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Is there such a thing as "punter fatigue?"

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I think I may have it.

Last night I went out to a house I don't normally frequent and spent quite a pleasant hour with a lovely lady. Nothing unusual but, somehow, the spark, the anticipation and the exitement of the forbidden fruit were missing. I won't review the lady or name the house because it may come across as negative and that wouldn't be fair as the fault was all on my side. The encounter was everything it should have been but it just didn't do anything for me.

Driving home I remembered a line from a James Bond story which summed up how I felt. "Bond finished his drink and it went down with the flat, bitter taste of one too many...." I wonder if I have just been punting too long and should take a break for a while?
 
Personally, yes I think there is. The same way as if you use exactly the same images to masturbate to eventually they seem to wear a little thin like super-old jeans. A break or just doing something different for a bit might be all you need to return yourself back to form.

Or it might have just been an off night, or a lack of connection to the girl. The next time or two will let you know. You look somewhat weary in your pic Svengali - maybe you just need a good night's sleep? :sleepy2:
 
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i havent been to a wl in a long long long time now for the same reason i was getting to the point where ill pay to have a wank so i figured stay home and do it lol but for me i think ill like something more now ..
 
svengali said:
I think I may have it.

Last night I went out to a house I don't normally frequent and spent quite a pleasant hour with a lovely lady. Nothing unusual but, somehow, the spark, the anticipation and the exitement of the forbidden fruit were missing. I won't review the lady or name the house because it may come across as negative and that wouldn't be fair as the fault was all on my side. The encounter was everything it should have been but it just didn't do anything for me.

Driving home I remembered a line from a James Bond story which summed up how I felt. "Bond finished his drink and it went down with the flat, bitter taste of one too many...." I wonder if I have just been punting too long and should take a break for a while?
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It happened to me abot 5 years ago and while I'm still interested in beautiful young interesting women its not the same as it used to be. most of the time I find better things to spend my money on rather than $300 for average sex. Sorry to be so depressing Svengalli but once its gone you might never get it back! My advice to the rest of you is to bonk your brains out while the urge is still there!
 
Thanks for the advice, people.

Yes, I have been feeling a bit run-down lately and that night I probably wasn't really up to it. Maybe i'll wait until I really feel like it before I try punting again.
 
a break couldnt do any harm, maybe ur just taking it for granted and when ur not getten it ul start to really miss it again. Or maybe ur looking for more of a connection than just sex. Maybe go see a wl and just focus on some of the gfe type stuff like maybe just hugging oe massaging each other. or give rnt a try.
 
I sometimes feel the same :(

I do miss some of the ladies I have known that have left the industry. Finding that connection is not easy, sometimes I do question if it is all worth the effort
 
Oh that pic is faaaaantastic Toon Hoon hehe

I call it 'The Jaded Punter' but I think its only temporary. I suggested to one of my clients that felt this way to take 6months off. He was complaining that no matter the cost, the lady or how good the service it wasn't 'doing it' for him anymore. Try having a break and see what happends.

Robs xXx
 
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