Recent content by cat in the hat

My wife has watched me with another guy a few times and enjoyed herself thinking about it later. Even though she is similarly bi, on another level she has admitted feeling threatened or insecure about my bisexuality; as in what if I decide I prefer men and leave her kind of thing. In that case I...

for myself I think it was 18 or 19 actual intercourse partners from the age of 17 until 26, when I met my now wife. She being 9 years older had chalked up a few more but that's for her to tell. It gets better after that due to an interesting relationship we have with another couple, but that's...

My wife complains of pain if I go in too far, I think I am 7 inches along the top ridge on a good day, 6 inches otherwise . It's actually gotten longer from my twenties to thirties. I haven't gotten the tape measure out to determine girth but I would say I'm probably 'skinny' having only seen...

Oh yeah, and what about you Slavegirl? If you are married, what are your thoughts on this, ie are you free to play but your partner is not, or is this an evolving issue for you?

Serena, veteran swingers. They agree that when in a relationship and their wives/ girlfriends have indulged with other partners, the same ladies get mighty peeved when the man wants a turn with someone new and this causes problems. Great for you Caveman, but because I'm married I have to...

Here's an experiment.... "Hey guys, just a question I was discussing with my mates the other nite but do most men have a pref for uncircumcised or circumcised women? OR doesn’t it matter to most as long as they are good at what they do with it..." I'm sure most people would be horrified at...

My theory is that for most of us guys the only other dicks we may have seen were our dad's when we were kids; quite impressionable considering perspective and all that from the point of view of a toddler, so unless you're around naked guys a lot you have know idea how you compare. It breaks my...

'Tis what I referred to in my introduction, if I may intrude on the ladies' discussion. Why is it ok for the woman to go with any number of partners, male or female, and it be deemed "exploring her sexuality", but the guy is not allowed to play as well, otherwise it is "emotional and/or physical...