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Shy turned animal help

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Recently me and my girlfriend both had sex for the first time (both of us being virgins)
Before we had sex she was doing stuff but slightly shy about things
It's been around a month since our first time and she has become increasingly sexual and animalistic at times
I don't know what to do
Is this normal?
How do I approach this
 
Arkwardx said:
Recently me and my girlfriend both had sex for the first time (both of us being virgins)
Before we had sex she was doing stuff but slightly shy about things
It's been around a month since our first time and she has become increasingly sexual and animalistic at times
I don't know what to do
Is this normal?
How do I approach this[/QUOTe

send her over to my house, im sure i can calm her down:love76:
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Get in there my son! It seems that perhaps she's decided that she likes sex and would like to have more of it. That's a good problem to have...
 
It is definately a normal reaction. Just like trying anything else for the first time and loving the hell out of it. You want more and sometimes get carried away.
As long as you don't end up in the hospital, all is good, LOL.

If anything she does or wants to do is too much for you just let her know. Communication and Honesty are the key to a great sex life. Most people want to please their partners. They want you to enjoy it and be happy. Keep you coming back for more. But they need to know what you like. Nobody should take offense to you telling them how you like it. Everyone has different needs and a sexual relationship is based on discovering how your needs mesh together.
Just be sure to word it in a good way. Don't imply that they don't know what they are doing or are totally nuts for wanting to do something.
Now with that being said you also have to face things with an open mind. Don't be afraid to experiment. Be willing to try new things. You can't truly know that you don't like it if you have never tried it. Which of course brings us to the other most important element in a great sex life. Trust.

So Just always remeber these 4 elements. And if your partner doesn't appreciate them then trade her in for a model that does.

1. Open Communication
2. Total Honesty
3. Trust and Respect your Partner at All Times
4. Be willing to try new things - be experimental and creative.

BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY - HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!
 
Agree with the others - get in there!!

I don't think you need to feel guilty ... don't feel like you may be taking advantage of her ...

... accept that sometimes in life, the planets become aligned and life is good!

enjoy
 
thank you everyone, being inexperienced, its a little scary in the outside world and am still trying to get used to it, thanks especially to X'DaCee, you have really helped calm my nerves x
 
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