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Rachy

Rachy

Rachael Canberra
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If someone said to you that they don't want to have sex with you but rather feel your touch... how would you take it??

Does it mean they don't find you attractive enough to want to have SEX with you OR is their a stronger attraction there and they are wanting more intimacy. ​
 
rachy said:
If someone said to you that they don't want to have sex with you but rather feel your touch... how would you take it??

Does it mean they don't find you attractive enough to want to have SEX with you OR is their a stronger attraction there and they are wanting more intimacy. ​
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Depends on how well you know the person and where they wanted you to touch them
 
rachy said:
If someone said to you that they don't want to have sex with you but rather feel your touch... how would you take it??

Does it mean they don't find you attractive enough to want to have SEX with you OR is their a stronger attraction there and they are wanting more intimacy. ​
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Maybe they want to fully trust you and know that you actually love them fully before they give you themselves fully. Maybe they have been badly hurt in the past and this time want to fully trust and know they are fully loved, everyone has their reasons.

Touch at times can be more powerful of an emotion than intercourse, and can be more fulfilling too for both parties you get to know someone by exploring their bodies which is actually exploring their mind and brain, more powerful than the Vagina and Penis ever will be.
 
This is not at all unusual. Don't take it the wrong way and enjoy it.

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rachy said:
If someone said to you that they don't want to have sex with you but rather feel your touch... how would you take it??

Does it mean they don't find you attractive enough to want to have SEX with you OR is their a stronger attraction there and they are wanting more intimacy. ​
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Ultimate compliment... they have enormous respect and dont want to mess up again :)
 
rachy said:
If someone said to you that they don't want to have sex with you but rather feel your touch... how would you take it??

Does it mean they don't find you attractive enough to want to have SEX with you OR is their a stronger attraction there and they are wanting more intimacy. ​
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Great question. I would be fine with it and I wouldn't feel less attractive at all, in fact I'd think it was very special that they trusted me and felt comfortable enough with me touching them in the way that they wanted without having sex or without the concern of me pushing for more or over stepping their boundaries.
 
rachy said:
If someone said to you that they don't want to have sex with you but rather feel your touch... how would you take it??

Does it mean they don't find you attractive enough to want to have SEX with you OR is their a stronger attraction there and they are wanting more intimacy. ​
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I think we need context to fully answer but the answer most likely a stronger attraction.
 
Ok so im totally asking this question for "a Friend"

the context is that there is quite a strong attraction between herself and a man so much so that the tension is visible ( i know weird but ppl have noticed ) anyways apparently he acknowledged to her that he feels the "chemistry" between them but said that it wasnt about sex it was more being close to her .​
 
rachy said:
Ok so im totally asking this question for "a Friend"

the context is that there is quite a strong attraction between herself and a man so much so that the tension is visible ( i know weird but ppl have noticed ) anyways apparently he acknowledged to her that he feels the "chemistry" between them but said that it wasnt about sex it was more being close to her .​
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It seems a little unusual for a guy but if the chemistry is there, one thing it might be is he feels unconfident, nervous or inadequate in some way. Perhaps he's just come out of s bad relationship or is suffering lots of stress or anxiety from that or even his job? Or he might be on some meds that are affecting his sexual functionality? It might be that it isn't he doesn't want to but is scared of messing it up and there won't be another chance? Just a guess at this point.
 
rachy said:
Ok so im totally asking this question for "a Friend"

the context is that there is quite a strong attraction between herself and a man so much so that the tension is visible ( i know weird but ppl have noticed ) anyways apparently he acknowledged to her that he feels the "chemistry" between them but said that it wasnt about sex it was more being close to her .​
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Kevin Costner's character in the movie Tin Cup

Roy: Usually I can bullshit people, but I can't bullshit you, and in addition you got, you got great legs, and most women I'm thinking about how to get in their pants from day one, but with you I'm just I'm just thinking about how to get into your heart.
 
rachy said:
Ok so im totally asking this question for "a Friend"

the context is that there is quite a strong attraction between herself and a man so much so that the tension is visible ( i know weird but ppl have noticed ) anyways apparently he acknowledged to her that he feels the "chemistry" between them but said that it wasnt about sex it was more being close to her .​
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Is he married or in a relationship that 'your friend' doesn't know about?

But seriously, if it was said in a way that meant he never wanted sex that would be odd and wouldn't seem like a good thing. If it was said in a go slow kind of way then maybe it's fine.

Another possibility is he could have a problem that he's not comfortable disclosing or he could have image problems that mean he doesn't want to get naked with 'your friend'.
 
rachy said:
Ok so im totally asking this question for "a Friend"

the context is that there is quite a strong attraction between herself and a man so much so that the tension is visible ( i know weird but ppl have noticed ) anyways apparently he acknowledged to her that he feels the "chemistry" between them but said that it wasnt about sex it was more being close to her .​
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Maybe he meant it like the chemistry he felt was not sexual but he has feelings for her that go beyond just sex cause you can have sexual chemistry with someone and not have any feelings for them so maybe he meant he has feelings for her
 
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