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Man in the industry

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Most male workers are M4M as very few women will pay and you would have to be one sexy looking man (Smoking hot fireman comes to mind) for a women to pay or have some brilliant talent. We do have a male escort on here as a member
 
Miss Monique said:
Most male workers are M4M as very few women will pay and you would have to be one sexy looking man (Smoking hot fireman comes to mind) for a women to pay or have some brilliant talent. We do have a male escort on here as a member
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You would be amazed Miss Monique..... You do realize this isn't about the male escort but about you!
 
I booked a male escort once he was bloody hopeless so much he left without me paying him
Women don't pay for men or on the rare occasions they do it's for a social event and they want a hot hunky looking man to use to create jealousy. Unless you look like a CK model you can forget about being a male escort for women.

Many year's ago I worked for these 2 guy guys they had escorts male & female in Canberra, Brisbane, Sunshine coast and Sydney & only once was a man booked by a women all the other times was male for male.

I could be wrong you never know. My comments are purely coming from a women's point of view.
 
As I said you would be amazed, you are in the sex game and know what you like, Some women whom are stunningly beautiful whom could have any man eating out their palms, want something different, alot of women dont like the buff dude he can picked up with ease, I will somewhat agree with the jealous comment, but women whom use a male escort are very discrete, and if a woman wants a man to say accompany her to a business meeting or function she wants one that blends in a suit not one that arms are busting out of a shirt, they want the man that looks good but not as good looking as she is, and they want a man that knows how to conduct himself in those surrounds not to embarrass her which is essentially her bread and butter work place.

If say a male escort is in such a setting and a CEO of a company whom could be female these days starts talking to him he has to be switched on doesn't he about business, events, and have the ability to not blow his cover as such, and also he may be asked to form an opinion on the company, the product launch etc etc, not just say do you sell "weight gain 2000" or I bench press 24/7 at my local gym he has to know his stuff, so reading up alot of things, as this is all part of foreplay for her if she is wanting sex after this at the hotel room, etc etc...

Women want different things than men which basically want a hose sucked and fucked dry by a model, or stunningly sexy woman, which said man can not land by himself, so he needs to pay, women use escorts to gain confidence again, to be held to be told they are beautiful etc etc, and men need to be at the A-game during the whole booking even before the booking as women can tell genuine men over a sms or a phone call, which men dont care they see a sexy ass and dont care about anything other than fucking it, women think differently when using escorts, as they look at themselves in a mirror and think I can get any man, but I want one that gives me "me time" how many women pick up a man at social setting only to land in bed with him, and he gets off even before she is half or even 1/4 of the way there herself.... .
 
Miss Monique said:
I booked a male escort once he was bloody hopeless so much he left without me paying him
Women don't pay for men or on the rare occasions they do it's for a social event and they want a hot hunky looking man to use to create jealousy. Unless you look like a CK model you can forget about being a male escort for women.

Many year's ago I worked for these 2 guy guys they had escorts male & female in Canberra, Brisbane, Sunshine coast and Sydney & only once was a man booked by a women all the other times was male for male.

I could be wrong you never know. My comments are purely coming from a women's point of view.
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This is just my opinion....but I personally am aroused by a gentleman's conduct and intelligence. I would be paying for how he makes me feel and how he listens to what I want . How he arouses my mind . I would not be parting with my hard earned money to pay for physical looks alone...Phoebe makes some very valid points also .:)
 
Great insight from both Phoebe and Lacie4U thank you. Having been married for all my adult life then 2 relationships after that my dealings with men apart from work has been limited. It's interesting what others find appealing and attractive.
 
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Lacie4U said:
This is just my opinion....but I personally am aroused by a gentleman's conduct and intelligence. I would be paying for how he makes me feel and how he listens to what I want . How he arouses my mind . I would not be parting with my hard earned money to pay for physical looks alone...Phoebe makes some very valid points also .:)
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Intelligence and conduct is all what its about really, and women want both in a man, not some sleazy type they can pick up easy as, That is what its about "You time" and if you say to a man you want a foot massage he does that till you say slightly higher etc etc, building up to what you are paying for sexually.

A woman that is not that stunning can take home a fireman with ease.......
 
I though you where all ready following me Miss Phoebe ;)
To be honest luv I have no idea how the follow function works on here have never used it.
When a see your self & H2 and a couple others post I have a look. I always enjoy the banter & so refreshing that I am not the only one that gets completely off track. Sorry that doesn't answer your question
 
Happy pirate what happens when someone follows a person do we get a notification when they post etc
How doe's the function work
Thank you
 
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I found it, as your profile didnt show up Miss Monique ... so HP made it easier for me :)
 
Ahoy;- Its a sign of respect, having people follow you is a good thing. Because your account is closed off to the public, you can still have a fan base that wish to follow you. This is good not a bad thing or bad situation.
Take it as a compliment.
From;- HP


Miss Monique said:
Happy pirate what happens when someone follows a person do we get a notification when they post etc
How doe's the function work
Thank you
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I dont understand I followed two ladies on here All they did was call the cops
Called it storking or something like that
Miss Monique said:
I though you where all ready following me Miss Phoebe ;)
To be honest luv I have no idea how the follow function works on here have never used it.
When a see your self & H2 and a couple others post I have a look. I always enjoy the banter & so refreshing that I am not the only one that gets completely off track. Sorry that doesn't answer your question
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you might be surprised who books escorts.
a friend of mine was booked by a male escort.

another friend of mine told me about her fellow WL friend who booked a male escort.

I guess in both cases it was the escort who decided for once they would make the choice
 
I was asked once by an establishment I was helping to outfit if I'd like to work doing massages for women 50+
I was 40 and had done a Swedish course and learned additional erotic strokes online.

I felt affirmed and briefly considered it, but was working full time at the time and married so let it go. I wonder some times what would have happened.... I'm more interested in how people are and contributing to their happiness than I am about the technical design work I do.

I gather the Mums at my son's swimming therapy sessions used to notice me waiting for him and comment among themselves. He heard the sexy comments and was surprised that I was the target.
He didn't tell me at the time (drats!)
 
What a shame...firstly you decided not to peruse your interest and secondly that you had no idea of your l "fan Club" it is always nice to get an ego boost!!!. I suspect there is a HUGE market in the older female" demographic!;):D
 
Lacie4U said:
What a shame...firstly you decided not to peruse your interest and secondly that you had no idea of your l "fan Club" it is always nice to get an ego boost!!!. I suspect there is a HUGE market in the older female" demographic!;):D
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Thankyou Lacie4U, sweet of you to say.

My frustrations and depression eventually got the better of me and I finally attended a rope workshop in Adelaide (alone) which lead me to releasing my erotic and creative inner self.

Exploring erotic massage with professionals was enjoyable and fun when also bringing them to orgasm.
I divorced and later met my current partner with whom I've had lots of novel adventures, some with professionals.

"And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom."
Anaïs Nin
 
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