Questions for the ladies

[mrys]

Even the smartest man can be as dumb as a box of hammers when it comes to women, I should know as I'm in that category There have been a few posts in threads recently that show that we (punters) are sometimes uncertain of how to make the booking work for the lady as well. So for my benefit and maybe any other guys that will read this post can the ladies please share their thoughts and feelings on the following questions?

1. When you meet us on a first time booking what things do you look for in the first 2 minutes to make the call that you want to proceed?
2. Is it seen as too much to bring wine/flowers/chocolates etc
3. What is the preferred etiquette for your booking? Chat first, money exchange, shower, play time, cuddle?
4. What are your red flags that will make you uncomfortable with us
5. What qualities do you want to see in your clients
6. What makes a booking stand out for you

I will understand if no one responds but knowledge is power, new and older punters would benefit from understanding how ladies feel and what's important to you when we share time together?

 

[Mod7]

Even the smartest man can be as dumb as a box of hammers when it comes to women, I should know as I'm in that category There have been a few posts in threads recently that show that we (punters) are sometimes uncertain of how to make the booking work for the lady as well. So for my benefit and maybe any other guys that will read this post can the ladies please share their thoughts and feelings on the following questions?

1. When you meet us on a first time booking what things do you look for in the first 2 minutes to make the call that you want to proceed?
2. Is it seen as too much to bring wine/flowers/chocolates etc
3. What is the preferred etiquette for your booking? Chat first, money exchange, shower, play time, cuddle?
4. What are your red flags that will make you uncomfortable with us
5. What qualities do you want to see in your clients
6. What makes a booking stand out for you

I will understand if no one responds but knowledge is power, new and older punters would benefit from understanding how ladies feel and what's important to you when we share time together?

All very good questions from my perspective

 

[Wemby]

You’re overthinking this. Most will forget about you the moment you zip up your pants. To them it’s just a business transaction.

 

[Perthgirl]

Thanks for asking, I love questions

Please note these are my own personal experiences and don’t reflect the community as a whole.

Q: When you meet us on a first time booking what things do you look for in the first 2 minutes to make

A: I very rarely deny service I’m more likely to offer a restricted service.

I look for slurred speech, red eyes and generally the state of the person as a whole. I don’t care what you’re wearing, you don’t need to dress up as you’re going to be mostly naked.

A big one for me is teeth, I decide pretty quickly if I’m going to DFK someone or not, this will be based on their smoking status and oral health.

Q: Is it seen as too much to bring wine/flowers/chocolates etc

A: I love receiving gifts and it’s a great opener but it won’t buy a better service from me, once the intimacy starts I completely forget about the gift.

Please don’t bring drinks intended to share on a short booking.

Please don’t ask me for alcoholic drinks on a short booking, 9 times out of 10 they get wasted or the client necks it at the end.

Please don’t bring flowers if they’re touring, she likely won’t have a vase or be able to take them with her.

Q: What is the preferred etiquette for your booking? Chat first, money exchange, shower, play time, cuddle?

A: depends if we’re meeting for the first time or if they’re a regular.

New clients: welcome/introduction, payment, shower, intimacy then cuddles but sometimes cuddles first if he’s nervous.

Regulars: I open the door, he walks in and passionate DFK, shower, maybe payment, intimacy, cuddles, maybe payment.

Q: What are your red flags that will make you uncomfortable with us?

A: asking for services I’ve said on the ad I don’t do, this shows you haven’t read the ad and you don’t care.

Trying out sexual acts without asking or that went included in what you paid for.

Telling me how much you hate condoms.

Q: What qualities do you want to see in your clients?

A: In no particular order; reliable, good hygiene, non smoker and a gentle demeanour.

Q: What makes a booking stand out for you?

A: real chemistry and good kissing.

 

[Perthgirl]

You’re overthinking this. Most will forget about you the moment you zip up your pants. To them it’s just a business transaction.

Not true, I think about clients all day every day

You mentioned you liked a cafe a year ago , I think of you every time I drive past it

 

[mrys]

Thanks for asking, I love questions

Please note these are my own personal experiences and don’t reflect the community as a whole.

Q: When you meet us on a first time booking what things do you look for in the first 2 minutes to make

A: I very rarely deny service I’m more likely to offer a restricted service.

I look for slurred speech, red eyes and generally the state of the person as a whole. I don’t care what you’re wearing, you don’t need to dress up as you’re going to be mostly naked.

A big one for me is teeth, I decide pretty quickly if I’m going to DFK someone or not, this will be based on their smoking status and oral health.

Q: Is it seen as too much to bring wine/flowers/chocolates etc

A: I love receiving gifts and it’s a great opener but it won’t buy a better service from me, once the intimacy starts I completely forget about the gift.

Please don’t bring drinks intended to share on a short booking.

Please don’t ask me for alcoholic drinks on a short booking, 9 times out of 10 they get wasted or the client necks it at the end.

Please don’t bring flowers if they’re touring, she likely won’t have a vase or be able to take them with her.

Q: What is the preferred etiquette for your booking? Chat first, money exchange, shower, play time, cuddle?

A: depends if we’re meeting for the first time or if they’re a regular.

New clients: welcome/introduction, payment, shower, intimacy then cuddles but sometimes cuddles first if he’s nervous.

Regulars: I open the door, he walks in and passionate DFK, shower, maybe payment, intimacy, cuddles, maybe payment.

Q: What are your red flags that will make you uncomfortable with us?

A: asking for services I’ve said on the ad I don’t do, this shows you haven’t read the ad and you don’t care.

Trying out sexual acts without asking or that went included in what you paid for.

Telling me how much you hate condoms.

Q: What qualities do you want to see in your clients?

A: In no particular order; reliable, good hygiene, non smoker and a gentle demeanour.

Q: What makes a booking stand out for you?

A: real chemistry and good kissing.

Wow! Thank you for your thoughts, they provide a fantastic insight. I for one will take many lessons from this!

 

[mrys]

You’re overthinking this. Most will forget about you the moment you zip up your pants. To them it’s just a business transaction.

I wouldn't say most, maybe some. Perhaps they forget about us because we aren't memorable in the time we spend together?

 

[Mod7]

I wouldn't say most, maybe some. Perhaps they forget about us because we aren't memorable in the time we spend together?

I am surprised the things they do remember chatting with you about on a return visit a month later, but I guess the memories fade over time, especially if you aren't a regular. If you are talking about the sex I have found some remember your likes. Maybe the more experienced ones make notes.

 

[spectre15]

Wiw great questions and insight. Thanks for sharing

 

[Isabellagarcia]

Even the smartest man can be as dumb as a box of hammers when it comes to women, I should know as I'm in that category There have been a few posts in threads recently that show that we (punters) are sometimes uncertain of how to make the booking work for the lady as well. So for my benefit and maybe any other guys that will read this post can the ladies please share their thoughts and feelings on the following questions?

1. When you meet us on a first time booking what things do you look for in the first 2 minutes to make the call that you want to proceed?
2. Is it seen as too much to bring wine/flowers/chocolates etc
3. What is the preferred etiquette for your booking? Chat first, money exchange, shower, play time, cuddle?
4. What are your red flags that will make you uncomfortable with us
5. What qualities do you want to see in your clients
6. What makes a booking stand out for you

I will understand if no one responds but knowledge is power, new and older punters would benefit from understanding how ladies feel and what's important to you when we share time together?

Hello Mrys, below I've shared my response to your questions


Q1: When you meet us on a first time booking what things do you look for in the first 2 minutes to make the call that you want to proceed?

A: this would be depending on the situation, off/erratic/dangerous behaviour i would not proceed, unhygienic clientele I would not proceed under any circumstance.


Q2. Is it seen as too much to bring wine/flowers/chocolates etc

A: absolutely not, this is such a kind gesture, however not an expected gesture. I've had everything from chocolates, wine, perfume, active wear (maybe a hint to exercise haha kidding), books and gift vouchers.


Q3. What is the preferred etiquette for your booking? Chat first, money exchange, shower, play time, cuddle?

A: the usual process would be money exchange, shower, massage, play time, cuddle until we go for round 2. I don't always follow this step for step though as I believe every experience is unique and customised to what my clientele likes/requested which I learn over return visits. Once money exchange and shower is out of the way I go with the flow I find this results in a great booking.


Q4. What are your red flags that will make you uncomfortable with us

A: for me personally I am very bubbly and sometimes to be honest talk to much so if a client has the personality of a dead fish and cannot hold a conversation even while going up my lift it can be incredibly awkward, I do respect that clientele are not always here to chat. I love a client with a good sense of humour. As for other red flags drug use, intoxication or rudeness would result in you getting kicked out.


Q5. What qualities do you want to see in your clients

A: honest, respectful, reliable, kind and easy going.



Q6. What makes a booking stand out for you

A: a client who is respectful, genuine and equally wants to please me as I do them. I have alot of clientele follow me on snapchat I do Q&As they often know alot about me prior to coming for a visit this includes what I like sexually as well as what they like sexually this again results in a great service all around

I hope everyone has an amazing week ahead Xxx Isabella

 

[mrys]

Hello Mrys, below I've shared my response to your questions


Q1: When you meet us on a first time booking what things do you look for in the first 2 minutes to make the call that you want to proceed?

A: this would be depending on the situation, off/erratic/dangerous behaviour i would not proceed, unhygienic clientele I would not proceed under any circumstance.


Q2. Is it seen as too much to bring wine/flowers/chocolates etc

A: absolutely not, this is such a kind gesture, however not an expected gesture. I've had everything from chocolates, wine, perfume, active wear (maybe a hint to exercise haha kidding), books and gift vouchers.


Q3. What is the preferred etiquette for your booking? Chat first, money exchange, shower, play time, cuddle?

A: the usual process would be money exchange, shower, massage, play time, cuddle until we go for round 2. I don't always follow this step for step though as I believe every experience is unique and customised to what my clientele likes/requested which I learn over return visits. Once money exchange and shower is out of the way I go with the flow I find this results in a great booking.


Q4. What are your red flags that will make you uncomfortable with us

A: for me personally I am very bubbly and sometimes to be honest talk to much so if a client has the personality of a dead fish and cannot hold a conversation even while going up my lift it can be incredibly awkward, I do respect that clientele are not always here to chat. I love a client with a good sense of humour. As for other red flags drug use, intoxication or rudeness would result in you getting kicked out.


Q5. What qualities do you want to see in your clients

A: honest, respectful, reliable, kind and easy going.



Q6. What makes a booking stand out for you

A: a client who is respectful, genuine and equally wants to please me as I do them. I have alot of clientele follow me on snapchat I do Q&As they often know alot about me prior to coming for a visit this includes what I like sexually as well as what they like sexually this again results in a great service all around

I hope everyone has an amazing week ahead Xxx Isabella

Wow! Thanks for such a thorough response Isabellagarcia. Your insights are really valuable and you sound absolutely delightful

 

[AmeliaKennedy]

Q: When you meet us on a first time booking what things do you look for in the first 2 minutes to make the call you want to proceed?

A: honestly? I'm pretty vigilant with my screening prior to accepting the booking so I'm pretty confident when I see you were on the same page already, I have only ever had to ask someone to leave twice and not since 2021. One had open wounds all over his body and the other wouldn't accept the fact I would not partake in drugs. I'm very lucky these days 90% of my clients I've seen before so I know what to expect.


Q: Is it seen as too much to bring wine/flowers/chocolates etc

A: I love gifts however I never expect them so please never feel obliged.

Q: What is the preferred etiquette for your booking? Chat first, money exchange, shower, play time, cuddle?

A: I prefer for finances to be out the way first as then its something I don't need to remind myself about, then shower, the fun stuff, cuddles and more fun stuff and more cuddles.

Q: What are your red flags that will make you uncomfortable with us?

A: I'm very upfront in my ad what is included but when a client books I ask them to read the ad as services are listed there. I get really uncomfortable when you boundary push, if I have said no or explained something is hurting for it to continue or you to attempt again and again is not okay and I won't see you again which unfortunately does happen.

Q: What qualities do you want to see in your clients?

A: respectful, genuine, empathetic, kind, discreet and just not being mean.

Q: What makes a booking stand out for you?

A: respect and when we have the connection and really click with each other, I really look forward to the next time we see each other.

 

[mrys]

Q: When you meet us on a first time booking what things do you look for in the first 2 minutes to make the call you want to proceed?

A: honestly? I'm pretty vigilant with my screening prior to accepting the booking so I'm pretty confident when I see you were on the same page already, I have only ever had to ask someone to leave twice and not since 2021. One had open wounds all over his body and the other wouldn't accept the fact I would not partake in drugs. I'm very lucky these days 90% of my clients I've seen before so I know what to expect.


Q: Is it seen as too much to bring wine/flowers/chocolates etc

A: I love gifts however I never expect them so please never feel obliged.

Q: What is the preferred etiquette for your booking? Chat first, money exchange, shower, play time, cuddle?

A: I prefer for finances to be out the way first as then its something I don't need to remind myself about, then shower, the fun stuff, cuddles and more fun stuff and more cuddles.

Q: What are your red flags that will make you uncomfortable with us?

A: I'm very upfront in my ad what is included but when a client books I ask them to read the ad as services are listed there. I get really uncomfortable when you boundary push, if I have said no or explained something is hurting for it to continue or you to attempt again and again is not okay and I won't see you again which unfortunately does happen.

Q: What qualities do you want to see in your clients?

A: respectful, genuine, empathetic, kind, discreet and just not being mean.

Q: What makes a booking stand out for you?

A: respect and when we have the connection and really click with each other, I really look forward to the next time we see each other.

Thanks for sharing Amelia! Based on all your positive feedback your screening process works well and ensures a high quality experience. Classy lady = a classy experience!