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STI's in oral sex

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Phong

Hi everyone.
Today is they day I lost my virginity to a prostitute. I am 22 and had oral sex with a condom on.

Is it possible to have gotten an STI with the use of a condom.

And also do you think oral sex counts as losing your virginity.
 
I didn't want to contract a sti
so that why i didn't have sex
because higher risk

I thought oral would be more safer.

bushseeker if you had sex with someone else already why didn't you consider that losing your virginity
 
Eva Valentina why am I still a virgin?

Bushseeker can you explain more.

Thank you both for being so helpful
 
thought I did ...losing your virginity I think doesnt have to be technical like a penis entering a vagina.
even if youve seen working ladys.
having sex ( you dont even have to be making love) with someone for no other reason than they want to with you is truly losing your virginity as far as I was concerned
 
bushseeker said:
thought I did ...losing your virginity I think doesnt have to be technical like a penis entering a vagina.
even if youve seen working ladys.
having sex ( you dont even have to be making love) with someone for no other reason than they want to with you is truly losing your virginity as far as I was concerned
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such a romantic.....
 
Phong said:
I didn't want to contract a sti
so that why i didn't have sex
because higher risk

I thought oral would be more safer.

bushseeker if you had sex with someone else already why didn't you consider that losing your virginity
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From my experience protected sex with a responsible working lady is about as safe as it gets. Even in a relationship, it's the girl who has more chance of catching something from her irresponsible cheating partner. Working ladies are tested regularly and are very safety conscious. The ladies can correct me if I'm wrong here but I believe you have a far greater risk of contracting an STI with sex with a non professional such as someone you meet at a night club etc.
 
I sort of see your point, I think, but the OP was probably asking about it in the sense it is conventionally understood by the majority of the population.

According to a former US President, a 22-year-old intern performing oral sex on him did not count as having 'sexual relations' -- but most people disagreed. Similarly, if someone says they retained their virginity despite having sex with multiple WLs, most people would probably dispute that assertion.


I still wish I had lost my virginity with a Belinda or another girl I genuinely had feelings for, but I lost mine with a WL too. So don't think you have to do this quickly, Phong. Once you 'lose' it, it's gone forever.
 
XLNC said:
I sort of see your point, I think, but the OP was probably asking about it in the sense it is conventionally understood by the majority of the population.

According to a former US President, a 22-year-old intern performing oral sex on him did not count as having 'sexual relations' -- but most people disagreed. Similarly, if someone says they retained their virginity despite having sex with multiple WLs, most people would probably dispute that assertion.


I still wish I had lost my virginity with a Belinda or another girl I genuinely had feelings for, but I lost mine with a WL too. So don't think you have to do this quickly, Phong. Once you 'lose' it, it's gone forever.
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Funny you said that, I saw a report on TV I think (fox) that some women can have their hymen stitched back so as to allow them to lose their virginity to the husband they are about to marry. Personally, I think that is cheating and do you consider having anal sex for the first time, losing your virginity?;)
 
The hymen replacement is definitely cheating in my book. That's just a physical artefact anyway, virginity I believe relates more to the sexual act itself.

There are some who think they can have anal sex and retain their virginity, but that depends on how you choose to define intercourse -- even the dictionary definition leaves it a bit open, with penetration being the main criterion it seems and penis-in-vagina culminating in ejaculation just being the most common form of it.

The first time I stuck my willy in a pussy I didn't keep at it until I blew, so was I still a virgin if I came later? And if Phong 'penetrated' a WL's mouth and orgasmed, why does that not count?

You know, we just might be overthinking all this. ;)
 
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