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osscar

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Hi all just a quick question from a newcomer to working ladies. I was wondering if its ok, when you arrive to a private lady, who when you meet her after making a booking and you dont find her attractive ( not what was described in the ad ) or what your looking for is it ok to say im sorry and walk away or is this not good protocol . I visited a lady who was supposed to be a quote stunner and found her to be anything but , however being the gentleman i am i didnt want to say i wasnt interested and put up with what was a very unpleasant visit . any advice would be appreciated as i dont ever want to upset a working lady as i think they do a wonderfull job and deserve all the rewards they can get
 
Hello Osscar, Well this is a question that faces all who utilise the services of private ladies and/or escorts... you are in fact, by making a booking, buying before you have an opportunity to view your purchase. never the less, the lady has reserved her time for YOU and may have turned down other possible bookings to accomodate you.

I dont think you should be obliged to go thru with the booking if you find the lady has deliberately mislead you, on the other hand, if you have just 'changed your mind' upon seeing her face to face, then I think you have some degree of obligation to the lady and perhaps the polite thing to do would be to offer her a lesser amount, for the inconveniance she may have suffered and politely withdraw... but to just 'turn and run' would be offensive and unfair to the lady.

I think you did the 'gentlemanly' thing, but you should not feel obliged to stay under sufferance and perhaps it would have been ok to offer her, say $100, to cancel the booking?
 
thanks steffan i guess ill just have to be a bt more carefull in future and i guess the lesson is to go to a in house service so you can meet the ladies before commiting yourself but i guess there are never any guarantees but it hasnt put me off i think im addicted now as ive had some wonderfull experiences with some of the ladies ive visited so you win some and loose some
 
open the door at your own peril buyer beware

I think if you look in the yellow pages or paper and go to an advertised place that sells food ect. If the menu does not meet up to expectations or the food smells bad or they have not taken time to prepare the food correctly i do not think that you should have to pay for it.Particulary if you have only sampled a small portion or there is a fly in it and of course your motive is genuine.
It can be for any service windows cleaned car service ect. If you make a booking and are willing to pay for an agreed price for something and it is faulty has a bad attitude i am sure that you should demand your money back or not pay.
I think working girls should be no different if she says she is 25 blond with a fit body and you arrive she has bad breath stinks of smoke saggy boobs and pretty close to forty i think you should close the door{ i agree there are some good looking forty year old women out there} There are older clients i am sure she can service.Noways would i give her a booking fee Zilch Zilch.
After all that is what people in the industry want recognition that prostitution is a service needed by the community. If the advert is misleading well its false.
 
I will say one things though, if you go and see a private lady and she lied about herself, I wouldn't pay a hundred dollars to cancel the bloody booking.

Maybe $50, depending on how much and how bad she lied, but if you see a professional working lady, you usually get the truth.

If you see someone and their pricing is quite cheap and then they lied as well, well just get the hell out of there. I wouldn't pay a bloody cent then.

If you had bad meals in a restaurant would you pay for them or ask for something better or not pay???

I know some guys are courteous and well mannered and feel a bit badly for the girl, but how bad does she feel by lying to get your business and take your hard earned dollar.

Not all working ladies are beautiful bevies, slim and attractive, but you can get some great service from any type of lady as long as she is striaght down the line with you.
 
Ugly ducklings

Yeah serena, this reminds of when i was a younger man. I used to go out a lot to clubs and pubs. Its quite amazing just how many of us young fellows that used to chase the skinny sexy looking girls and the ugly ducklings used to all be left holding up the wall or each other. I changed my tac and actually used to chat to them, the fat spotty and geeky. Well was i in for a surprise these girls were really nice , intelligent and boy could they root. I suppose they were not sure when they were going to hit the luck again or perhaps bad luck with my case.Quite often these ugly girls in there late teens grew up into beut women so i was never lonely.
Also i noticed that the ugly girls quite often had good looking mates. So the moral is never judge a book by its cover . I keep this secret close to my heart and it still works to this day. Zero need for me eva to see working girls sorry MA!!!!!
 
thanks for all your advice and you hit it on the head she was 40 is not 25 had saggy boobs smelled of smoke had dirty feet and was a bit smelly and was not cheap either 280 but as i am new to this i thought oh well go along with it obviously she needs the money and im sure she does wellbut couldnt see her getting much return business which i thought it was all about . and the reason i have to go to working girls is that im no oil painting myself and at 49 not in the race darn it as id like to be able to pick up as it is quite thrilling but a man needs what a man needs and it makes me smile for weeks.
 
ugh dirty feet and a bit smelly..... ugh ugh and double ugh!!!! That could mean trouble and all sorts of things.

You can find nice woman by reading reviews etc from other people, and voice on phone etc.
But babe, if you ever get something like that opening the door to you and was tottally off what you expected, smile and say, sorry ma'am, I must have the wrong house as was expecting a 25 year old.... lol

Or ask for directions to the local pub or something.. heehee but never stay and do teh booking and never pay money to cancel....
 
Yep, I am with Serena on this one.

Most ladies are a bit economical with the truth when describing themselves but where there is a yawning gulf between description and reality I think you have every right to walk away.

This is another reason I always stay with in-house rather than escort or private. In-house it is quite o.k. to look over a roomfull of ladies, decide there is no-one you fancy and leave with no stress or aggro. One on one is always going to be personal however tactful you are. I envy the yobs who can say "Sheesh, you great fat smelly cow I'm not paying to root you"......" but I am just not wired up that way.
 
Sorry to hear about your experience there osscar and i hope it does'nt put you off visiting pvt ladies in the future I have sent you a PM.
I would have to agree with Serena as well. I have had no complaints so far about my service and would'nt even advertise if I thought I could'nt deliver what I was advertising..As for the hygeine aspect well I am pretty strict on that I like my make up an perfume etc and always present well and expect the same in return, I enjoy what I do and I think looking good as well plays a big part. I am in my 40's average size 14 aussie lady with C cup breasts and have been told I am attractive can't understand why someone would say there 25 and are 40 how the hell can you say that 15 yrs the diff an like noone will notice LOL.. I would of said what Serena suggested sorry i have the wrong house was expecting a 25 yr old..LOL..
 
thanks for that sexypuss and it hasnt put me off as ive seen a couple of fantastic ladies since and was going to put in a review but dont really want to share them lol there is one particuler which was way above all expectations 110% girlfriend experience and 10 percent porn star and i cant get her out of my head lol
 
You are welcome...Thats good to hear then I suppose there will always be them few ones that are not up too scratch well one would hope it would only be a few..
 
Common Courtesy

what has happened to common courtsy just going to give you an example of the other side of things at times when guys make a booking and they dont turn up or even fone or sms you saying they can't make it cause I go to a lot of trouble to present myself and get things ready I suppose its like any other industry you will get them time wasters its a pet hate of mine cause I would'nt do it so am I expecting too much for ppl to have some common courtsy..
 
thats something i ould never do to a lady id always let them know as its a potential loss o earnings so its not fair at all as you ladies are just trying to make a living after all
 
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