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Awful first time experience

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boredpunter

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Hey everyone. I am new to punting. I had not had sex for 5 years. Since my breakup in 2016. So I finally gave in to my desires. I tried to book a 15 min with a cheap brothel the first time just to get a feel of it. But yesterday, I booked someone for 30 mins for 250. It was all going good but I was too excited and I ended up cumming in like 15 secs after the girl was on top of me. There was very minimal foreplay prior to this. After I came, I couldn't get it up for another round during the entire duration. I was so so disappointed.

Have you guys ever experienced something similar?
I was too afraid to take viagra as I remember waking up with a painful boner one night. It did go off on its within some time but I am still frightened by it.
 
As is often said, the brain is the most incredible sex organ. Get control of your brain, and you will then get control of the rest. Remember stress is the greatest enemy of bedroom performance & anxiety. (Especially porn induced stress - remember porn is fantasy and you’ll never be able to do it like you see in porn, they have the advantage of the cutting room which turns 3 hours of multiple 3 minute bursts into what appears to be a Herculean single session 🤔🤭)

Viagra and the like have no effect on ejaculation and will often lose their effect after cumming in many people. Try to control (slow down) your breathing if ur feeling excited to help stop cumming in a flash. If u cum accept it and enjoy other pleasure to keep the mood but avoid stressing about not being hard. Usually you soon be hard enough for reentry, (& remember lube is your friend😉)
 
But was it the best 15 sec in 6 years?🤔

Also chalk it down to know what to expect next time. Also if you don't want her jump you so fast, communicate it up front & you take the lead

In terms of positions, cowboy is probably not best as you have less control.
 
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boredpunter said:
Hey everyone. I am new to punting. I had not had sex for 5 years. Since my breakup in 2016. So I finally gave in to my desires. I tried to book a 15 min with a cheap brothel the first time just to get a feel of it. But yesterday, I booked someone for 30 mins for 250. It was all going good but I was too excited and I ended up cumming in like 15 secs after the girl was on top of me. There was very minimal foreplay prior to this. After I came, I couldn't get it up for another round during the entire duration. I was so so disappointed.

Have you guys ever experienced something similar?
I was too afraid to take viagra as I remember waking up with a painful boner one night. It did go off on its within some time but I am still frightened by it.
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Bad luck dude. Yes over excitement can do that.
But the more you try the better you will get.
Next time you take control and have the girl on her back instead of riding you. That way you can control the speed and sensation.
 
Rub one out a few hours before you go. Gives you a chance to recharge, but you arent so raging
 
Good advice here @MikeB
As Mike said a lot is mental especially when you haven't tried for a long time and if you watch a lot of porn it can give unrealistic expectations.

Give it another go and slow it down and consider trying a little bit of Edge gel available from Chemist Warehouse for about $20.
 
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Choose the escort wisely. The right escort will make a big difference. Also a longer session will allow you to cum twice and the second time will be much better than the first with the right escort!
 
Don't go see Ava May at langtrees whatever you do.

Worst service ever.
 
boredpunter said:
Hey everyone. I am new to punting. I had not had sex for 5 years. Since my breakup in 2016. So I finally gave in to my desires. I tried to book a 15 min with a cheap brothel the first time just to get a feel of it. But yesterday, I booked someone for 30 mins for 250. It was all going good but I was too excited and I ended up cumming in like 15 secs after the girl was on top of me. There was very minimal foreplay prior to this. After I came, I couldn't get it up for another round during the entire duration. I was so so disappointed.

Have you guys ever experienced something similar?
I was too afraid to take viagra as I remember waking up with a painful boner one night. It did go off on its within some time but I am still frightened by it.
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This is so common so don’t even stress, it happends all the time.. just have to try and get the value from another way you can woth the time left over .. if I have a client who comes in 15 seconds , I will give him an oil body slide massage and lap dance and some love to jump in the shower with me and we soap each other up , if there is still time we have a drink together and talk about sex and experiences and story’s , there’s plenty of things to do with the time.
as for the viagra , it can be very dangerous.. I would reccomend kamagra it’s half the strength and only lasts 20 minutes , very safe stuff to use. Xx
 
overtime09 said:
Don't go see Ava May at langtrees whatever you do.

Worst service ever.
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Who the hell is this Ava may and why do I keep seeing bad reviews about her? I can’t believe Langtrees reception or even maryanne hasn’t seen these yet, this girl needs a talking to .. somethings not right
 
Slugger1 said:
Good advice here @MikeB
As Mike said a lot is mental especially when you haven't tried for a long time and if you watch a lot of porn it can give unrealistic expectations.

Give it another go and slow it down and consider trying a little bit of Edge gel available from Chemist Warehouse for about $20.
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Iv never heard of this edge stuff, is it only for males? Good to hear other alternatives are out there and work
 
MikeB said:
As is often said, the brain is the most incredible sex organ. Get control of your brain, and you will then get control of the rest. Remember stress is the greatest enemy of bedroom performance & anxiety. (Especially porn induced stress - remember porn is fantasy and you’ll never be able to do it like you see in porn, they have the advantage of the cutting room which turns 3 hours of multiple 3 minute bursts into what appears to be a Herculean single session 🤔🤭)

Viagra and the like have no effect on ejaculation and will often lose their effect after cumming in many people. Try to control (slow down) your breathing if ur feeling excited to help stop cumming in a flash. If u cum accept it and enjoy other pleasure to keep the mood but avoid stressing about not being hard. Usually you soon be hard enough for reentry, (& remember lube is your friend😉)
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Hey mike , just wanted to say .. iv been told that time spent woth me is like a real life porn scene ;) hehe.. soooo I would challenge you to try me haha
 
Tammy Jo said:
Hey mike , just wanted to say .. iv been told that time spent woth me is like a real life porn scene ;) hehe.. soooo I would challenge you to try me haha
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Hope you’re not suggesting like 90% of porn you deliver bareback, atm and creampie 🤭 these should remain fantasies with a working lady….
 
Tammy Jo said:
Who the hell is this Ava may and why do I keep seeing bad reviews about her? I can’t believe Langtrees reception or even maryanne hasn’t seen these yet, this girl needs a talking to .. somethings not right
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Well, you keep seeing bad reviews of her because "overtime09" keeps bagging her: in five posts over four separate threads. I haven't seen anyone else agreeing with him. Though to be fair, he started off complaining about Ava Adams (who does actually work at Langtrees), and has lately aimed the same complaint at Ava May (who might be a figment of his imagination I think).
 
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Tammy Jo said:
Iv never heard of this edge stuff, is it only for males? Good to hear other alternatives are out there and work
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Good to see you back posting Tammy Jo!

Yes it is only for males and is a gel that desensitises the penis so you don't come so fast.

However too much and you don't come at all so a little goes a long way.
 
Don't know about this gel. Rather have 5 minutes of pure stimulation and excitement then 2 hour of dull grind of going through the motions for the sake of it
 
Plumage said:
Well, you keep seeing bad reviews of her because "overtime09" keeps bagging her: in five posts over four separate threads. I haven't seen anyone else agreeing with him. Though to be fair, he started off complaining about Ava Adams (who does actually work at Langtrees), and has lately aimed the same complaint at Ava May (who might be a figment of his imagination I think).
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Well my mistake apologies
Meant to say Ava Adams.
Don't believe me maybe ask the little question to the lady's at the reception.
They will quietly tell you that it's not about service with her.
Stupidly ridiculous can't touch her breast.
Stuck up #$$#@@¥
 
overtime09 said:
Stupidly ridiculous can't touch her breast.
Stuck up #$$#@@¥
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I wonder. My own boobs, for instance, love being cupped in big warm hands, or gently stroked, or nuzzled (preferably by a strubble-free face). But they can get very tender in the week before my period, so being mauled, grabbed, twisted or squeezed is not so much fun. Also, what is with this desire to see how far my nipples can be stretched, like they are made of chewing gum or something? I think if men thought about how they would like their balls handled before they help themselves to handfuls of my boobs, things might be a little better for all of us. And slapping? Are you serious guys?

So, Overtime09, perhaps she has just had enough of being handled like playdough, and has drawn a line for her own sanity. But, but, I have this nagging doubt ... the rather vindictive and shrill way you are beating this particular drum makes me wonder whether she was simply reacting to YOU being too rough, and you are now trying to justify your behaviour to yourself, not that there's any hope you would see things that way if that were true of course. But you do seem to have a very angry bee in your bonnet on this one, and no one yet has chimed in to report the same problem with Ava.
 
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Tammy Jo said:
Who the hell is this Ava may and why do I keep seeing bad reviews about her? I can’t believe Langtrees reception or even maryanne hasn’t seen these yet, this girl needs a talking to .. somethings not right
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You only keep seeing reviews from the same member posting on every thread he can because 'a girl won't let him touch her breasts'....
 
Plumage said:
I wonder. My own boobs, for instance, love being cupped in big warm hands, or gently stroked, or nuzzled (preferably by a strubble-free face). But they can get very tender in the week before my period, so being mauled, grabbed, twisted or squeezed is not so much fun. Also, what is with this desire to see how far my nipples can be stretched, like they are made of chewing gum or something? I think if men thought about how they would like their balls handled before they help themselves to handfuls of my boobs, things might be a little better for all of us. And slapping? Are you serious guys?

So, Overtime09, perhaps she has just had enough of being handled like playdough, and has drawn a line for her own sanity. But, but, I have this nagging doubt ... the rather vindictive and shrill way you are beating this particular drum makes me wonder whether she was simply reacting to YOU being too rough, and you are now trying to justify your behaviour to yourself, not that's there's any hope you would see things that way if that were true of course. But you do seem to have a very angry bee in your bonnet on this one, and no one yet has chimed in to report the same problem with Ava.
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Interesting post inasmuch the other day a WL, after we had finished, said thankyou for being a gentleman??? I quizzed her on this and she said she's over the hair pulling, hard slaps on the ass when doggie, nasty talk and mauling on her boobs. Perhaps, this is more prevalent than I thought.
 
asianguy77 said:
Don't know about this gel. Rather have 5 minutes of pure stimulation and excitement then 2 hour of dull grind of going through the motions for the sake of it
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It’s worth trying sexual performance medicines containing Dapoxetine, a drug for premature ejacualtion initially marketed as Priligy available on doctors presecriptions. These drugs, Super Kamagra is one, give you more control by slowing the ejaculation arousal, and letting you decide to continue and cum, or back off and extend. They don’t numb at all...

I get my SuperKamagra online from www.kamagraoioioi.com, and there has been quite a few positive comments on it and the supplier in other threads on here...
 
SmilyECoyote said:
Interesting post inasmuch the other day a WL, after we had finished, said thankyou for being a gentleman??? I quizzed her on this and she said she's over the hair pulling, hard slaps on the ass when doggie, nasty talk and mauling on her boobs. Perhaps, this is more prevalent than I thought.
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Being a gentleman is always the best move...
 
MikeB said:
Hope you’re not suggesting like 90% of porn you deliver bareback, atm and creampie 🤭 these should remain fantasies with a working lady….
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Yeh don’t get to excited , i just meant Iv been told my energy and style n excitement during the service is very porn star like .. but no rule breaking no
 
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