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GirlFriend Experience - GFE - Short definition

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Hiya All

I've had a few people ask me exactly what the Girlfriend Experience is...

I found a website with some opinions on this, so i thought I would post one of the definitions and see what others may have to say about it :)

This snippit was copied from What GFE (Girlfriend Experience) Means To Me in sexwork

Girl Friend Experience - Short definition
What it means to each person is a little different, but to most guys it means a provider that makes the experience seem unrushed, enjoyable, fun, relaxing and more like a "real date than a quick commercial encounter. In practice, though, it seems to depend on chemistry, personality and mutual expectations, as YMMV ("your mileage may vary") for both the provider and client. A general description might be: a session that facilitates the experience, mutual cuddling/foreplay, mutual kissing, mutual oral sex (covered or uncovered--depending), and involves either the illusion or reality of passion on the part of the provider. Most of all its about being a sincere mutually desired human interaction. It is the opposite of the women being treated like a sex toy and the man an ATM machine.


Sandy xox
 
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Sexy Sandy that is what i call a GFE ( "Short definition" ) n ya gotto have the passion :) :)
John
 
It means a girl that enjoys her job and makes a effort to give her client a pleasurable memory for many a year.
 
I dont really have a definition as such... I always believed it was an appointment with affection and intamcy...

I am affectionate and intimate regardless, and I always get into what I'm doing and give the whole enjoyment experience (I genuinely do enjoy it!)

So I guess the whole GFE thing is something I do regardless!

Sandy xxx
 
Sexy Sandy said:
Hiya All
...................... Most of all its about being a sincere mutually desired human interaction. It is the opposite of the women being treated like a sex toy and the man an ATM machine.
Sandy xox
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Spot on I'd say. The best experiences I have had all involved a lady who either enthusiastically enjoyed the experience or gave an Oscar worthy imitation of enjoyment.

The opposite is what I call "vaginally assisted masturbation".
 
Thanx everyone, but esp. SS for putting some thought into "GFE". Most guys have a fair idea but most GF dont give GFE. Generally because the brain is somewhere else! I am sure guys do the same to girls. I was not being sexist. But is not life all about being ENTHUSIASTIC no matter what we are doing? Just love it all!
 
In fact reading all the threads again ("treading the threads") I must get over to Perth and catch up with Sexy Sandy. SS you sound like my type of girl!
 
For me it is a lady who makes me feel comfortable. I get nervous enough as it is, so that is the key!!
 
Absolutely! And "comfortable" means not pushy, easy-going, relaxed, not trying to show all the toys at once! Encouraging me to get to know her not the other way around. Definitely GFE.
 
I admit i have only recenty tried a GFE. Before I did not know such an experience was available. A few times I have been lucky and met a sex worker willing to give me the GFE.

Now that I now know it is the only way I want to have sex. It is truly beautiful and so exciting.

I have always treated every lady as a lady.
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I think some working girls need to look up the meaning of GFE.
Not that i have seen a working girl in a while, but i only ever found 1 who really seemed to enjoy her job and actually put in some effort to make it an unforgetable experience...and it must of worked becasue i still remember her!!!!

p.s. have never been with a Perth working girl so i would hope it is better over here.
Maybe ill find out one day if the right opportunity was to present itself
 
Hey Sandy, thanks for the clear explanation makes it a lot easier to know what to expect.
 
Dear Miranda, A most insightful comment. As you have shown, the simplest expression is full of meaning and truth. XX Haste69
 
to me the gfe is when a we go to see a girl/lady and thay make us feel like a person not just a cock and a wallet$, and in return we to should and will treat them with the gfe experience. also.
 
I think this is the most important aspect. I would take a girl less pretty with good gfe than a hot chick that you feel is only after your money. Ultimately it's the feeling of being wanted and loved that I am looking for even if its not real.
 
I've always wanted to try a GFE, but I've never had any luck. It would be fantastic to finish with a kiss and a cuddle!
 
Unfortunately, some WLs advertise GFE but does not realy provide it during the service.
Of course it is understandable if the client is drunk, smelly, rude, etc. I think it will depend on both parties attitude toward each other before the GFE is provided.
Lots of BC WLs put this GFE on their ads but you'll hardly get it.
 
Spent some time with a great young lady in Sydney a few years back, Wonderful GFE and I felt that she enjoyed it as much as I did. I still think about it and as I will be in Sydney later this month I hope I can find another lady as good. But you are right many ladies advertise GFE but few provide it.
 
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