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Punting as we age

mrys

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I’m interested to find out from other punters how their tastes, needs and desires have changed over the years because speaking for myself I know mine have. It’s also fair to say I haven’t punted continuously throughout my life as there have been long periods when I didn’t thanks to relationships etc. 3 marriages did provide gaps to explore however :-)

I have created two lists below ranked 1 to 6 of my younger punting self and my older punting self, they are purely personal lists unique to me……or maybe not, hence this post. The lists are not exhaustive but they reflect some of the changes to my ‘wish lists’ as I’ve aged. I would welcome your edits to my rankings and the inclusion of the things that are important to you in your punting decisions as an older guy.

Young self :

1. Young and hot
2. Excitable
3. Tight
4. Wet
5. Endurance
6. Young and hot

Older self :
1. Attractive on more than one level
2. Able to connect
3. Experienced and intuitive
4. Hot (In my eyes)
5. Mild kink friendly
6. Has a good mind, an opinion and an interesting life story

I’m sure my desires will continue to change as I age and I welcome the journey gentlemen! But if you would like to ad your thoughts to this post you are most welcome. Happy punting!!!!
 
There seems to be a kind of mirror-like symmetry sometimes. I suppose it's the circle of life or something.

20 yr olds: WHERE DO I PUT MY CLOTHES?
25 yr olds: I bet you enjoyed that! You should be paying me.
30 yr olds: I’m not married, so I don’t get much chance for this kind of thing.

40 yr olds: My wife won’t let me do anything like this.
50 yr olds: Thank you, that was wonderful. You should be charging more.
70 yr olds: WHERE DID I PUT MY CLOTHES?
 
I want to keep fit so I’m punting well into older age. If I end up in a nursing home I’ll be chasing the staff there too. I want to slide sideways into my grave having lived life to the full.
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Young self :
1. Young and hot
2. Cheap
3. Friendly
4. Ready for action
5. Enthusiastic
6. Doesn’t do idle chatter

Older self :
1. Slim body and bouncy tits
2. Walks and moves seductively
3. Skilled and adventurous
4. Unrushed
5. Has something to say
6. Kisses me goodbye
 
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Young self :
1. Young and hot
2. Cheap
3. Friendly
4. Ready for action
5. Enthusiastic
6. Doesn’t do idle chatter

Older self :
1. Slim body and bouncy tits
2. Walks and moves seductively
3. Skilled and adventurous
4. Unrushed
5. Has something to say
6. Kisses me goodbye
Spot on with the Kisses me goodbye!
 
An interesting thread.
my thoughts, no particular order.


Young self :

1. Subtle Breasts
2. Excitable
3. Tight
4. Wet
5. Endurance
6.

Older self :
1. Asian attractions
2. Able to connect AND has good conversation.
3. Tight booty and pussy
4. Young and allows DATY
5. Actually crave sex more than younger self.
6. Wears sexy lingerie (a sexy g-string)
 
Alright.

I am in the late 20s range but I've already seen a change in what I want from the early 20s range and it's a weird one.

Honestly, I just want less sex now? It feels like a weird thing to say.

Younger Self:
  1. Nice tits. Fit in the hands, Not too big, not too small.
  2. Cheap
  3. Ready for action
  4. Enthusiastic
  5. Doesn't talk too much
Older Self:
  1. Nice tits. Fit in the hands. Not too big, not too small
  2. Slimmer-ish, but I like more meat these days.
  3. Can talk for a bit. Not just ... "no english"
  4. Allows DATY
  5. Wears nice lingerie
 
An interesting thread.
my thoughts, no particular order.


Young self :

1. Subtle Breasts
2. Excitable
3. Tight
4. Wet
5. Endurance
6.

Older self :
1. Asian attractions
2. Able to connect AND has good conversation.
3. Tight booty and pussy
4. Young and allows DATY
5. Actually crave sex more than younger self.
6. Wears sexy lingerie (a sexy g-string)
I agree on sexual appetite increasing as we age. Maybe because we are less stressed and have more time to indulge our needs and wants?
 
Alright.

I am in the late 20s range but I've already seen a change in what I want from the early 20s range and it's a weird one.

Honestly, I just want less sex now? It feels like a weird thing to say.

Younger Self:
  1. Nice tits. Fit in the hands, Not too big, not too small.
  2. Cheap
  3. Ready for action
  4. Enthusiastic
  5. Doesn't talk too much
Older Self:
  1. Nice tits. Fit in the hands. Not too big, not too small
  2. Slimmer-ish, but I like more meat these days.
  3. Can talk for a bit. Not just ... "no english"
  4. Allows DATY
  5. Wears nice lingerie
From late 20's to early 40's was the most stressed part of my life. Trying to build a business, provide for family etc can have a big impact on libido. There is light at the end of the tunnel though :-) Oh and I agree nice lingerie is a huge tun on!
 
From late 20's to early 40's was the most stressed part of my life. Trying to build a business, provide for family etc can have a big impact on libido. There is light at the end of the tunnel though :) Oh and I agree nice lingerie is a huge tun on!

That's not a bad point. I didn't think of that, this is probably the most stressfull time in my life so maybe that's why. I was thinking I was just getting old haha :P
 
From late 20's to early 40's was the most stressed part of my life. Trying to build a business, provide for family etc can have a big impact on libido. There is light at the end of the tunnel though :) Oh and I agree nice lingerie is a huge tun on!
creating a business, 37yo, and my libido is higher than ever. mostly because its such a stress release
 
This morning I took money from a quiet, nervous boy,
He had hardly pushed inside me when he cried out in his joy.
And so we talked a bit, while my fingers did their trick,
About finding him a girlfriend “to share this lovely dick”.
He told me about Anna, who he wished would be his girl
But his heart was set on travelling and conquering the world.

At lunch I helped a business man out of his grey suit;
I snuggled him but it was clear that I was just a root.
He climbed between my legs and went at it for a while
But I never heard him cum and I never saw him smile.
He said in all his life he had just made one mistake;
He should have stayed at home and married Anna Blake.

Tonight an old regular called in for company;
He seems to like the talking as much as humping me.
“You remind me of my first love,” he explained as we got dressed,
“But of all the girls I’ve ever had, baby you’re the best.”
“Goodnight George, take care,” I said as I kissed him on the cheek.
“Goodnight darling Anna, I’ll be back again next week.”
 
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There seems to be a kind of mirror-like symmetry sometimes. I suppose it's the circle of life or something.

20 yr olds: WHERE DO I PUT MY CLOTHES?
25 yr olds: I bet you enjoyed that! You should be paying me.
30 yr olds: I’m not married, so I don’t get much chance for this kind of thing.

40 yr olds: My wife won’t let me do anything like this.
50 yr olds: Thank you, that was wonderful. You should be charging more.
70 yr olds: WHERE DID I PUT MY CLOTHES?


That deserves a serious and free spanking .
 
This morning I took money from a quiet nervous boy,
He had hardly pushed inside me when he cried out in his joy.
And so we talked a bit, while my fingers did their trick
About finding him a girlfriend “to share this lovely dick”.
He told me about Anna, who he wished would be his girl
But his heart was set on travelling and conquering the world.

At lunch I helped a business man out of his grey suit;
I cuddled him but it was clear that I was just a root.
He climbed between my legs and went at it for a while
But I never heard him cum and I never saw him smile.
He said in all his life he had just made one mistake;
He should have stayed at home and married Anna Blake.

Tonight an old regular called in for company;
He seems to like the talking as much as humping me.
“You remind me of my first love,” he explained as we got dressed
“But of all the girls I’ve ever had, baby you’re the best.”
“Goodnight George, take care,” I said as I kissed him on the cheek
“Goodnight darling Anna, I’ll be back again next week.”
Yep the circle of life!
 
I certainly find as I get older I don't take any of their shit. I mostly frequent legit ladies, with any luck that I can corrupt. That was successful in the past, but of late I have had so many appointments cancelled and shifted, forgotten or double booked. The therapists all have the same attitude....from what I can sense business is good out there and they don't care if they piss clients off. I have only had one or maybe two massages this year, and to be honest once I broke the habit of one or two a week I am not that keen on going back...saving so much $$$$$
 
I certainly find as I get older I don't take any of their shit. I mostly frequent legit ladies, with any luck that I can corrupt. That was successful in the past, but of late I have had so many appointments cancelled and shifted, forgotten or double booked. The therapists all have the same attitude....from what I can sense business is good out there and they don't care if they piss clients off. I have only had one or maybe two massages this year, and to be honest once I broke the habit of one or two a week I am not that keen on going back...saving so much $$$$$
It does seem crazy ATM. It's very much a supply and demand thing. Wether it be building materials, a new car, a house or an hour of pleasure, they are all suffering from significant price increases. When it comes to an hour of pleasure I do wonder if perhaps we have been undercharged for a quality lady and now the balance/pricing is more realistic and sustainable for them and the service they provide. Having said that, there is no excuse for WL's stuffing you around. Punters have long memories when it comes to being inconvenienced!!!
 
Craig Gough in the house. So True. Love it. Heading 50 now but still enjoy to the max. For me the quality of time than the quantity. I don’t mind age but prefer younger. Don’t mind bigger but prefer thinner. CraigG.
 
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