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Does Age Matter in a Relationship?................
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No, I don`t think so if there is genuine love/attraction in the air. But I do wonder about a young twenty something girl with a man almost going senile, eg the posted pic
Would be interested to hear your views Jacqueline?
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I guess it depends on how you define 'relationship'. My answer would be not at all in a temporary affair (even those lasting up to several months or a few years). However, in a marriage or other long-term relationship, a large age difference -- which may not seem a big deal at the start -- I imagine will eventually begin to tell in most (if not all) cases.
For example, a 25-year-old woman who falls for a 55-year-old silver fox will probably start feeling differently about her more mature hubby when she's in her sexual prime at 40 and he's 70. She may well still love him dearly but it may not be the same passionate, sexually fuelled love as when they first met. Of course, if he is in effect her sugar daddy, she probably won't care and will be satisfied by a long line of lovers -- but is that a relationship most people would want? (Yes, there are some high-profile examples where wealthy old men, including one or two notorious Australians, are quite content to have much younger wives who almost certainly fool around with men nearer their own age, but I suggest these are exceptions.)
Reverse the sexes and I would be amazed if a 25-year-old stud who enjoyed servicing a 55-year-old cougar would continue to be monogamous with her even 5 years later, let alone after 15 years when she's 70 (unless he's got a granny fetish perhaps).
Those in an 'open relationship', especially where a lot of money is involved (as above), may well prosper no matter the age gap if they have other things in common and share a unique bond.
For example, a 25-year-old woman who falls for a 55-year-old silver fox will probably start feeling differently about her more mature hubby when she's in her sexual prime at 40 and he's 70. She may well still love him dearly but it may not be the same passionate, sexually fuelled love as when they first met. Of course, if he is in effect her sugar daddy, she probably won't care and will be satisfied by a long line of lovers -- but is that a relationship most people would want? (Yes, there are some high-profile examples where wealthy old men, including one or two notorious Australians, are quite content to have much younger wives who almost certainly fool around with men nearer their own age, but I suggest these are exceptions.)
Reverse the sexes and I would be amazed if a 25-year-old stud who enjoyed servicing a 55-year-old cougar would continue to be monogamous with her even 5 years later, let alone after 15 years when she's 70 (unless he's got a granny fetish perhaps).
Those in an 'open relationship', especially where a lot of money is involved (as above), may well prosper no matter the age gap if they have other things in common and share a unique bond.
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Is perhap interesting to Consider things practically, the 20s something babe with a mature male partner?
As her maternal instincts kick in, beyond the passion as XLNC highlight, the partner is less likely to be into full time kids 24/7. By that time in life they are more comfortable with the part time " give them back" grand parent role? This then dominos into the passionate side.
Mom's still have needs and desires in the bedroom, but they manage them round the changed environment.
Not sure if the guy would just think of her as a hot MILF or with the same passion and responsiveness as before? It would depend on the strength of the relationship and the respect each individual shares.
As her maternal instincts kick in, beyond the passion as XLNC highlight, the partner is less likely to be into full time kids 24/7. By that time in life they are more comfortable with the part time " give them back" grand parent role? This then dominos into the passionate side.
Mom's still have needs and desires in the bedroom, but they manage them round the changed environment.
Not sure if the guy would just think of her as a hot MILF or with the same passion and responsiveness as before? It would depend on the strength of the relationship and the respect each individual shares.
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ANNA NICOLE SMITH..... TRUE LOVE FOR $$
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GEOFFREY EDELSTEN $$ FOR TRUE LOVE.....WHATEVER
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DONALD TRUMP AND BABY...(SHES THE ONE ON THE RIGHT)
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DONALD TRUMP AND BABY...(SHES THE ONE ON THE RIGHT)
Cute baby.
With all that dough, you'd think Donald could afford a more convincing rug up top.
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HE'S 85...SHE'S 37
HE HES 3 TESTICLES.....WHAT DOES IT ALL MEAN?
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Intreging question Madam Jacqui
Is there a possible new relationship brewing
maybe a younger Boy Toy Hmmmmm????
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You will have your chanceNo. Linda, Not that Lucky.............
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What is all the fuss?
He: a million years old with bucket loads of cash wants a young perky, sexy lady on his arm and in his bed. He is prepared to share his hard earned wealth to have what he wants.
She: a young sexy, foxy teenager who wants what a lot of ladies want; money. She is prepared to take care of an older gent and suffer the stares and whispers to have what she wants.
Is she happy? I would say so.
Is He happy? Fuck yeh.
It works. It's obvious and perhaps potentially embarrassing in the right or wrong environment, but it is happening all over the world in all cultures. We all know it. It is just our ultra conservative western morality that has a problem accepting it.
He: a million years old with bucket loads of cash wants a young perky, sexy lady on his arm and in his bed. He is prepared to share his hard earned wealth to have what he wants.
She: a young sexy, foxy teenager who wants what a lot of ladies want; money. She is prepared to take care of an older gent and suffer the stares and whispers to have what she wants.
Is she happy? I would say so.
Is He happy? Fuck yeh.
It works. It's obvious and perhaps potentially embarrassing in the right or wrong environment, but it is happening all over the world in all cultures. We all know it. It is just our ultra conservative western morality that has a problem accepting it.
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I don't think its the Ladies who are the dirty ones here!!!!! Men hav a lot to answer for!!!!! HMMMMMMF.
Cayla Cream
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ESPECIALLY when they get around like dirty lazy unhealthy looking slobs!
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A family was walking down the beach and saw this couple. The mum turns to her daughter and and she says to her, "see, she's an example of why you should try hard and do well at school". The dad was walking behind with his son and he turns to him and says, "see, he's an example of why you should try hard and do well at school".
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Ahoy;- Here the news........
Billionaire Geoffrey Edelsten has officially proposed to his girlfriend Gabi Grecko outside the Birdcage at the Melbourne Cup.
Wearing a blinding lemon suit, Edelsten got down on bended knee to pop the question in front of media and celebrities.
Grecko, dressed in a bird-like bedazzled dress complete with feathers immediately accepted.
In July, Grecko announced Edelsten had asked her to marry him during a fight.
"We were going to break up so we really had to make a decision and set down some rules and he said he really wants to be with me and he's willing to do anything," Grecko told 2DayFM.
She said at the time that Edelsten was waiting until later in the year to make an "official proposal".
Edelsten was previously married to Brynne Edelsten. They announced their split in January after nearly four years of marriage
Billionaire Geoffrey Edelsten has officially proposed to his girlfriend Gabi Grecko outside the Birdcage at the Melbourne Cup.
Wearing a blinding lemon suit, Edelsten got down on bended knee to pop the question in front of media and celebrities.
Grecko, dressed in a bird-like bedazzled dress complete with feathers immediately accepted.
In July, Grecko announced Edelsten had asked her to marry him during a fight.
"We were going to break up so we really had to make a decision and set down some rules and he said he really wants to be with me and he's willing to do anything," Grecko told 2DayFM.
She said at the time that Edelsten was waiting until later in the year to make an "official proposal".
Edelsten was previously married to Brynne Edelsten. They announced their split in January after nearly four years of marriage