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Mild/light bondage

Lacie Tomson

Lacie Tomson

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As a relatively new WL, I am wondering what generally is considered mild or light bondage?

My idea is cuffs, light whipping, blindfold etc

What do the experienced punters think?

Always, Lacie x
 
Light, just is BDSM is made up of many varying elements. The spectral emission when light or bdsm is broken down into its individial components may have greater or lesser effect upon the object/subject when exposed to the fundamental elements of light/BDSM.

Therefore to sum it up.
There is no light form of BDSM as ones tickle and giggle experience may be anothers horrendous torture.

Ps
Find their hard limits and then the fun begins.
:)
 
Never tried any form of BDSM but standing starkers and having my hands cuffed/tied behind my back while a lady (preferably fully clothed but with ample cleavage in evidence) inspects, mocks, gropes, spanks and pinches me is about as far as my vanilla brain dares to go.

Apart from the strap-on fantasy, of course, but we won't go there again. :happy:
 
AxeMan said:
Pretty much think.

A great thing a f**k buddy did to me recently was tie up my cock and balls with her g-string. That was fun. Kind of like a makeshift cock ring.
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I almost purchased a satin toy that did exactly that but wasn't sure if it would be pleasurable... Sounds like it is

Thanks for the input AxeMan
 
Lacie Tomson said:
I almost purchased a satin toy that did exactly that but wasn't sure if it would be pleasurable... Sounds like it is

Thanks for the input AxeMan
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Pleasure is always in the eye of the receiver. One man's pleasure is another's pain I suppose.

In the context of what we were doing (cock milking) it was great.
 
Hi Lacie
Here are my thoughts:
If a punter is coming to you for mild or light bondage, probably a pair of those furry cuffs and a very lightly applied whip is what they are after. To my mind, that is not BDSM, it is just a little experimentation, to see what they might like to play with later and if in fact they might like it.

Further, I don't think that a Working Lady who offers mild or light bondage is that interested in BDSM. It is more likely she is just trying to keep her customer happy, or experimenting herself. She may even feel a little uncomfortable with it and not too keen to go further. However, that is OK and is a legitimate service to offer. Nothing bad or sad about that.

BDSM is all about going further. As Miss Minsen says, find his/her hard limits and work with them. BDSM is not a fetish; it is a life style. If you specialize, then you call yourself a Mistress, a Dominatrix, or a Cuntress (a la The Cuntress Gabrielle of Purple Palace fame, in Adelaide - That was a ride) However, if you do it, do it on purpose. Please don't advertise as a Mistress and then pull out fluffy handcuffs. I once visited a Mistress who did that. She also kept asking me what I wanted her to do; don't do that either. You are in charge. He/She is your slave and needs to be taught respect.

Here endeth the lesson
 
Lord Spikey said:
Hi Lacie
Here are my thoughts:
If a punter is coming to you for mild or light bondage, probably a pair of those furry cuffs and a very lightly applied whip is what they are after. To my mind, that is not BDSM, it is just a little experimentation, to see what they might like to play with later and if in fact they might like it.

Further, I don't think that a Working Lady who offers mild or light bondage is that interested in BDSM. It is more likely she is just trying to keep her customer happy, or experimenting herself. She may even feel a little uncomfortable with it and not too keen to go further. However, that is OK and is a legitimate service to offer. Nothing bad or sad about that.

BDSM is all about going further. As Miss Minsen says, find his/her hard limits and work with them. BDSM is not a fetish; it is a life style. If you specialize, then you call yourself a Mistress, a Dominatrix, or a Cuntress (a la The Cuntress Gabrielle of Purple Palace fame, in Adelaide - That was a ride) However, if you do it, do it on purpose. Please don't advertise as a Mistress and then pull out fluffy handcuffs. I once visited a Mistress who did that. She also kept asking me what I wanted her to do; don't do that either. You are in charge. He/She is your slave and needs to be taught respect.

Here endeth the lesson
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My Lord

Those fluffy handcuffs make me want to poke my eyes with a pen. So my 'kit' has a couple of leather (one more faux) cuffs, tethers (more for anchoring to points than sub work), a couple of whips and toys to please and tease.

I have had a relationship where BDSM was our flavour, I must say it's dynamic is electric and wildly addictive.

Hopefully I shall meet a client who wants to take a journey with me

Indebted for my lesson

Lacie
 
Lacie Tomson said:
My Lord

Those fluffy handcuffs make me want to poke my eyes with a pen. So my 'kit' has a couple of leather (one more faux) cuffs, tethers (more for anchoring to points than sub work), a couple of whips and toys to please and tease.

I have had a relationship where BDSM was our flavour, I must say it's dynamic is electric and wildly addictive.

Hopefully I shall meet a client who wants to take a journey with me

Indebted for my lesson

Lacie
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Apologies, Mistress Lacie. I had no idea you were a lifestyle proponent. I guess that puts your original question in a completely new light.

Where are you working from and how keen are you to explore possibilities?
 
Lord Spikey said:
Apologies, Mistress Lacie. I had no idea you were a lifestyle proponent. I guess that puts your original question in a completely new light.

Where are you working from and how keen are you to explore possibilities?
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Given I am new to the industry, my question really did want to know what my boundaries are if a gent was to book me and request a quoted extra of mine, being mild bondage. My hard limits in my previous experience were very few, and I'm surmising that the fact it was a society endorsed union where the proverbial L word was used, added to my acceptance.

In my new professional role I am honestly hoping to meet a client who would like to embark on a journey from beginning to xxx

I am at Langtrees Mitchell my Lord
 
Lacie Tomson said:
Given I am new to the industry, my question really did want to know what my boundaries are if a gent was to book me and request a quoted extra of mine, being mild bondage. My hard limits in my previous experience were very few, and I'm surmising that the fact it was a society endorsed union where the proverbial L word was used, added to my acceptance.

In my new professional role I am honestly hoping to meet a client who would like to embark on a journey from beginning to xxx

I am at Langtrees Mitchell my Lord
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Ahhh. Mitchell. That is ACT, right?
 
Lord Spikey said:
Apologies, Mistress Lacie. I had no idea you were a lifestyle proponent. I guess that puts your original question in a completely new light.

Where are you working from and how keen are you to explore possibilities?
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I just had me first BDSM booking Lord Spikey.
Fair to say I am very glad to be offering Mistress Lacie to ACT
Didn't realise how much I missed it and enjoyed it.
I need to update my profile ;)

Yours in command
Lacie
 
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