Spice up Sex life

mat.powerr

mat.powerr

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Hi all,

Any ideas how to spice up your Sex life with your wife / partner?
Finding myself in a rut and she is not that adventurous

Thanks x
 
AlwaysUp

AlwaysUp

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Hi Mat,

Great Question! Does your Mrs want the extra spice? It may be what you want but remember that she may be happy being a hermit.

The difference in sex drives is what keeps AMP and Langtrees thriving.
 
MikeB

MikeB

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AlwaysUp said:
Hi Mat,

Great Question! Does your Mrs want the extra spice? It may be what you want but remember that she may be happy being a hermit.

The difference in sex drives is what keeps AMP and Langtrees thriving.
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One way to answer this fundamental question is generate a flirtatious question to see if she has a carnal/erotic bucket list? Frame it around her opinion of what goes on on reality(?) tv shows and see if these things raise any curiosity for her. If she is “appalled” by the antics, you probably will have little opportunity, unless you use this as a spring board to ask what would turn her on then?
 
AmeliaKennedy

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Both Get drunk and download sex positions or sex game app and have fun testing the waters... if she's not willing to give it a go least you can blame the alcohol, well that's what I would do! 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️
 
TantraShiva

TantraShiva

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Purchase a Lovense Lush from Adultshop store. Place it on the table in front of her. Go from there
 
Melody

Melody

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Oh gosh babe. This is such a tough one.

I personally would approach this with the advice to "start dating" again. It's sadly the nature of long term monogamous relationships that over time things become comfortable and familiar. So instead of trying to fix one of the effects of this, fix the cause. Don't continue doing the same things but expect different results.

Go out to dinner, go out to the movies. Kiss and cuddle. Drink too much. Laugh together. I know for me personally, the more I remember to "see" the person in front of me the more I want to try and do. But when things are the same and normal, the effort to try something new can seem like too much.

Give her some attention. Show her you want her. Tell her she's sexy.
 
dan60

dan60

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first of all, as you are obviously thinking about it....................
you need to talk to her.
if you don't (like me) it will all go downhill pretty fast.
take her out, get a bit lairy, bring the subject up.
do not let it degenerate to a silent relationship.
if that fails.................... i know a great lady lol
 
Bonnie Lee

Bonnie Lee

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As a few have said above, communicating is the first step before getting frisky! Find out what she would be interested in and go from there. Or try to find out why she's not interested in trying new things... If there is something holding her back, find out what, work on it and make her feel as comfortable as possible and hopefully that will open a few "doors" for you! ;);)
 
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