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Picking up WL?

Gentlemanperth

Gentlemanperth

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Hey guys,

just curious how many people have made connections with WL whilst punting. Either with phone numbers from girls working at brothels or establishing a bond with a pvt WL outside a commercial exchange?

I'm just curious to hear from both WL and punters about the the good, the bad, the difficult, the why etc etc.

Personally I've made some great friends, and also had some pretty damaging encounters both emotionally and finacially with WL, and am interested in hearing from others about their experiences.

thanks
 
I must say I've been very lucky that most clients I've met had great chemistry in one way or another :thumbsup: with me.

At this moment, there are few whom I'm very close to that it's hard to define our friendship/relationship. It's kinda like matey lovers hehe. And when one reaches that point, one must be strong not to cross the boundaries or things might get messy or complicated.

As for me, I just feel grateful that tho it's not permanent but at least for the time we together, the meaning of companionship works for both sides the client and myself. And outside booking time, they would always be there as a caring friend to me. Oh boy am I blessed!!! :angel1:

Xx Spicy :love10:
 
I have NEVER asked a 'working Girl' for her private number., yet despite that several have freely offered it to me and as a result I have had several relationships with 'Working Girls' over past 10 years... Including two de-facto relationships, one Mistress relationship and 3 x 'fuk-buddy' relationships.

With respect to one of the Girls I was even the MC at her wedding!

Another one I even had a brief affair with her Mother!
 
Happy Times.

Thank you for your candor, openess, honesty and sincerity.

Your experiences certainly put things into perspective.

We each make decisions and choices in our lifes that who's consequences don't play themselves out until far further than we are able to make allowances for. Most of these we put down to life experiences and learning opportunities and some shape the very core of who we are, and the type of person we become. Others tend to bite us in the ass and then shake at the very foundations on which we have built ourselves on.

Your story highlights to me that no matter how hard you try, or how much you plan, you can never map the excat ripples that may reverberate outwards in all directions from the one act of throwing a stone in a still pond. Life seems to have the knack of throwing us these unexpected, and ultimately unpredicatble and random chain reactions that permiate our entire lives.

I guess its how we deal and overcome these life changing events, that goes one to be the basis for the people we become as a result.
 
I never asked for a W/L number but got was given one once, i have given out my number a few times knowing that they may not ring but couldnt get my head around the whole thing(just me)i dont really want to blur the lines between fantasy and what is real..
 
Anthony J
I think your right to remember there is a line between fantasy
and what is real.
A few months back I had a great "date" with a lovely w/l.
About 6 days later we met at a friends wedding. She was escorting
a fella who didn't want to go alone. (just guessing)
She recognised me and was a little apprehensive, I suppose hoping I wouldn't say
something mean and nasty or just plain cruel.
We have to remember seeing a working lady is generally fantasy or good
old fashioned hormones,.And other people ill also have fantasies which
we have no right to mess with.
 
Yes very true! i was out on saturday night and i bumped into a W/L in the pub and just smiled and said hi i didnt want to make her feel bad..
ps doesnt mean u dont think/feel/care,just need it snap out of it!
PPS read my thought of the day,is just that
 
Iv only been in the industry a couple of months and i regularly have clients ask to see me out of work, i obviously cant say from experience but personally i think its a bad idea especially if it turned into a relationship, iv been tempted a couple of times but what guy really wants to know there gfs a working girl?? It might not matter to begin with but im sure it eventually would and if it didnt then id think theres something wrong for my bf not to care, wouldnt you?
 
Well said Leah,
I think sometimes 'we' get caught up in the moment of asking W/L out, and the other way around but as much i wanted to it would be really hard to pull off(pardon the pun),but it does happen from time to time,i dont think im strong enough in that area.
ps you cant help WHO you fall in love with,it just happens!
TTOAO!
 
I've actually had the pleasure of going out with a few WL's....they are like everyone else and they appreciate being treated like a lady, both in working hours AND in their relax time! If we hit it off in the room initially, why cant we see them outside? I figure that if you already know they're working, and ur more than happy to see them outside in their free time (as long as they are too!) its a lot better for them and yourself as you're both up front and know each other's situation?
 
I see what you mean happytimes but maybe iv just heard too many bad stories and its put me off mixing business and my personal life. One story in particular of a bad break up and he told her family and friends what she did in spite. I know not all guys would do that but Im sure he more then likely said he would never tell anyone. Just not worth the risk to me. And you can't help who you fall in love with but if you don't see a client out of work then it can never get to that anyway, if that makes any sense haha.
 
I fully agree with you on that one LEAH! Personally i prefer to keep work and my real life separate..it actually keeps me SANE..hehe..As for having a relationship with a guy i've meet through work..for me, just the thought of them knowing what i did would make it harder for it to work, as they can use it over you which is not worth the risk for me. But in saying that it does not mean every guy would do that. Each to their own i say. Do whatever ya feel is right for YOU! =D
 
Love or lust...I would suggest that we must not turn a blind eye to any chance we are getting . Observe it and decide the good and bad of it. Our future is the consequences of our choices most of the time.. transforming to a good relationship may be hard to materialise but if it happens let it be.
 
I dun take the risk for seeing my clients out of work, got couple of times really disappointed. I truely believe this work is just a business of selling a fantasy. When reality comes, everything turns ugly.

Now usually I will say "I might not be the same person in real.." when they ask my number. Seriously, I dun wanna feel like someone try to take advantage from me becoz of my work.
 
Hmm, "ohmygod" aint never seen anyone use "dun" in a sentence before.

But your absolutely right "When reality comes, everything turns ugly"

Aren't some guys lucky, You know the ones that don't need to see or think about WL.
The "Cutie Pies" with perfect male voice and "chiseled chin" with near a perfect face and a fantastic gift of persuasion, conversation.
They have so may Girlfriends, it makes me sick.
One of my cousins was like that. I had to cover & lie for him so may times, while he was always trying to juggle at least 4 girlfriends at any one time& always changing girls. I saw so may different beautiful faces over the year he came to visit.

It seemed easy for him to just not get emotionally involved for more than a week at a time.
 
You know Onwithit
Sometimes the beautiful people are the sad people in the end. Only
seeing the good times. A couple of knock backs would hurt their ego.
Far more than the ordinary bloke who has too balance the rough with the smooth.
So what if sometimes we see a W/L From what you have said. Our one hour may
have just as much contact as his week.
 
Hi,
I've had a great experience having a relationship with a WL. It was something that developed over a period of a few years, starting with regular visits (paid) and then I loaned her some money for something and it was arranged that she would repay the money in kind so to speak! In my opinion the money is long repaid and I am still seeing her on a regular basis. So far so good anyhow.
 
Thanks "happy2" but I don't know how they are "sad in the end" unless you mean, like my cousin, who I really hate, even now after 30 years.
Hearing the rumors from other relatives over the years I eventually saw first hand what he was all about.
I think the hate manifested itself from Envy to Jealousy and then Hate.
I once walked out the front door of my house in the middle of the night where there where 2 girls sitting on my front fence. One on the left and one on the right, about 15 meters apart, in the dark, just waiting for loverboy. I had always seen one New girl, sitting on the fence, waiting, maybe once or twice a week, every week, that initially made me envious, but when I saw 2 that night, jealousy took control of my emotions.
I was still nice to him, pretending I was cool about it all, he kept borrowing money from me & I gave it to him but he never, ever, paid me back, that became Hate.
All those girls, oh Frick!
The first night I took him to the Underground Nightclub he becomes drinking buddies with the owner, Frick again!
Beautiful people, is what I want, I want to be that guy who's sad in the end because the end is the End and the Now is what I want, I want to only see the good times & whatever makes me happy.
Maybe in the next life if there is one.
 
Onwithit said:
Hmm, "ohmygod" aint never seen anyone use "dun" in a sentence before.

But your absolutely right "When reality comes, everything turns ugly"

Aren't some guys lucky, You know the ones that don't need to see or think about WL.
The "Cutie Pies" with perfect male voice and "chiseled chin" with near a perfect face and a fantastic gift of persuasion, conversation.
They have so may Girlfriends, it makes me sick.
One of my cousins was like that. I had to cover & lie for him so may times, while he was always trying to juggle at least 4 girlfriends at any one time& always changing girls. I saw so may different beautiful faces over the year he came to visit.

It seemed easy for him to just not get emotionally involved for more than a week at a time.
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Well, more than half of the clients I met are pretty hot tho :violent5: Says who hot guys dun need WL?
 
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