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Does age really matter???

billybones

billybones

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I`m sure most of us middle aged men like to try and find someone younger when choosing a W/L but should age really matter???
When it comes to choosing your life partner how close to your own age should they be?? Is it true that age is only a number and that as long as you both are happy... That`s all that matters??
 
billybones said:
I`m sure most of us middle aged men like to try and find someone younger when choosing a W/L but should age really matter???
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....I have not punted in quite awhile......but when I did, I used to look for someone around my age bracket.....the reason being was that I was concerned that a younger WL would be "grossed out" by seeing a client who was old enough to be their father.

As the pool of mature WLs around my age declines over time, my punting days may soon be at an end. However, I was surprised to read posts by some younger WLs who weren't concerned about seeing an older guy (theres a thread on the forum). Maybe this old boy might to return to punting some day.... :)

billybones said:
When it comes to choosing your life partner how close to your own age should they be?? Is it true that age is only a number and that as long as you both are happy...That`s all that matters??
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....I agree with the premise that age is only a number and all that matters is that you are both happy, however, in my opinion, it's based on the notion that both parties are able to relate to "things in common". Whilst age may not necessarilly impact on core matters such as values, principles, social awareness etc, it might have an impact on day-to-day matters.

Fudd :)
 
But that 22 yr old beauty who falls for the silver fox may be second guessing her choice when pushing the old man around in his wheelchair 20yrs later
 
In terms of punting - I have found that most guys don't mind having a girl who is young enough to be their daughter. Young enough to be their grand-daughter is a different thing, entirely. lol
 
Hej Foxy,

Thats discrimination, some of us Grand Daddys can manage more than a dandy on our knees. Why should we be denied the delights of a young nubile lady if we should desire.
 
Discrimination eh? Well, you have a different definition of that word than I do.
 
We are traversing old ground here as it on another thread. I am 73 this month and I always ask the w/l if she has a problem with age. None of them do (fortunately). I believe them when they tell me that they have enjoyed their time with me and looking forward to the next time.

I have more of a problem with people who express surprise that I am still working( and working hard I might add). Fortunately, I am in a profession where I work for myself and I find it good for my ego to have more work from clients than I can handle.

We are all going to get old but look after yourself, keep busy and stay away from retired people. Love what you and do what you love. Be kind to others and as someone said above "age is just a number". Alecia darling, let me know when you are in Sydney I will take you to dinner and try and change you mind. XX
 
Yes even I agreed with the old fart this time and I might forgive him for suggesting I read the Australian tax act thirteen thousand pages long and still growing.
 
Definitely! You're very inspiring Haste69. I can only hope that I have the same passion for life at 73!
In relation to W/L seeing older men, in fact, from my experience, they often prefer to see older men cause they're usually more respectful and gentler than some of the young guys that think they can thrash away for an hour.
Even in my personal life I have decided to switch from a bit of a cougar, to now, going for the more sensible older gentlemen...I'll get back to you and let you know how that goes...

Lisa xxx
 
Haste69 said:
We are traversing old ground here as it on another thread. I am 73 this month and I always ask the w/l if she has a problem with age. None of them do (fortunately). I believe them when they tell me that they have enjoyed their time with me and looking forward to the next time.

I have more of a problem with people who express surprise that I am still working( and working hard I might add). Fortunately, I am in a profession where I work for myself and I find it good for my ego to have more work from clients than I can handle.

We are all going to get old but look after yourself, keep busy and stay away from retired people. Love what you and do what you love. Be kind to others and as someone said above "age is just a number". Alecia darling, let me know when you are in Sydney I will take you to dinner and try and change you mind. XX
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I will do that Mr Haste.

But I think you and the other poster who accused me of discrimination ::) have taken me the wrong way. I was talking about what I have gleaned from talking to punters. That was where I got the info for my post. My mind does not need to be changed. In terms of punting, I prefer 30+, I may go down to 25, but not in a hurry. In terms of my personal life, I normally date men who are younger than myself, however I have dated men much older than myself as well. Age does not matter to me, however, MATURITY matters a lot.
 
Well said Alecia The Foxx...

"Age doesn't matter, but maturity matters alot"

A man, or woman for that matter, could be 100, but have a mental age of 12! Yet you can also have the reverse, I've met people that are still very young but have obviously 'been here before' and therefore have an intelligence and maturity way beyond their years!

In short, age means jack, chemistry and things in common definitely outweigh candles on a cake in the long run...


Lisa xxx
 
Yes, and as well as that - I know a guy who is about 52 who really does have a mental age of 12 because of a disease which he contracted while still unborn (something to do with calcium levels) however he has a workable sense of maturity (in important things.) So, it has to be taken case by case, physical age is only one factor.
 
Lisa The Receptionist said:
A man, or woman for that matter, could be 100, but have a mental age of 12! Yet you can also have the reverse, I've met people that are still very young but have obviously 'been here before' and therefore have an intelligence and maturity way beyond their years!
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....oh crap.....I'm screwed....bugger!!! :)
 
Age is just a number. Seriously if that was the defence used by a pedophile to justify molesting kids he should be fed to the sharks.

Age is just a number. To justify a young gold digger marrying an man 30 to 50 years+ her senior only for his huge fortune.

Age is just a number. The old geezer justifies to his own children and grandchildren who question him on dating a much younger lady who only loves his huge fortune.
 
You are all right!

It is not a matter of years - it is a matter of kindness, love, respect, understanding, preparedness to build a relationship, consideration of others.

To all of you reading this post today: have a great day! Love a lot; Give of yourself;Learn -but most of all enjoy the day with happiness in your heart!
 
Thanks for the wishes of a good day and how to enjoy it
Now tell me if I'm wrong but your a soppy old sod aren't you?H69
 
homer said:
A wise man used to say, your only as old as the woman you feel...lol
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....and another wise old man once said......."Be careful who you feel, as you may be feeling something else in prison".....lol :)
 
Age means nothing, but sex appeal is everything!!
I am only interested in punting with girls who look fabulous and have something to offer between the ears as well.
Im always amazed at guys who will pay for sex with a girl they wouldnt bother approaching at a bar, each to their own I suppose, but if I am going to pay it has to be quality!!
 
homer said:
A wise man used to say, your only as old as the woman you feel...lol
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I agree 110% with Homers quote - age is a number only & I find that the younger ladies I have known in recent times keep me mentally challenged as well as the physical side both in & outside of the bedroom. Think young - be young - its whats between your ears that counts as well - like I say think young be young & if you're having fun with a lady whether 1 or 40 years younger it doesnt matter just enjoy the moment & be thankful you are alive to enjoy it.
 
Atta boy Spirit,

Thats the way for the more mature gentleman (emphasis on gentle).
It is much more fullfilling to go for the whole experience of nubile youth and loving fantasy, not a target of as many pops in an hour in as many positions as possible.
 
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