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How strong are you really??

billybones

billybones

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How many of us can say we have been strong enough to reject an offer of sex?? Either with somebody you have known for a while, just met or even from a W/L that just didn`t appeal to you.

As I`m sure most of you know I enjoy a good R&T from time to time and often if a new place gets mentioned I`ll go pay a visit just to see how it looks and see if there is anybody there that makes me tingle...
Problem is once I`m there, the little head overrides the big head and as much as I may want to walk away I can`t...
Sometimes it can be too hard. (pun intended) :occasion14
 
Like they say god gave us two heads but only enough blood to use one at a time. lol
 
Well, BB, I would hope that if you are visiting an RnT place, that you are intending to listen to your "little" head? I mean, if you don't "feel the need," when you go there, and intend to "scratch the itch," aren't you just wasting the time of the girls who work there?
 
....very easy! If a lady won't look me in the eye whilst chatting with me but, rather she looks elsewhere or plays with her mobile (as happened once to me at LTs), then I walk away no matter how interested I may be in her.
 
Long time ago a Japanese R&T girl I visited was more interested in watching TV while giving me a HJ. I ended up walking out.
Other than that I find it hard to say no.
 
I walked out on a WL in Mt Lawley who was drunk and started to insult me as soon as she walked into the room.
 
Alecia the Foxx said:
Well, BB, I would hope that if you are visiting an RnT place, that you are intending to listen to your "little" head? I mean, if you don't "feel the need," when you go there, and intend to "scratch the itch," aren't you just wasting the time of the girls who work there?
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Not really believe I`m wasting anybodys time, I walk in, ask them what time they open and close and then take a brochure if there is one available.
 
Have walked away from asian WL's from BC website that advertise as 20yo or 21yo and i ask them if thats true age when i make the booking and open the door to see a 40yo
 
Yeah i have, to a friend of my past lady. It was her 40th birthday and there were about 4 of us still drinking and smoking around 5am, she kept on trying to get me pissed and kept sticking ..... down my throat, which the 3 other guys were not all that happy about as she kept by passing them.

Then said what she wanted for her birthday was me, which made me feel very arkward, i turned to her and said .... you are to much of a friend and i don't want to fuck that friendship up, she said no it wouldn't but i said if i do it will change it and i don't want that to happen.
Feeling like a pric i just said no and it didn't make me feel very good at all, but i didn't go ahead with it, next time i saw her 2 days later she was embarrassed, about as much as i was when i said no.

I said don't worry about it you were pretty pissed, but she still remembered. Even though i said no i would still say no, and i know she still really doesn't accept it, but i value her friendship and to me that matters more.
So do you think it does change a friendship or would of you said no? In this case i know it would of, but i guess not in all. As she was also my past ladies best friend, and i mean passed away, that made it even harder, but i sure didn't feel very good about it. At least we are still very good friends, but as i said i know she still wants to.
Most people think i am not, but i am a very shy guy and definately not egotistical.
 
happytimes said:
Yeah i have, to a friend of my past lady. It was her 40th birthday and there were about 4 of us still drinking and smoking around 5am, she kept on trying to get me pissed and kept sticking ..... down my throat, which the 3 other guys were not all that happy about as she kept by passing them.

Then said what she wanted for her birthday was me, which made me feel very arkward, i turned to her and said .... you are to much of a friend and i don't want to fuck that friendship up, she said no it wouldn't but i said if i do it will change it and i don't want that to happen.
Feeling like a pric i just said no and it didn't make me feel very good at all, but i didn't go ahead with it, next time i saw her 2 days later she was embarrassed, about as much as i was when i said no.

I said don't worry about it you were pretty pissed, but she still remembered. Even though i said no i would still say no, and i know she still really doesn't accept it, but i value her friendship and to me that matters more.
So do you think it does change a friendship or would of you said no? In this case i know it would of, but i guess not in all. As she was also my past ladies best friend, and i mean passed away, that made it even harder, but i sure didn't feel very good about it. At least we are still very good friends, but as i said i know she still wants to.
Most people think i am not, but i am a very shy guy and definately not egotistical.
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You did right...............
 
Phantom said:
Have walked away from asian WL's from BC website that advertise as 20yo or 21yo and i ask them if thats true age when i make the booking and open the door to see a 40yo
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Same thing happened to me, but that's not strength, that's just false advertising, and when they're that far off, I don't feel bad.

There's one I plan to try in Mandurah who just appeared on the BC site who is not from the "liumin" stable (who in the past have used those false IDs), whose pictures actually look reasonably amateur (and I verified them against tineye, no matches), so I might see if I can get to her this weekend and verify.
 
billybones said:
Not really believe I`m wasting anybodys time, I walk in, ask them what time they open and close and then take a brochure if there is one available.
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Sure. No problem then. But that aint what you said in your orginal post. ::)
 
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Wanting it yet not needing has been a good belief. Yet to action that accordingly is an ongoing journey of learning and conditioning.

Oh and that don't just apply to sex :)
 
Turning on 'the tap' Is not so easy W/L or not. There has to be some attraction. If she is a W/L and maybe I don't feel comfortable it's much better to leave and not have any regrets or worries,Especially if the establishment looks a bit seedy. I imagine also for a W/L if your not into it I'm sure it's a hell of a lot more difficult for her and not a pleasant experience.
Everyone deserves some job satisfaction.
 
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