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bi curious question

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hi guys how can anyone tells that he is bi curious, i am straight but i feel attraction for guys on sexual manners but i don't want to be bisexual .
 
You are what you are. Of course if you have enough self control and do not listen to your feelings you can be what you want to be. I am sure if you paid attention to your body you will know if you find males sexually attractive.

I have never been sexually attracted to a male although can see beauty in a healthy male. Yes I can see the same beauty in a race horse but never been sexually attracted to a horse either.
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If you feel attraction to guys on a sexual manner then I would say you are curious - you won't be bi until you try. If you don't want to be bi then don't have sex with a guy and try to put it out of your mind.
 
The question is, why don't you want to be bi? I think you are just shared of being judged and emasculated. But does that mean you really want to deny some strong feelings you may have. You may try to forget these feelings, but if you are constantly feeling them for diffeent males I think you may find that even if you deny them, you will be with them for life. A lifetime or ignoring some of your strongest desires? Well its up to you.

Even if you are bi, it doesn't change the person you are. You don't just magically change your dress sense and waltz into gay clubs. It just means you may be sexually attracted to guys and may experience some things with guys or girls. And if people choose not to accept you for who you are then that is there problem, but don't make it yours.
 
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Silverheart

I have been involved in MMF threesomes with DP (sandwich) and even where there is touching (ie each others dicks) between the males I have not even thought about having sex with the other bloke. However some - particularly religious nutters would not only be against thresomes but would describe that behaviou as bi-sexual.

I also enjoy having sex with pre-op trannies - both giving and receiving. Am I bi-curious or bi-sexual? No - because I can share a woman with another bloke without wanting sex with the other bloke.

As for the pre-ops - I see them as women with dicks and they view themselves that way. I do not see them as men with tits. So even from that point of view I do not regard myself as bi.

All in all it is a matter of your own perception so follow your own desires - dont be afraid to experiment so long as you control the situation. If you find that you are bi - ie having and enjoying penetration sex with both men and women - who cares?
 
i guess u r all right , its very hard to me though to admit that , it doesn't seem right , but i wont know without trying , who knows
 
yahh , i think i will give it a try , that s the only way to know , thanks everybody u were very helpful
 
If being called bicurious or bisexual bothers you babe then you could always choose not to wear a label at all?
 
I consider myself a straight male, but I find myself odly curious about things too. Women turn me on. There is nothing about the male that excites me, but when i'm excited, I find that I'm willing to please even men, as long as there is a woman involved in the fun.

I feel that sometimes i'm judged unfairly when I say that I have no problem pleasing both a man and a woman orally, but if there is no women around, i dont seem to be able to get it up (no pun intended) or show any interest at all. But thats just how I am I suppose. :D

Would you say you are attracted to men? Do you fantasise about them sexually? Or are you just curious to try new things?
 
I don't consider myself bi.... I am all about chicks, but dont mind sucking a couple of cocks once or twice a year. I never take any notice of guys.
 
iam not attracted for men thats sure but i dont know i have fantasies and curious thats all
 
Good point. I like what silver had to day about pre op trannies. I love their feminine nature. They just happen to have a cock. I have thought about it and I would probably have little trouble getting naughty with a tranny. I think sucking a cock of a beautiful feminine "woman" would turn me on :)
 
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Having done it for the first time quite recently I can assure you it is quite a "turn on". Previously I had just penetrated pre-ops - but sucking pre-op cock and then being penetrated yourself is a memorable experience.

Even if you do not want to go as far as being penetrated yourself I thoroughly recommend a bit of mutual cocksucking.:icon_blow
 
i guess i will try tht but the problem is with who , i dont know how to talk to a guy about tht its very awkward
 
Id say im Bi...but the only way i can play around with a male is in a threesome with a girl....it must be the idea of sucking cock with a female that does it 4 me:)))
 
Omg fukmee that sounds good. I'm still thinking about it. Know of any good ones?

Silverheart. I just had a good experience with a friend. A few drinks and porn is always a good start. :)

...and there is nothing more erotic than fucking a girl and passionately kissing her while there is a hard cock between your open mouths.
 
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