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Hi, I'm 60, happily married. My wife and I haven't had sex for a few years. She is my best friend and I have no intention of changing that. We have discussed my (annoyingly) frustrating desire to be sexual, and she has (not reluctantly) agreed for me to consult a sex worker. I have decided to post in this 'relationship' forum because I believe that all experiences based on any interactions fit the category of a relationship. So, in this business relationship that I would like to embark on makes me want to ask something. Forgive me for any naivete in my question.....
I want to convey respect and appreciation to a woman to allow me to be physically intimate with her and her body. I get that she isn't doing it because she is delighted by the idea, but because it is her chosen profession.
Is it appropriate for me to end the exchange with extra payment if I am happy with her service? I ask this because I'd like to let her know that just because I am paying for her service, I am not a mindless consumer and don't want to take this exchange for granted as if I am entitled. Or is there another way to express myself in this way? Or am I trying too hard?
Thanks.
I want to convey respect and appreciation to a woman to allow me to be physically intimate with her and her body. I get that she isn't doing it because she is delighted by the idea, but because it is her chosen profession.
Is it appropriate for me to end the exchange with extra payment if I am happy with her service? I ask this because I'd like to let her know that just because I am paying for her service, I am not a mindless consumer and don't want to take this exchange for granted as if I am entitled. Or is there another way to express myself in this way? Or am I trying too hard?
Thanks.