Anal How to Prepare
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Ms Sue
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Anal sex can be a scary proposition. You're putting what in where? If you're curious about anal sex, chances are you've experimented with fingers or tongues (or you have a partner who won't stop broaching the topic). Hopefully you're approaching anal sex with excitement and only just a little nervousness. We want you to enjoy it. Anal sex can be a healthy, safe, sexy way to explore your sexuality with your partner. We have a few tips for the booty beginner who seeks to become an anal expert:
Before anal exploration, make sure your bowels are empty. Take a shower and soap all around your anus. Just this simple prep should leave you feeling clean enough to explore. If you don't feel quite clean enough yet…
Try an anal douche. The StreemMaster and Disposable Enemas are great products for keeping your bowels fresh and clean. These products just rinse out your rectum, rather than forcing you to have a bowel movement. A couple of warm water rinses and your anus will be cleaner than the day you were born!
Begin exploring your anus and its pleasurable nerve endings with your fingers or a toy before you attempt anal sex. Always use a bunch of thick lube like KY Jelly or Maximus when you explore your anus, as the anus doesn't lubricate naturally. A water-based lubricant from The World's Most Private Store will make things feel 100 times better. You really can't use too much.
When you or your partner inserts fingers or a toy into your anus, think about relaxing your sphincter muscles. We know, this sounds a lot easier than it is. A great way to isolate your sphincter muscles is to think about tensing them up. Clench the muscles you would use to keep from passing gas, then release. The more you clench and release, the more relaxed your ass will become. Relax and bear down when something is being pushed inside you. The key to enjoyable anal sex is a relaxed anus (and all that lube).
When you feel relaxed and like you're ready to try anal sex, go for it. If you prefer, you can choose a position where you control penetration, such as you squatting or kneeling on top. Another gentle position is the spooning position, where both partners lie on their sides. Have him apply plenty of lube to his penis before entering. A condom is advisable, as the bacteria from your anus could give him a UTI.
Remember that you control the action. If your partner is going too fast or too hard, let him know. You want the experience to be enjoyable for both of you.
Lots of information
Ms Sue....
Before anal exploration, make sure your bowels are empty. Take a shower and soap all around your anus. Just this simple prep should leave you feeling clean enough to explore. If you don't feel quite clean enough yet…
Try an anal douche. The StreemMaster and Disposable Enemas are great products for keeping your bowels fresh and clean. These products just rinse out your rectum, rather than forcing you to have a bowel movement. A couple of warm water rinses and your anus will be cleaner than the day you were born!
Begin exploring your anus and its pleasurable nerve endings with your fingers or a toy before you attempt anal sex. Always use a bunch of thick lube like KY Jelly or Maximus when you explore your anus, as the anus doesn't lubricate naturally. A water-based lubricant from The World's Most Private Store will make things feel 100 times better. You really can't use too much.
When you or your partner inserts fingers or a toy into your anus, think about relaxing your sphincter muscles. We know, this sounds a lot easier than it is. A great way to isolate your sphincter muscles is to think about tensing them up. Clench the muscles you would use to keep from passing gas, then release. The more you clench and release, the more relaxed your ass will become. Relax and bear down when something is being pushed inside you. The key to enjoyable anal sex is a relaxed anus (and all that lube).
When you feel relaxed and like you're ready to try anal sex, go for it. If you prefer, you can choose a position where you control penetration, such as you squatting or kneeling on top. Another gentle position is the spooning position, where both partners lie on their sides. Have him apply plenty of lube to his penis before entering. A condom is advisable, as the bacteria from your anus could give him a UTI.
Remember that you control the action. If your partner is going too fast or too hard, let him know. You want the experience to be enjoyable for both of you.
Lots of information
Ms Sue....
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Perth boy
Well put Ms Sue
Also once he is inside her and she feels comfortable she should use her vibrator in her pussy. This will bring her to organism very easy. She could also hold the remote control to his but plug.
Good luck have fun.
Also once he is inside her and she feels comfortable she should use her vibrator in her pussy. This will bring her to organism very easy. She could also hold the remote control to his but plug.
Good luck have fun.
thiswayup
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Tania Admin
Sue hit the nail on the head, it's definitely the best advice, and Perth Boy finished it off to a tee.
Ahhhhhh from anal to double penetration.......mmmmmmm food for thought and so much 'head space' to play with
But back to your question, funflyer, a douche does clean you out nicely and maybe don't eat certain food beforehand if you are planning on it.
Onions, beans and capsicums are best to be avoided as they bloat your stomach and produce rather un-welcoming.....mmmmmmm......farts.
Done properly and with time (never rush anal) it is good fun.
R.xxxxxx
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What's the difference between oral sex and anal sex?
Oral sex makes your day, anal sex makes your hole weak.
Oral sex makes your day, anal sex makes your hole weak.
Rasmey 1
Foundation Member
Thanks for your informative reply Ms Sue.
In fact we partake in full anal sex and she enjoys it a lof almost always reaching an orgasm. However, we were not sure of the best pre action cleaning method. We've tried the washing so we will probably try an anal douche. Thanks again for the help
In fact we partake in full anal sex and she enjoys it a lof almost always reaching an orgasm. However, we were not sure of the best pre action cleaning method. We've tried the washing so we will probably try an anal douche. Thanks again for the help