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Anal Sex Advice for New WL's

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Kristy-Lee VIP Canberra

Looking for advice for new WL's that have never had anal sex before but that want to add it to their skill set. Does any experienced WL's or punters have any advice or great tips they can give for newbie's starting out?
 
Start with trying it in your own private life where you feel 100% safe or try with toys.
Use lots of lube and start slow. Lube is your best friend when it comes to anal
Avoid using butt plugs to stretch your bottom as they are not needed and can do harm if made of glass or sharp plastic.
Long term use of butt plugs can loosen the anal muscles and causes fecal incontinence
If you don't do it in your everyday sex life with partners then I would not advise doing it as a WL purely for the financial gain
I have been doing anal in my private life since I was age 19 and now age 47 and my whole working life as a SW. I do no more than a couple of anal bookings per week as my body is important to me. Our bottom is designed for things to go out not in. So take care of your body and don't over do it or stretch it.
As for preparation a bowel motion before is great but no not use enema as long term use can cause the body damage and the last thing you want is to be leaking over a man. A anal douche of cooled boiled water nothing else. Boiling water kill nastiest in water but please make sure not hot. And good personal hygiene including hand washing.
 
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Kristy-Lee VIP Canberra said:
Looking for advice for new WL's that have never had anal sex before but that want to add it to their skill set. Does any experienced WL's or punters have any advice or great tips they can give for newbie's starting out?
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I have had lots of anal sex my girlfriend insists on it. You have to be gentle and use lube although sometimes not needed Once eased in slow thrusting and always ask if she is comfortable,and if she is contented just thrust quickly
 
I personally believe it's important that part of you wants to try it, so the natural motivation is there. Start slow, explore by yourself, and then find what works best for you and what your body responds to.
 
Charge extra. Use lots of lube, relax, abit of fingering/a toy and teasing helps loosen things up before sliding the D in and enjoy!😉
 
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