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A Question For Punters...

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Hi Guys,

If you are one of the punters that must have mutual french included in your service I would really like to know what is so great about it.

I would say that 90% of my clients want that from me. Some even pay extra for it!

Before I started working I used to absolutley LOVE guys going down on me but after a bad experience at work I try and avoid it at all costs!

I met a client recently and he had never seen me before and wanted mutual french so I,in a round about way said that I wasn't really up for it tonight and he was about to walk out. Cause it had been so quiet lately I said to him... "Would you stay if I did mutual french"? and he said sure!

In the booking I said to him that mutual must be his favourite thing for him to walk out on me if I didn't do it and he said to me, "No, I just want you to get some enjoyment too". I was really pissed off firstly cause I hate it now and secondly, if you really wanted to give me pleasure why would you make me do something that I said I wasn't up for? Don't try and do me any favours!

I would be really interested in what you guys have to say.
 
Everyone is different. I personally don't like receiving French but love to go down on a woman. Why, I am not sure. I just do

Sorry, that probably was not all that helpful. Perhaps someone else can throw some light on the subject
 
I really love going down on a woman, apart providing the other person with pleasure i love the whole feeling of it. I agree, very ignorant of him to say he wanted to please you when you said you didn't feel like it. Someone like that probably wouldn't know what to do anyway.
 
Like KMANWA,I just like it - I reckon I could cum just by going down on someone. But I would expect to pay for it and probably would only indulge if it is offered as an extra up-front.
 
Having to pay for sex may gall some men, so in a roundabout way, by trying to give pleasure to the woman, can help combat that, also giving pleasure to the woman is like showing the powress of a male.. bit like caveman and his woman..

your my woman....
I prove to you how good I am...... I make you squirm..
some people are also a bit uncomfortable in their own skin as well....

maybe a solution is to ask when they want mutual french and you dont feel like it.. ask them is it because they like to give pleasure to a woman.. and if the answer is yes... then show them how they can give you other pleasures, whether with tongue on skin elsewhere, hands, toys or whatever postions... can maybe help out when they realise something else may drive you wild..
 
I don't want to blow my own trumpet here but I like to think I am considerate in my sexual dealings with the ladies, including those who I pay for the privilege.

For me, sex is all about mutual pleasure and nothing turns me on more than seeing and hearing that I am turning my partner on and pushing the right buttons for her. I have found that my tongue, if allowed to work its magic, can do more for a lady than my fingers or even the little guy. It is not about proving anything, just a matter of trying to make the experience pleasurable for both of us.

However, much as I enjoy going down South, if the lady doesn't want it then I certainly won't try and push her into it. She is still a woman and entitled to refuse anything she is not comfortable with. Forcing the issue is brutish and inconsiderate.

My only request is that a lady who doesn't allow certain things lets me know that before we get up to the room. Likewise, if she doesn't like the look/sound/smell of me I would rather she said so up front rather than take my money and give me a "hands off" type of service.
 
a little selfish I guess

o.k here it goes, I know some of the guys say that they want to give the lovely lady some pleasure as well, but I think most of that is crap, sure some guys do it because they want to return the fun honestly(very few and far between), but I kind of have to agree with what was said above, that it is about the whole power thing, your mine and i'll do as I want and just look how great I am, I can make you cum that is how MANLY I am blah blah blah beat my chest etc. I think most guys do it for an EGO boost, so they can tell themselves that they were so good they made the girl cum as well, no guy likes to think that it was all one way, it's no good for our fragil mental state, why else would some ladies moan and groan when it aint that good, to massage our egos, I can admit it, I don't care, I'm more than happy with my lot, whether it works for you or not, if not then let me know and i'll find someone else etc. As a guy who loves giving it a lot more than recieving it I do it for the stimulation I get out of it just as much as the stimulation I hope they get out of it, it is the act of actually trying to please the other person, some of us a 3 pump screamers ha ha so we have to do what we can, (not in that category I hope). I do like going south and returning the pleasure but only if they want me to, otherwise it's just not gonna be that good for either of us, of course it comes down to a connection, some ladies dont kiss because it's personal but for me that is the most personal thing you can do to a women, I do it for the erotic passion of the act, hopefully for both of us, not to prove how manly or unmanly I am, not for anything else, I do not ask to do it, you just see how things go, if the lady leans to it or leads me that way then by GOD I do the best I can, i'm no Gene Simmons I know that, but if she is not comfortable only a wanker would try and make her do something she didn't feel comfortable doing.

So next time some clown gets pushy with something you don't feel comfortable with, I hope you can talk your way out of it without offending the wanker or loosing the coin.

hope I didn't offend anyone with an ego problem and shed some light on your question, oh and I am so so sorry that you don't like it anymore, with the right person it can be magic for both. I just hope that one day you find a guy who can change that for you, ciao bella.
 
one last thing

perth girl, just wanted to say you sound like you have your head screwed on right so don't let us lossen it, it's bad enough most of ours are loose we don't need the fairer sex to be as messed up as most of us. and I love that pic, it kinda gets me wired.
ciao again bella:angel1:
 
i recently had someone go down on me properly for the first time ever. I don't think he's a big fan of it in general but it blew my goddam mind. I came so hard i almost passed out! But now i don't want to ask again cos i don't think he likes doing it and the sex is pretty awesome on its own anyway. Sigh. Got some EXCELLENT fantasies going about it for when im all on my lonesome though hehe
 
Spunkymunky said:
i recently had someone go down on me properly for the first time ever. I don't think he's a big fan of it in general but it blew my goddam mind. I came so hard i almost passed out! But now i don't want to ask again cos i don't think he likes doing it and the sex is pretty awesome on its own anyway. Sigh. Got some EXCELLENT fantasies going about it for when im all on my lonesome though hehe
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Try putting some fruit, or a little bit of alcohol down there, whipped cream, fruit salad, chocolate sauce etc... think of a few things, can sensuous it up a little.
 
Matey, I made this thread because I wanted some punter opinions. If you think the question is pointless then DON'T REPLY! Simple.
 
Well darling correct me if I'm wrong, and I'm sure you will, but I was under the impression that these kind of forums are for opinions, questions, information etc relating to the sex industry. Being a working girl with opinions, questions and information to contribute, I feel that I should be able to exercise my right to freedom of speech. My question was not compulsory, it was put up to gain what information I could from punters willing to offer it. If you did not see the point to my question then thats fine. You obviously don't have any helpful information to offer me. Others do.
My job is many things and yes one of them is to make them feel special and I assure you I that give 110% every time to ensure that they do. As for my clients reaction, he was none the wiser as I continued to play my flirty porn star role. You see, I never have these kinds of debates with my clients. I don't go into deep discussion about why they want a particular service. This is why I feel the need to be active on this forum,so I can learn more about my clients anonymously without having to detract from their experience.
One final thing - I could understand your painter comment if I had said "To all the punters that must have intercourse in your service I would really like to know what's so great about it". A standard service is massage, french and sex. A good service can be complete without going down on me so really my question is like a painter asking someone why they feel the need to hold the ladder for him while he paints.
As I said, I need this forum as an outlet and to my knowledge this forum is for both punters AND working ladies so if you see another one of my questions and feel the need to make it out to be insignificant and not worth the keystrokes it took to write it, please do me a favour and ignore it.
 
Good come back perthgirl. I'm with you. I mean have these guys that want to go down on anybody and everybody ever even HEARD of herpes etc??? How insulting/ignorant of them to assume that we will enjoy them going down on us anyway.
 
Isn't one entitled to the occasional gripe so long as it's not directed at anybody in particular?? I understand what perthgirl is saying and it's simply this.....she tells some guy she is not into him peforming french on her, he goes ahead and performs it anyway because he wants to ensure that perthgirl "enjoys herself" does that make sense to you Mac'nOphi?
As to your query regarding Langtrees offering mutual french, that is entirely up to the individual. Just for the record, if anybody cares... unprotected oral sex whether it be on a male or a female is risky and against the law. There is a fine of around 2000 dollars I think. Do people out there realise that herpes will ruin your life if you contract it? It's an
incurable disease and highly contagious. Are a few moments of pleasure REALLY worth the risk of such an insidious STD? It's a virus that stays in ones body and causes flu like symptoms, fatigue, depression, painful blisters and more. Once you have it you drastically compromise your sex life for the rest of your life. This is only ONE of the risks associated with unprotected sex/kissing etc. Does anybody consider the consequences??
 
Anybody can catch it through kissing, oral sex etc, there don't have to be any visible symptoms at all but you will still catch it if the virus is active at the time of your encounter. 70% of the population has already contracted herpes. Do you want to join them?? I don't!! Herpes is only one of the risks of course but it is the most common as far as I can gather, probably due to the large number of people who have it already and how easy it is to spread!!
 
The bottom line is that any working lady can offer any service she wants or not offer a service she doesn't want, as long as it is stipulated prior to a booking being made or as inhouse, going in to a room.

It's no use discussin the service wanted after everything is all set to go.

If a girl doesn't want to do mutual french, then she doesn't have to, or some will do so, but with a dam, then you get guys who don't want to lick a female dam.
Understanding where the girls come from in relation to providing this service is half the battle. They do have lives to live and are in an industry that can affect that life and provide themselves with as much protection as possible to keep from getting any problems. They have that right.

If a client wants mutual french, then he MUST ask the lady first if she provides that service and not go ahead with any booking unless she does. It is no use asking once they are at the appointment or in a room, and respect the right of the lady to say no she doesn't, but happy to find you someone who does.

It would be like asking for greek once in a room.
One thing I should say, instead of saying not really up to it that night, tou must be decisive, YES or NO, yes I do or No I don't. Then if you do and you get someone who desn't look too healthy in the face department, say with a dam only though. Be honest and upfront regardless, then everyone has the choice.

Guys need to realise that not everyone gets off on mutual french and not everyone likes it, especially as guys can do it so differently to each other. Possible if a guy MUST do mutual french, ASK the lady how she likes it to be done, exactly as you would ask a new partner how she likes to have sex and how she likes you to turn her on, that's if you do do that.

Because just going down and going for the bite in any which way but loose, is not going to turn everyone on. Consideration plays a major part, otherwise, the only person getting off, is yourself in thinking your getting the girl off, and is that what you want????????

You want the boyfriend - girlfriend feel to the booking, then treat it the same way with the same respect. I'd love to go down on you as I enjoy mutual french and would like to give you satisfaction, but am happy if you tell me how you would like it done and I will perform that way for you because then I KNOW you must be enjoying it because it's how you asked it to be done.

Does this make sense guys?????
 
pippa said:
70% of the population has already contracted herpes.
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How can this statement possibly be one of fact? To be true everyone would have to be tested for STI's, wouldn't it be more likely that some studies have indicated that if the results were extrapolated from the sample population tested that 70% of the population may have the Herpes virus. Still a pretty scary number may as well all live a life of celibacy.

PerthGirl I'll admit that as a client I would prefer to have kissing(my preferred extra) and MF available and I always ask if they feel comfortable allowing this. I guess the reason why is I want an experience that feel for want of a better word natural or normal if you prefer. I find when you have a list of things that you can't do you tend to end up concentrating more on not breaking the rules and not enjoying the experience. One issue is that often you are charged up front for extras so if you pay for it you are almost obliged to go through with it. What would be my chances of getting my money back if I paid for an extra but didn't actually perform it?

The only suggestion I can make would be if you don't feel comfortable doing something a potential client asks for be up front but promote yourself on something that you know you do excell at. If a lady said I prefer not to do MF but my BJ will make you take you to paradise or I love to kiss then I would probably go through with the booking. A friendly attitude is always a big positive with me.
 
to be honest, as a guy the first few times being with a W/L can be daunting. Perhaps subconciously, you look to do things that might pleasure a partner. Maybe this is a sense of putting yourself at ease in the situation (as a punter). I found for myself, enjoyable sex involved making my partner orgasim at least once. For me personally it' is a sharing thing.
Again, from a personal point of view, I couldn't get that sort of feeling from being with a W/L. Perhaps with clients wanting mutual french, it's their way of compensating for this.Not getting mutual french may just make the situation unpleasant... or perhaps it's as simple as saying it's a caveman thing. The human mind is not the most logical of things, especially with all the hormones racing through it.
 
The punters should be getting sexual health checks also... That's what makes me the most uncomfortable . About contracting a disease. Mouths are filthy you know.
 
Hi Drifty,

I agree with your statements... Just some tips to add: I did once ask a WL about the quality of a punter... and she did say that she did not mind so much about appearances however, she did insist on cleanliness... I kind of agree with her, if you want better service, you have to be a good client as well... i.e. shower, shave and brush + FLOSS your teeth! beware the smelly feet as well!

Avoid smoking for at least a couple hours before visit...

you cannot expect DFK if your breath smells like a gutter!!! and I found out that shaving and good quality after shave is a pre-requisite for DATY... like wise if you enjoy BJ, make sure that your "old fella" is not swamped in a jungle...

And finally guys, one thing that really turns the ladies on is some really good quality fragrance like Paco Rabanne "XS", Armani "Acqua di Gio", Azzaro... after shave: christian dior "eau sauvage" or Guerlain "vetiver" are real winners... like any thing do not overdo it...

Please do not be mistaken, I am not a snob: Happy punting
 
So you won't go to a working lady if she doesn't offer DATY happytimes? Well imagine you go down on a WL or girl who had an STD (without you knowing of course). Then next week you saw another WL, went down on her and transmitted Herpes or some other horrible infection to her. I don't like it because the thought of these men going down on so many girls freaks me out. To think, where has their mouth been before they went down o n me? Were they going down on some other chick? Herpes can spread with no visible sore. In saying so, I have few clients go down on me. But I have to be really comfortable with that client, trusting client relationship . If it is some guy that is notorious for DATY, then no.
 
This question was asked the other day re men asking for natural,the same rules again for DATY,not worth the risk!not just for a W/L in general until u get to no them a bit better the get tested etc.
Anyway love ur openess/sharing with all of us Cherrygirl/Happytimes it is a very atractive quality i think..
'sharing is caring'(thought of the day)
ps happytimes i had to read urs twice(i left school at a young age,lol and it shows)no because its a bloody good sex story!
man i need to get out more!:laughing4
 
As Mary Anne PA said it maybe a heman/caveman thing.
I know a long time ago (Back in my 30's SIGH ) A w/l was being the hot
temptress . Spread her lovely legs and started guiding me to the honeypot.
I more or less said thanks but no thanks.
Thing is she broke out in a great smile, climbed aboard and we (Well I ) had a
great time.
After she had a shower and we were getting dressed. She offered that so
many guys watch Porn and feel as if the stars do it ,it must be the way to go.
Maybe we should be ourselves. If we believe the porn we may as well grow
one of those horrendous moes as well.

No offence to the fellas who have some marvellous tashes I sure
 
As this thread interests me, I thought I'd pipe up! For me, the issue of DATY revolves around the concept of who the working lady and/or the client see (in sexual terms) when they aren't together.

Example Case:
A man regularly visit the same w/l. They have a wonderful time together and she allows DATY (without a dental dam) because they both acknowledge and trust that the other is clean. She receives regular sexual health checks but he does not as the only other woman he sleeps with is his faithful and loving wife. However, unbeknown to him, his "loving" and "faithful" wife is having a steamy affair (with the well hung pool boy). Now, well-hung-pool-boy is a total stud muffin and does the ol' in-out in-out with numerous women. He has never had a sexual health checkup because he is very naughty and thinks both himself and his massive, throbbing, rock hard, engorged (too many adjectives? Nah.) member are immortal. However, he is carrying an STI which he genuinely believed were harmless blisters caused by the friction between his massive member and all the willing, totally-up-for-it-all-the-mother-freaking-time poontang he was getting. So, he passes it onto "faithful" wifey. And she passes it onto hubby. And he passes it onto w/l. (Cue "Days of Our Lives" theme music). And then, the red, pus filled blisters on each member of our tragic story's genitalia explode simultaneously in oozing, gooey, hot mess as the music climaxes. And everyone dies. Credits roll.

In all seriousness though, this is one of the key reasons why I don’t offer DATY. You may trust whom you are seeing, but you can’t trust everyone that they are seeing (this applies to both service provider and clientele). Although any responsible working lady will attend regular sexual health checkups, I do know that there are some who continue to see clients during the time period whilst they wait for results (which can take well over a week). I’m sure this applies to some, but certainly not all, gentlemen who receive the same kind of check ups.

That said, I don’t place judgment on either the working ladies who do choose to offer DATY or the clientele that choose to accept (or even request) it. I’m certain that there are aspects of the service I provide that other working ladies may object to or disagree with. Being comfortable with what you provide (and receive!) is the most important thing- then everyone can have fun! Life is all about choices. And they are only yours to make, so make the ones that make you happy! Hurrah for choices!

xx
 
Hey all,
Awesome post by all,and very well written young lady lilly i just loved reading it when i should be in bed,did u want to join me,lol.anyway i know this is a forum but maybe do it on P/M , it seems to be getting a little personal just a thought because this shit STAYS on the net for ever!and it can/may stuff up any future "work"
Tony the one and only!
Good Night!
 
This is a great thread, probably a little all to serious for me...reminds me of the Seinfeld episode...

JERRY: So there you are. You've got a nice girl and a clean apartment.

GEORGE: Yep. There's one little problem.

JERRY: Sexual?

GEORGE: Yeeeaaah. Well..... I've never really feld confident in..... one particular aspect.

JERRY: Below the equator?

GEORGE: Yeah.

JERRY: Nobody does. You know, nobody knows what to do. You just close your eyes and you hope for the best. I really think they're happy if you just make an effort.

GEORGE: I don't know. Last time I got the tap.

JERRY: You got the tap?

GEORGE: You know, you're going along, you think everything's all right and all of a sudden you get that tap. You know it's like pfffff all right that's enough, you're through.

JERRY: The tap is tough.

GEORGE: It's like the manager coming out and asking you for the ball.

JERRY: Well maybe she just wanted to move on to other business.

GEORGE: No, no, this wasn't moving on. I got the hook. I wish I could get a lesson in that.

JERRY: It's a very complicated area.

GEORGE: You can go crazy trying to figure that place out.

JERRY: It's a haaazy mystery.

Too Funny!
 
wow, what a thread. to go back and answer your original question Perth Girl - i like to do it because i love eating pussy! very simple. it's all about me! in saying this i certainly don't ask every WL if i can. sometimes you girls and your pussy's are just too bloody sexy to resist having a taste, and yes it makes it seem a little more 'natural/ personal' to me rather than just 2 people going through the motions. i treat all girls , on the clock or not, with respect and keep it fun - people sometimes forget that's what sex is for. FUN.
 
Most guys want the WLs to enjoy the session even if money is involved. If she allows mutual french then it is likely that she enjoyed the time together, it will be less clinical or business like.
 
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