Jake "monas"
Silver Member
Are there any mistresses in Perth that would be willing to take on a sub new to bdsm and teach him about being a their submissive?
Looking for a mistress
- Thread starter Jake "monas"
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There is you need to write a resume and would be good practice to write it on here. I am sure the BDSM supporters will help you.
Hi Jake,
A good place to start is filling out a checklist of your interests, soft limits and hard limits. Something like this one is good because you can email it back to yourself and keep it for your records and when you petition to a Mistress. www.wikiphilia.net/bdsmchecklist/bdsmchecklist.php
If you decide to compose a resume, include any special skills you might have; dog grooming, boot polishing, ironing, door frame painting, massage, any food or drinks service.
It'll be easier for Mistresses to take your petitions more seriously if you have a good understanding of these limits and what your interests are, rather than sending out a plethora of copy/paste messages. If you find a Mistress you are interested in for professional services they would generally have websites/blogs etc which will give you an idea if you would be a compatible fit.
If you are looking in the local scene, it's always best to join in with local events to meet a variety of others.
A good place to start is filling out a checklist of your interests, soft limits and hard limits. Something like this one is good because you can email it back to yourself and keep it for your records and when you petition to a Mistress. www.wikiphilia.net/bdsmchecklist/bdsmchecklist.php
If you decide to compose a resume, include any special skills you might have; dog grooming, boot polishing, ironing, door frame painting, massage, any food or drinks service.
It'll be easier for Mistresses to take your petitions more seriously if you have a good understanding of these limits and what your interests are, rather than sending out a plethora of copy/paste messages. If you find a Mistress you are interested in for professional services they would generally have websites/blogs etc which will give you an idea if you would be a compatible fit.
If you are looking in the local scene, it's always best to join in with local events to meet a variety of others.