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How to Select an Escort
Finding an EscortMeeting an Escort

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So you have decided to take the plunge and see an escort. You may be asking your self where do I begin? Here are some helpful tips to make this challenging decision a bit easier...




Part 1 of 2: Finding an Escort

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    Find a reputable escort directory site that has many escort ads for you to search through. You can tell you are on a good site if the majority of the ads there are posted monthly. Sites to avoid would be sites like Backpage.com where escorts post ads daily instead of monthly. One reason behind this is that daily ads are very cheap which attracts lower class escorts.

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    Decide if you want to search for an independent escort or an escort agency.Agencies are nice because you can expect a certain level of consistency from the escorts. If you find an agency that you like then the booker can make recommendations to you according to your taste. The downside to agencies is that you will have to pay a bit more because you will pay a large agency fee which is rolled into the price.


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    Narrow your search to the type of escort that you want. Some categories include; mature, brunette, blond, busty, VIP,etc.


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    Decide on a budget. Keep in mind that you get what you pay for. If you only have $100-$200 to spend, you should consider saving up some more money because you will have a much much better experience if you are willing to spend a bit more. Once you click on a girl that you like, scroll down and look at her price if she is no where within your budget then you might not want to waste your time reading her ad. Do not attempt to negotiate the price with an upscale escort. If her price is not listed then she is usually more pricey. If you found an escort that you really like and she is in your price range, make sure that there will be no added fees or "tips" once you arrive.


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    Make sure she is the girl in the photo! Escorts who use fake photos will never tell you that it is not really them. They will assure you "that is 100% me!" but when you arrive, the only thing that is the same is her hair color. Many girls using fake pics will blur out their face but many beautiful escorts using real photos will blur their face as well for privacy reasons. One way you can tell if her photo is real is to look her up on a review site. Other gents will leave comments about her and let you know if she is the girl in the photo.


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    Use a photo searching service like Tineye to see if her pictures are stolen from an adult website or professional photo shoot (such as Playboy). This doesn't necessarily mean her photos are fake, but it's not a good sign if you see her on a professional modeling website not related to adult escort services.


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    Google her stage name or look her up on a review site and see how long she has been providing. If she has only been doing this for a few weeks or months then you are taking a higher risk. Google her contact phone number and email.


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    Discuss plans and possibilities, discretely. Once you have decided on an escort, make sure that you have some idea of what will happen during your time together. If you discuss her services over the phone, make sure you know the correct code-words for the services you want. Crude and graphic words may cause her to hang-up on you and ignore your calls. You may also be talking to her manager on the phone, so keep in mind the female who answers may not be the girl you're meeting.


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    Find out what kind of incall location she will provide for you. A cheap motel in a bad neighborhood may not be a great idea. Make sure the parking lot is not visible from the street if you are close to your home or office.


Part 2 of 2: Meeting an Escort

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    Be cautious upon arrival. When you arrive at an incall location, look around. If you see anything suspicious (lots of people walking around, doing maintenance or clean-up, watching you), or get a weird feeling, just walk away. Remember that most hotels do their housekeeping early in the day, and maintenance is rarely done at night. Be safe and smart.


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    Take your real wallet out, and hide it in your car. Do this before you arrive at the location - you don't want a nefarious person seeing you do this. Only take your cell phone, cash and keys with you. If you have a spare wallet, use that one.


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    Display your donation. When you get inside her incall location, show her you have the agreed upon amount, and place it clearly on a nightstand or table. This money is only for her time (not for any illegal services.) Please do not attempt to exchange sex for money. It is against the law!


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    Check the escort's legal status. Ask her if she is at least 18, and make sure she has a licence to practice escorting in the state that you are in, if she does not answer yes to both of those questions then you are breaking the law.


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    Clean up, if asked. Some escorts may ask you to wash your hands, or even take a shower. Taking a shower could mean she might leave with your money while you're not looking, so you can say you just took one (you should anyway, before and after). It's less likely an established escort will run off with your money, so keep that in mind when you're picking a new girl with no reviews or online history. You may be able to take the cash into the bathroom with you, she may or may not get offended at this. Take your wallet, cell phone and keys into the bathroom.


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    Get comfortable. Once she sees your donation and knows you're serious, she should have no problem undressing for you, which is a legal adult activity (in almost all states, except maybe Kansas - if this worries you, check your state and local laws on private adult dancers).


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    Have fun and good luck on your search!
 
hehehehehe...oh dear........what a long and draining process..........hi guys you can save yourself a lot of time and effort if you just call Langtrees if you desire an escort.........so much easier :p
 
When I first started to dabble in the industry
I found I was offended when guys questioned me on the phone about my description of myself
(as in they kept saying are you sure you are a Double D 40 ,
or are you sure you sre a tall Sz 12 ...
Or are you sure I can come as many times as I like.... )

Having always worked in the managerial arena, I was totally confused by their doubt!
Eventually I realized most ladies embellished their descriptions (as we all do a little)
But these were ridiculous lies -saying their were Busty (not). Sz 6-8 (not)
they would tongue kiss (no) etc etc ,,,
Also found out these ladies would just say that to get the guys to come to their door ...
Half the battle won they reckoned!!

It pleased me when most guys turned up at my door they weren't disappointed!!! ​
 
Nowadays it is great that we can show photos of ourselves
As it gives clientele an idea of what to expect !
As everyone would picture totally different images in their heads
But with a photograph taken in a discreet way
it gives the clientele an essence (a glimpse) of us ... ​
 
Although I have been shy away from visiting a private (personal living circumstances almost never allow me to do so) - nonetheless - great coverage on the majorities on the steps from start to finish.

...But not quite as complete on the details that make up the *larger* picture.

Last year I found a more complete list of do's and don'ts I've read (written by an independent W/L) that pretty much covers everything: Link is broken so has been removed

I understand that I've reposted this in the past, but I feel compelled to share the above link once more; and for those who are lazy to read through; there's two very important tips that I rewrote based from her full list:

1. DO NOT FLOSS in the day OR the hours prior to the booking.
This is quite a no brainer; at least to me. How could anyone not notice this? If you're about to DFK a lady, even the smallest tear on the gums are exposed upon contact. Note: the original actually says to NOT BRUSH or FLOSS, but personally, I think it is too punitive. IMO - flossing IS MORE destructive to the gums than brushing with a normal soft brush.

2. IF IT'S NECESSARY TO CONFIRM HER EXACT WHEREABOUTS, always make the phone call from inside your car, not when you're inside the hotel building, the apartment complex, or just pretty much where there's people. Once you're discussing "it" in public, there is always someone hearing it.

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I have only visited a caucasian private once so far (only once; years ago) - but so many things went wrong (mixed up lot numbers, multiple apartment complex entrances, actual PUBLIC / people seeing me, VERY SPECIFIC buzzer etiquettes without letting me know beforehand, then herself screaming through it as though I'm an idiot, etc). What a drama.
 
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