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OK Stacey imagine your blindfolded and as a test your Trusted Partner is either wearing a condom or not , could you pick if he is wearing or not ?

Before he finishes that is .
 
Bomber15 said:
Hi Stacey , this is a great thread . I have enjoyed reading it.
I know all ladies have different tastes for sex toys but what is your favorite ? What would you recommend as a gift 😜😊
It's very confusing what to buy.
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Thank you!! I have a big passion for sex education.
as for sex toys I used to know every brand out there when I worked in a sex shop. Lil out of date these days so wouldn’t know what to recommend. I’ll attach photos of my faves. All I can say is don’t cheap out. Some are high price but worth it! Better vibration frequency and medical grade silicone.
 

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Farm Boy 2 said:
OK Stacey imagine your blindfolded and as a test your Trusted Partner is either wearing a condom or not , could you pick if he is wearing or not ?

Before he finishes that is .
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I know you might mean well by this question but this is a good example of why as sex workers we never feel 100% safe. Guys sussing out if a girl can feel if a condom is on with her vagina is a big red flag. And I hope my negative reaction to this makes you rethink how you perceive safe sex.
 
Stacey Heart said:
I know you might mean well by this question but this is a good example of why as sex workers we never feel 100% safe. Guys sussing out if a girl can feel if a condom is on with her vagina is a big red flag. And I hope my negative reaction to this makes you rethink how you perceive safe sex.
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and there ends your physing expedition FarmBoy. FULL STOP

what a magnificent answer Stacey .. you're winning me over fast.
 
Stacey Heart said:
I know you might mean well by this question but this is a good example of why as sex workers we never feel 100% safe. Guys sussing out if a girl can feel if a condom is on with her vagina is a big red flag. And I hope my negative reaction to this makes you rethink how you perceive safe sex.
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Much more than pissed off with this answer Stacey ,all good until you assumed you new my attitude towards safe sex.
 
Farm Boy 2 said:
Much more than pissed off with this answer Stacey ,all good until you assumed you new my attitude towards safe sex.
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Good. I’m glad you’re pissed off. It means that I provoked a reaction out of you and reaction is the first stage of education.
I am a strong advocate from modern consent and sexual education and questions like this are a perfect example to show the mindset that we should not be venturing into.
 
Farm Boy 2 said:
Much more than pissed off with this answer Stacey ,all good until you assumed you new my attitude towards safe sex.
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I don’t think it’s an unfair response. She didn’t assume that she knew your attitude; she was highlighting that this may be a red flag in our industry. Trying to ascertain if girls can feel condoms, it does make us question your intent. Also it could be triggering, as some girls including myself have been ‘tricked’ before. It’s called stealthing, and it puts the worker and the client at risk. It also is illegal
 
Stacey Heart said:
Good. I’m glad you’re pissed off. It means that I provoked a reaction out of you and reaction is the first stage of education.
I am a strong advocate from modern consent and sexual education and questions like this are a perfect example to show the mindset that we should not be venturing into.
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Well I think a a Sex Worker has a three step job .

Get it On condom.

Get it Done do what you were paid to do

Get it off Girl takes Condom of and bins it , I never have a girl fail to do this even before condoms were made compulsory in the sex industry that happened in the early 80s .
I started punting in the very late 60s that was about fourteen years of punting Bareback however if you asked for a condom it was always supplied without comment.

All that about Condom free punting is True Stacey then after the emergence of AIDS and the Grim Reaper Ad Campaign condoms were made compulsory in the Sex Industry.
I personally have always gladly used condoms when having sex with WLs after condoms were made compulsory , for a long time I never heard of sex being offered by SW,s condom free but in the last 5 or 6 years natural has been advertised more and more you are silly is practically everywhere .

I suppose I got my Just Desserts when Stacey dragged out that old remark I made as a joke concerning the three words I want to hear after sex.
Chalk one up for feminist and or pissed off Sex Workers .


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Stacey.jpeg Well I am in a hole and when you are in a hole stop digging but I like this photo you are a attractive woman
 
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Stacey, I love your thread !

When I was working (now retired) I sometimes had to deal with unpleasant customers, but after their relatively brief period of unpleasantness in our office, they left and we sometimes refused their business in the future.

How do WLs cope with unpleasant clients when they have paid for their hour and have to let them fuck you ?

Is it worse for privates or for parlor girls ?

Personally I would be keeping a pistol under my pillow - but messy !
 
When the moon hits your eye like a big pizza pie... is that amore?
What about when the world seems to shine like you've had too much wine?
 
sunyun said:
Stacey, I love your thread !

When I was working (now retired) I sometimes had to deal with unpleasant customers, but after their relatively brief period of unpleasantness in our office, they left and we sometimes refused their business in the future.

How do WLs cope with unpleasant clients when they have paid for their hour and have to let them fuck you ?

Is it worse for privates or for parlor girls ?

Personally I would be keeping a pistol under my pillow - but messy !
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I politely give them a warning, 2 strikes they are out. I explain that you get a top service when you treat girls with respect 😊
 
Katrina Kiss said:
I politely give them a warning, 2 strikes they are out. I explain that you get a top service when you treat girls with respect 😊
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thats 1 more warning than they should be given, its not difficult to extend plain curtesy and respect to people!
 
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