WL - Are you looking for a relationship where you can be honest about your past?

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Wingman Wilcoxx

I was talking to Mary-Anne K earlier today about my plight as an ex-working-guy, and how hard it is to find a serious relationship with a girl given my past in the industry, and the unfortunate reality of Search Engine caching, identity theft, not to mention hundreds of business cards with my photo on them etc being out there.

Mary-Anne suggested that I post on here, as one excellent solution would be if there is an ex or near to ex-working girl out there in exactly the same situation as me, but with the genders reversed. You gotta hand it to Mary-Anne. She's an ideas-woman.

So I am putting it out there: are you an ex or near to ex-working (or maybe even currently working) girl who would like to have a relationship with a guy that you not only don't have to hide your past from, you can actually celebrate it with him, as he knows exactly how you feel? I am totally fine with you having children from a previous relationship, and your desire to have more or to have no more. Or if there are no kids that's fine too.

I know you are going to want to know some personal details, so I am 41 (that's my real age, I'll even show you my driver's licence), 185cms (6'1"), height and weight proportional, I have a degree in Business, and am currently self employed with a mechanical workshop. I am financially stable, with my house mortgage free, and an investment house on the cards soon. My aspirations for the next few years are to grow my mechanical business by opening a couple more branches, and to travel Central and South America and learn Spanish. I've become very cagey about posting photos on publicly available venues, since my photos are currently being used without my permission on some escorting sites (not Langtrees). If you want to know what I look like them ask Mary-Anne, or some of the girls at Langtrees that were there 1-2 years ago.

So just to be absolutely clear, I am not looking for any kind of financial situation. I am looking for a solid long-term relationship between equals. In life I have found that sex is easy to find but love is hard to find.

Hopefully we will find each other.

Wingman Wilcoxx (not his real name)
 
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MIA LOVE

Nawwww you sound so sweet!
I hope you find your soul mate eternal flame. I have a feeling you will, my 6th sense is pretty accurate :)
No need to wish you good luck... you have it already ;)
 
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AlexandraSilk

How very honest of you WW. The beginnings of a very solid relationship.
I wish you all the best with your search
 

Master Yoda

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What a beautiful concept...........especially the way you expressed that you may share in celebration with another who made it out.

I whole heartedly wish you every success in this search and be the living proof of HAPPLILY EVER AFTER endings :)


May the Force Be With You
 
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Wingman Wilcoxx

Oh well. A great idea, but nothing came of it. Thank you to Mia Love, AlexandraSilk and Master Yoda for your kind thoughts. *pout* WWXX.
 
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Lilly Sweetheart

Really hope you find your soul mate WW.
I am married but hid my double life from my husband for a very long time. I am not ashamed of what I am, but I guess he is as we don't go around broadcasting what I am because of the stigma attatched to the sex industry.
My advice is to still be yourself, go on a few dates with someone and then slowly mention it. If she gets to know a part of you first and establishes a connection then hopefully she will over see the escorting as it does not justify you as a person.
Establishing a connection with her (I would say 5 dates) before you drop the bombshell on her would be a good idea!
Good luck x
 
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Sandi Lang

You sound like a wonderful guy, who wouldnt want you . Someone special will come along as soon as you least expect it . You have opened youre heart to love and love will surely find you ...Lots of love and kisses xx
 
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Tania Admin

I have no doubt that you will eventually find the perfect lady to share your life with. I myself am lucky enough to have found my soul mate and have no secrets from him. I wish for you and everyone who is also in this position, to be able to find true love and happiness as I have.
 
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