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Are you the person that is taken advantage of & used up all the time

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Hope those who gentle of spirit realize that are people out there you try to do the best for but in the end you realise they are all about SELF INTEREST...... & you are the silly one who thought they cared for you equally......

Lessons are always hard to learn....

I keep making the same mistakes over and over again .... with my girlfriends and my boyfriends...
I think I am only just getting smart!
 
Wow ! This is a very deep thread DD.....you have alot of friends that care for
you and love you. Cant imagine your close friends doing this.
DD you are a very smart woman, you should confront head on your nearest
and dearest so you feel better.
You should not let things fester within, not good for the soul, and your heart.
:(:(:(:( Once dealt with life will be better...and you be back to cheerful self.
 
Raye@Langtrees said:
Wow ! This is a very deep thread DD.....you have alot of friends that care for
you and love you. Cant imagine your close friends doing this.
DD you are a very smart woman, you should confront head on your nearest
and dearest so you feel better.
You should not let things fester within, not good for the soul, and your heart.
:(:(:(:( Once dealt with life will be better...and you be back to cheerful self.
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Raye
Nothing festers within ... that's why I started the tread - got it off my chest.....

...I care & love deeply for people.... but after a couple of times when I think they have used me once too often, I will chose to cut them off completely,...... with no bitterness on my part, no love loss.... in fact I can release the situation/ the problem/ the person and never look back..... I then am filled with indifference....
Trust me, when I am in that place ... my walls are up & they will never get a look in.....
 
I look cute and a easy pushover. :)
The truth I am tough as nail if I need to be.
Yes I have been taken advantage of but when it happens I put up my guard.
I do not haggle for prices or service but only go when the good service is available.
I like to play the fantasy of meeting my dream girl who wants to make me happy and make me feel like a God when I am with them.
 
Oh DD,,,you are such a beautiful, kind, caring and deep person. I'm sad that something/someone has made you feel this way. Don't let it dishearten you to much or change who you are You're Awesome!

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And your heart is Pure Gold!

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Much Thanks Tania......:p:p:p

I did not make this thread for attention for myself more to see if there were folks out there who were like me --& was the world becoming a place where is everyone was all about THEM!
It helps to clear my head sometimes....and get rid of the demons!
Its all good but it does change you a lot in one's view of people ....
 
You are a GOOD person DD and it's hard to fathom that people would even contemplate hurting you or taking advantage of your gentle nature. SHAME on them and just remember this one word...........KARMA ! Chin up you beautiful person x
 
I think everyone's been through life as a used and abused "sponge". It's all relative to timing and circumstances. Luck appears more so in others; as they too - happen less for many at the same time.
 
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