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Rescuers / Falling in Love with W/L

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WHAT is that when a "rescuer" client walks into a brothel...or even better walks in cos only "waiting" for his mate and starts asking "why why why are YOU working, 'in a place like this'...(what is HE doing in a place like this ??) He asks a myriaid of questions like - where is your husband or boyfriend ? does your family know you work here....yada-yada-ya..... THE RESCUER ...yOU SHOULD COME Home WITH ME....i WILL LOOK AFTER YOU.....etc etc...It puzzels me (( If i had a dollar for every time I heard this when I was a W/L) I used to think it was sweet - BUT now that I'm older n wiser I wonder if its the sign of a 'control freak' person ? or just one who wants to push the boundaries in a bid to get "free sex" .... one to be weary of. Does he derive some sort of power from playing the rescuer role ? Your experiences thoughts and feedback appreciated.
 
It is the inalienable right of every bible thumper to save the wicked , redeem the the sinner and interrupt you by knocking on your door at 7PM just as you are about to sit down to dinner
 
I believe it is most likely that this guy got his "information" about working ladies by watching "Pretty Woman". Either that or he believes the stereotyope pushed by the wowsers of the desperate and/or drug addled doing what they have to to survive.

Probably, a couple of reality checks from "real" working ladies will be enough to set him straight.
 
How dare you Svengali Pretty Woman was a documentary as you well know Pfff make believe indeed
 
Possibly a bit different but a lot of guys do this in Asia. They will sponsor a W/L or bar girl so she dosnt work anymore. Some guys will do this after spending a few nights with a girl and fall in lust. They send money weekly to the girl. Problem is some of these girls love the job and even thou they are now not to be working a lot still do. Some even have several sponsors with each sponsor thinking he's the only one. And thire is the genuine ones to.
I know a Thai girl called Noi she had a great sponsor paid her weekly, brought her a apartment a shooter a car really looked after her. She stuffed it all up and started working again. He found out and she lost the lot.
 
oh "the white knight syndrome"
No age or culture is predujuice to this disease and I find especially
with the girlfriend experience...it happens often.

"sigh"
I totally empathise with your post Jessica x
 
I'm a knight in shining armour, I just need to find lady to save. Any takers??? :laughing4
 
I suspect he/they get a power kick from playing the role of the rescuer, they beleive they have the right to interfere with some one else life and show them the true path to follow(according to their beliefs);- what a lot of;- Blah, Blah and Blah
 
I guess it is still a rather popular believe amoungst some punters that W/Ls have to be or want to be rescued. The offers range from "you can live in my place" to "I take you away with me" to "I will look after you" to "do you want to be my girl friend" to "I marry you" etc.
When I started in the industry comments like this freaked me out and I felt the need of explaining myself. Nowadays I am more experienced and a lot wiser and far more relaxed. I wonder what would happen if the W/L would really take the offer........what would the guy do? I think a lot of guys make such offers with the expectation to be turned down..........

R.xxxxxxx
 
So what is the true stereotype of sex worker? The drug addict who is so desperate that she must sell her body to feed her addiction or Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman?
 
I kinda find this similar to the situation where a guy sees a pretty girl with another guy who is a real douchebag (or at least this is his perception of that guy) and says to the girl, what are you doing with him you deserve so much better, go out with me and I'll give you everything etc. he treats you so badly I'm way nicer. I've observed that situation a number of times. Some guys have a rescue complex I guess.
 
While it is true some are controlled by people smugglers and criminal gang (and please don't go to those regardless on how good the price is) and I have a problem with them, I don't have a problem with consented trade.

FYI, I also get "White Joan of Arc". Church girls want to save my soul from eternal condemnation because I am a proponent of evolution.
 
I get it all the time too.....
Soceity forget not all W/L's are drug addicts or have mental issues.
I'm married, believe in a stable home environment, wish to have children one day.
To me this profession is just a job and like you Jess I am sick of tired having to justify myself to society. YES I AM A SEX WORKER! AND NO I AM NOT ASHAMED OF IT!
I am happiest when working independently, because I can combine the things I love with having the priviledge of making my own schedule and being able to enjoy life on my own terms.
 
The offer to 'save' someone must surely demonstrate a superiority complex - someone who clearly thinks he's 'better' than the person he is offering to 'save'.

How many people go up to a successful AFL player and offer to 'save them from having to sell their bodies every Sat.' ? That's just because they they see famous people as being 'successful' - then they clearly think that WL are an easy target to make them feel superior - basically, they're just dickheads.

Cheers.
 
I have heard it does happen. I knew a guy who really enjoyed a WL.
Alas the fool told her loved her.

The trouble is what does that actually mean??

Anyway the WL panicked and told him never contact her again.

And the guy, All was good he just enjoyed spending time with other WL's/

The moral of the story... Is love now something only found in fiction romantic stories?
 
Thats because somewhere in the past couple of decades, many men have started to loose their balls so to speak and its a bloody disgrace.
 
Could be right WR3XR AHEM Sorry voice got a bit high pitched there YEAH YOUR RIGHT MATE TO IN TOUCH WITH THEIR SHEILA SIDE COBBER!!
 
That makes sense Rochelle...(( lot of guys make such offers with the expectation to be turned down..........))Then they can go away shaking their head tut-tutting that, they tried !!!
 
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This has happened to me only a 1 year ago and I wrote about on here under another name.sometimes it just happends were u hang out with a W/L or another female and u have feelings for them,I sincerely wanted to help her out at the time and had NO idea this happens to others..I felt like a bit of a fool at the time,but love is love no matter were and when it happends..other guys maybe B/S I have no idea..
 
Remember the saying if it sounds to good to be true it usually is.
The rip off ones are out there. Thats why you see more than 1 girl.
 
Didn't consider it could go both ways but I can see
how some wl's could take guys for quite a ride all in
the name of love
"erk"
Love's complicated enough let alone the extra c...
 
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