duplications from other sites, these are the ones to mostly steer clear of. There are some serial offenders too (mostly nut jobs) I would suspect that with hard financial times in 2023 there will be a wider selection coming on line :-)
 
mrys said:
There are definitely duplications from other sites, these are the ones to mostly steer clear of. There are some serial offenders too (mostly nut jobs) I would suspect that with hard financial times in 2023 there will be a wider selection coming on line :)
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You nailed it with “serial offenders” some of the women I know are time wasters that enjoy the thrill of the chase, being pursued, then ghost you when the hard questions of a meetup occur. They’ve be doing it for years, masters of their craft.🤷‍♂️
 
jhendon said:
I tried for a while here, but there's not a great deal of options and it was very slow to get anything organised. Met one girl, picked her up from work, she then tells me she's not quite 17 yet, dropped her off at the next bus stop.
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She was legal. Not worth even trying her out?
 
I’ve been a daddy for ages. It’s amazing but very very time consuming weeding out timewasters, nutters, onliners and scammers. But when you find the right ones it makes it worthwhile.

I’m thinking of settting up a group snap for SBs. PM if interested.
 
dragon said:
I’ve been a daddy for ages. It’s amazing but very very time consuming weeding out timewasters, nutters, onliners and scammers. But when you find the right ones it makes it worthwhile.

I’m thinking of settting up a group snap for SBs. PM if interested.
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Very true, you have to put in the hard yards to get a result. Find a good one and it pays off. I’d be interested if you start a group. I need to join Snap Chat as so many referrals to there.
 
mrys said:
For many girls 'the older guy' AKA the silver fox is attractive both emotionally and sexually. If you give it another go I bet your years will slip away when you meet the right sugar babe :)
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I'm not going back along the SB path because, the truth is, a beautiful 32yo left her husband because of our relationship. Caused far too much pain. Girls enter into SB arrangements for all sorts of reasons. Some bright spark should undertake a PhD and write a thesis on the scene and its why's and wherefores.
 
Rankin said:
I'm not going back along the SB path because, the truth is, a beautiful 32yo left her husband because of our relationship. Caused far too much pain. Girls enter into SB arrangements for all sorts of reasons. Some bright spark should undertake a PhD and write a thesis on the scene and its why's and wherefores.
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I'm sorry to hear of that heartache Rankin. And I agree the reasons why all participants are on SB sites are varied. As you have pointed out many younger woman experience toxic relationships with their peer group. (which seems to be far more prevalent these days) From my experience an arrangement with an older man helps them to learn how they should be treated rather than being used and abused. Sad they need old farts like us to show them what a normal relationship looks like!
 
Unclebeavz said:
Pretty sure it’s not legal unless your in the 4 year age gap, parents could go for a statutory rape charge.
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No.

16 is the age of consent in WA with an exception where there is a special relationship (i.e. person in a care position).

What you might be referring to is where the girl is UNDER 16, and the defence is of reasonable belief that she was over 16 was held, and this only applies if the age difference doesn't exceed 3 years.

The prior point about linking financial benefits with the arrangement is a good one. Messy situation to avoid.
 
16 years old is an eye opener. I was clueless in my teenage years and pretty sure I was underaged when I did my first punt then was hooked from then on. I hadn’t been asked about my age at the brothel or others now I think about it. Mid 1980s it was.
 
openotherside said:
No.

16 is the age of consent in WA with an exception where there is a special relationship (i.e. person in a care position).

What you might be referring to is where the girl is UNDER 16, and the defence is of reasonable belief that she was over 16 was held, and this only applies if the age difference doesn't exceed 3 years.

The prior point about linking financial benefits with the arrangement is a good one. Messy situation to avoid.
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Thanks for defining this clearly
 
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