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Private Ladies that don't reply to messages

Dean3030

Dean3030

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This is really infuriating me. I will be in Adelaide next weekend and I have been trying to contact some independent W/Ls that I reckon I would get along with. They say they prefer SMS, so I send them a rather long SMS, stating what I want, the day I want, the time and of course, how much I will be expected to pay, but I get no reply! I find their email and try their email, no reply. I try phoning them, and I get a recorded message, you are not a subscriber whatever that means.

I have always tried brothels before but I thought I would change it up here. The W/L is a lot dearer but I want that intimacy that you can only get with the independent escort. We have cricket on here this weekend and I thought I better get in early. I have been trying this for nearly a full week now and still I have trouble finding a lady that will respond to me. Am I just trying to book too fay ahead. I just don't know???

That is what frustrates me with Adelaide sometimes. We just haven't got the number of independent W/Ls here compared to other states. :(
 
Have you tried Private Girls and Scarlet Blue sites for your private WL's, they're generally more reliable.
 
Yes I have tried both those sites with the average lady asking for $600 per hour. That is just a punt too dear!
 
Hi Dean, I can relate to your situation. Some time ago I attempted to book working ladies that I didn't know, and well in advance of a long trip as I live in a remote area, and I received no response with the exception of one and it took a huge amount of work and communication to get the booking to be successful I don't take this personally and neither should you, but I believe this is because the lady gets so many contacts, mostly from time wasters, and she has to fill her work diary with people she believes will be genuine and good bookings. I can't imagine how difficult and stressful this must be for her. So one thing I do know from ladies I've talked to is the the further you want to book in advance, the more difficult it becomes because they see that as a great risk of a no-show unless they know you pretty well. Some even charge a deposit now. So it's not just Adelaide but it's any where I think and I definitely don't blame the ladies for this. They are making their best decision under difficult circumstances.

The other point I'd like to make is intimacy with Independent ladies vs Establishment ladies. It really comes down to finding the right lady where you both click and in a relaxed environment and this can happen in the right kind of brothel or with an independent. Booking a lady is like any kind of relationship, you both have to click, there has to be trust and she has to feel relaxed... otherwise it's just sex.
 
Dallas Most of your points are valid
But (You knew there would be a but didn't you) some girls are just not professional enough to be private operators This is only my view may well be wrong but The time required to organise properly is far more than many think
 
I agree, and here's your "but", but those ladies may well be trying their best too, or they invest all their emotional energy on sorting out the administration side and have nothing left for their clients. This is why I mostly prefer to pay a little more and see a lady in an establishment that looks after her and allows her to be relaxed.
 
So sorry to hear this is happening to you luv I can only think that perhaps the lady is not working at the moment etc. Being a private lady I responded to msg as soon as I see them unless it's overnight or I'm with a gentleman then I reply once I have said goodbye to him. A good WL will be able to handle the administration side as well the pleasure it's like running any business you need to be professional at all times. All the best in finding a lady to meet your needs.
 
Hi Dean, totally understand where your coming from. We try to answer all calls and msg, if we dont answer your call we send you a msg asking to call back. As we respect your privacy by not call you back cause it might be inappropriate time for you to talk. Call Us and see if we can help you, if you haven't found someone.body2bodymassage.net
 
Dallas I have never looked at the WL thinking I might not even turn up. It is a good point to bring up. I did contact a few girls and I told them that I was from out of town and hence probably why I got no answer.

Happy2 what you said about the WL just not being able to cope with maybe the volume of clients is another valid point.

Monique it just wasn't the one lady not replying to me. I have so far contacted 8 girls and 2 of them did have the decency to reply and say that they are unavailable at the time I request.

Body2Body Massage I have never heard of you, so I thought I might check your website out. A terrific website but sorry I need something more then just a massage. The rub and tug though does sound very appealing though, especially by one of your many beautiful girls.
 
Hi Dean, we are new to Adelaide. We also offer a Fully Inclusive Service. Thank you for looking at our website,
 
You can judge the quality of the working lady by the message service you receive, if there is no reply.If you don't get a message they are using a throw away phone and can't call you because they have no credit.
If you get a friendly sounding message that tells you to sms etc, and she will call you back or leave a voice message they will.
Happy2 response that they are to busy is not a fact, Australia is very quiet, I have many quality privates that are down over 50% in booking numbers.No message on the phone don't bother going any further.
 
Two of these ladies are from Langtrees
One is verified but the other isn't. I thought this site was the best and yet I get this. Damn frustrating I can tell you. :(
 
Body2Body Massage said:
Hi Dean, we are new to Adelaide. We also offer a Fully Inclusive Service. Thank you for looking at our website,
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Body2Body Massage, you should show pictures of your girls on your website. What rosters they work. It is probably the only thing stopping me from having the Full Service at your place. I just don't know your girls. I always pick my girls before hand, at least that way I know what to expect. But even then, some do surprise me. :)
 
Found Adelaide was bad for this. A lot of ads are actually answered by Asian pimps/agencies. Found a couple of great ladies, but at their request I don't share their info on any forums.
 
That is one of my biggest problem too, is I don't want an Asian. On Backpage and/or Cracker, most on their are Asians. I am after an Aussie girl. )
 
Wish we could put up on cracker that we are non Asians but if we did we would be classed as discrimination against Asians. LOL
 
Lots of ladies state in ad title they are Aussie woman nothing wrong with that. No discrimination in saying where your from. And the way Cracker has gone you can say anything and they let it be posted. Censorship dosent exist there anyone. Even some of the pics are more than xxx. The only time things are removed if ad is reported. No class on Cracker anymore its who can come up with the ad with the most filth and offer the most natural services. It's gone to the dogs and I think Langtrees and other more classy escort website will see a lot more Aussie woman advertising.
 
Thanks Tia, that's what I thought. You can write it all down and it's there in black and white for both parties to see.

In the end I would have contacted 15 W/Ls and I got only 2 responses saying that the day I requested was their day off. I'm fine with that but the others? Looks like I will be sticking to the brothels.

In the end I went to an Asian brothel just to see what it was like on the other side. But that is another story.
 
Exactly what i think as well.!!

I work in a brothel and even if i wasn't i still would be clear on my hours & would actually reply and inform you if it were the case.


Seems that many dont seem to show half as much interest towards potential clients as they do their regulars (if they had any).

Its disappointing to hear that you had so much grief over this.

Hopefully next time you're in Adelaide you'll have a much better experience.


Any goss about your experience at the asian place? Lol xx
 
Dean you poor darling I was wondering over the weekend how you went. Please not be put off the private ladies because of this experience there is good and bad in all. Please feel free to msg me if I can help in any way in the future. I have to ask did you enjoy the Asian lady I truly hope you had a good time.
 
Thanks Tia, Thanks Monique, for your kind words. OK seeing you asked here is how my first adventure to an Asian brothel went.

Because of my limited time I can spend in Adelaide, I will normally go for a punt, anywhere between 9:30-11:00 Sunday morning. I know this really does give me limited offers from these WLs because I guess most of them have been punting into the early hours of that morning. And we all know these girls have to sleep some time.

On this occasion, I had to leave rather early so I just chose the only one that open at 9:30am, most brothels seem to open at 10:00am on a Sunday morning. This brothel, as it happened to be was Asian, and I thought I would give it a go. I rang reception, asking for a lady for GFE for the one hour. Yes, yes, yes we got that for you, you come now! Great so 5 minutes later I am greeted by a young Asian lady probably no taller then 5 foot. Good size breasts though and a rather nice body. She took me to a room but I reckon she was the only lady working, and she did not want to do GFE. That is why I spent the last 2 weeks trying to find the WL, so I can get some GFE experience.

To cut a long story short. I paid $220 for the hour. She was keen to massage me and that was OK but this went on for 20 minutes. Eventually she asked me to roll over and a nice BJ was performed. She did know how to tease me though, sliding her body up and down over me. Finally we are into the sex, I am still on my back and she jumps on top and rides like theres no tomorrow. That still kept me hard but it was not really enjoyable. I suggest we try missionary, she begrudging agrees. This is better I can judge the tempo here. Let's try doggy again she doesn't sound too enthused but it is normally my finishing move.

We must have tried 7 different positions but I just could come. She then tried the hand job on my dick and really went to town on him but although I got close, still I could not come. I tried to get back to the sex but she said I was too big for her. So in the end I walked out of there without the ability to come. Also there was that language barrier with the lady which is what I feared, I could never really relax I think, and in the end I was probably trying too hard to come.

Two days later and my poor little fella has only just started to get some feeling back. I have never had such a fierce hand job in my life!

It is strange but this has happened to me twice now. I am always worried that I might come to soon but to not come at all. Again the reason why, I am need of a good WL. Probably mid January will be the next time I will be in Adelaide. I shall keep you posted. :)
 
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Darling it's better to cum quickly than not cum at all. Get a load out the way relax then enjoy some more. It sounds like your poor old fella has been through the ringer. Glad to hear he is feeling better a numb cock dosent sound good luv. I'm not fan of Asian women I'm a tit and arse girl, give me a woman with big boobs and a nice rounded bottom anyday. I understand the language barrier you mentioned the salon I have my nails etc done I can't always understand what the lady is saying. And a girl who isn't keen on doggy O my this is my favorite possition while having my arse stapped. Fingers crossed your next punt will be much more enjoyable.
 
Well Dean, it sounds like you have had a gutsfull of the lack of professionalism also, I have never seen an industry where its so prevalent. But when the demand for the service is there then the ball is well and truly in the court of the WL. this is the result, here in Australia at least.
I also have been searching for years to find just one private WL- in Perth- who is what she says she is (ie age, body type, smoking status, services available etc ) Not one, Nada, Zip, Zilch, Jack Shite, Zero!

I have even advertised, I think in 4 years of ads I received 2 responses, but when I was able to see a picture of these 2 WLs it was obvious they were delusional about their physical appearance. They were either overweight or way out of shape, sad but true.
If Iam going to pay hundreds of dollars per hour then obviously I would want to meet a woman who is reasonably hot? Is this too much to hope for... yes it is, I cant even find someone professional enough to arrange a meeting. Let alone a pretty and sexy girl who is friendly and professional in her business dealings and customers.

Unfortunately I need a private girl, no not a girl where I will be meeting other punters in the waiting room there to see other WLs onsite etc a PRIVATE GIRL.

Last week I weakened , seriously Iam so pissed at myself to go against my better judgement and I visited a punt over in Cairns, well her ad showed a young pretty girl, 22 years old private and Cairns being very high proportion of young pretty asian girls I hoped I would get lucky.... yeah right!........" genuine photos " claimed the ad.

I even asked the qualifying question " your lady's age is 22 is that right? " prior to arriving (unit 1/198 Grafton St) lol she was 55 if she was a day, and not attractive! I mean not in your wildest drunken hornyest state no way! She was just plain off. It was unpleasant but I did manage to laugh in her face as I walked out, she was trying to tell me she was hurt by me telling her she was 50, I was going easy on her. She looked older than that.

Their trick is this.....a mature woman does the reception and tells you to undress in a room, they try to get your money at this point, Lucky i refused until i saw the WL, then the old WL bursts into the room and strips instantly then goes nuts cos you call her a liar and walk, " You already see me... you pay now !! All asian girl the same come back mister! " Iam so freakin over it hey! They , asian or otherwise are ruining the industry here. Shame because I believe that sex workers play a very important role that the community requires, particularly here in Australia where princess syndrome is so prevalent. My opinion only but please consider that if any readers dont agree thats totally fine but dont start abusing me if you have no experiences with WLs or meeting women overseas in other western countries for comparison.
 
Perthchap, I thought you would get lot better luck in Perth then Adelaide in trying to find the right WL. You definitely have more of a choice then I do here but it seems the WLs feel that they can just pick and choose who they want. I am fine with that but please, just acknowledge my enquiry and say you are unavailable. Is it really that hard. And this is from Langtrees, definitely one of the better sites out there, or so I thought.

Perthchap, I reckon your experience was a lot worse then mine. At least my girl was probably no older then 25. If she was 55 then yes I would be running out the door too.

I think you pay for what you get. I was willing to go as high as $400 but these ladys just didn't give me that chance. www.privategirls.com.au is one of the best sites but these ladys want $600 per hour, way too dear. In the end I only paid $220 and I probably got what I deserved paying that amount. A lesson learned for us both, Perthchap
 
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