Where have the lovers gone??

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TB

I hear the ladies comment.....
things like "He just pounded away for the whole time" or "thinks his big dick makes him fantastic"....."Thinks he is a porn star"......"He just wanted to do the big cum shot" and this has got me wondering....
If guys come in to live out their porn star fantasy....all well and good, however
this would not make them good lovers, and the problem is.....
They think they are great lovers when really they are great FUCKERS playing at being a porn stars!!
Making love ....as opposed to fucking.....well its like dancing in tune with the music and not just flapping your arms and legs about in some random fashion!!
Giver me a LOVER any day.
My conclusion....Excessive Porn watching leads to excessive wanking which eventually leaves dick somewhat desensatised...which allows a man to pound away without cumming for ages and in his mind replicating the Porn Star experience....ergo PORN STAR NOT A LOVER.
 
westy

westy

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They do still exist and maybe a lot of what you describe ( in the positive ) as lovemaking is found in slightly older and more experienced gentlemen. We actually enjoy all the aspects of pleasuring a lady fully with all the senses aroused. Wham bam thankyou Mam is the domain of youth.:love76:
 
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Ghost Protocol

where have the lovers gone ? pfffft , they are still here in this world ..
where have all the trustworthy , salt of the earth in spirit .,down to earth in mindset , and naturally beautiful women gone /?? eh ??

good lovers are where they should be , pleasing their good wife's / husbands...


hmmm wl's

@ 400$ an hour or more ,, i don't blame the guy for wanting to shag for 59 mins ...

to make love to the chick would cost $1600+! ... sorry but fk that !

i traveled the western world thinking i knew how to be a good lover ,, you know nothing until you have been to Asia

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Farm Boy

TB said:
I hear the ladies comment.....
things like "He just pounded away for the whole time" or "thinks his big dick makes him fantastic"....."Thinks he is a porn star"......"He just wanted to do the big cum shot" and this has got me wondering....
If guys come in to live out their porn star fantasy....all well and good, however
this would not make them good lovers, and the problem is.....
They think they are great lovers when really they are great FUCKERS playing at being a porn stars!!
Making love ....as opposed to fucking.....well its like dancing in tune with the music and not just flapping your arms and legs about in some random fashion!!
Giver me a LOVER any day.
My conclusion....Excessive Porn watching leads to excessive wanking which eventually leaves dick somewhat desensatised...which allows a man to pound away without cumming for ages and in his mind replicating the Porn Star experience....ergo PORN STAR NOT A LOVER.
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I got old so decided to retire undefeated.
 
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Perth boy

To be a good lover is to have sex with the one you love. When seeing a W/L this is hard to do as sex with love is sooooo much better than great sex without love.

Sex with a W/L is great fun thats what some of us pay for but its not making love.

ghost-protocol you said traveled the western world thinking i knew how to be a good lover ,, you know nothing until you have been to Asia
I am assuming you mean that the asians really know how to make love and treat a guy. If this is what you are saying I would have to agree 100% but some western girls are also good lovers.

As far as pounding away for the hour maybe some guys just realy want to get a bang for the buck.

I would rather make love but I do find that hard with someone I dont love.

Sorry just my thoughts.
 
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RICHIE2012

westy said:
They do still exist and maybe a lot of what you describe ( in the positive ) as lovemaking is found in slightly older and more experienced gentlemen. We actually enjoy all the aspects of pleasuring a lady fully with all the senses aroused. Wham bam thankyou Mam is the domain of youth.:love76:
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I am in absolute agreement with this comment.

Also, there are those of us who recognise that our lack of experience, despite our grey hair etc, when compared with that of a W/L, can be telling and therefore we are always willing to learn new things.

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TB

I get that boys/men come in to Langtrees or where ever and pay the big bucks so they can spend their time however they like. I understand that to make love there needs to be some kind of connection ....other than money. What I was trying to say, that in my humble opinion is....that with all the porn out there a lot of guys (younger ones) think that acting like a porn star = great lover.
You can't put an old head on a young penis. (Ha Ha)
I guess I just don't want these young Fuckers out there to think they are giving a girl a good time when there is so much more to be gained by being a lover ,and they never seem to show that in Porn!!!
 
Fudd

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TB said:
...Making love, as opposed to fucking.....well its like dancing in tune with the music and not just flapping your arms and legs about in some random fashion!!.....
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.....so the "Hokey Pokey" wouldn't be a good song then???.....lol... :)
 
Happy2

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Fudd said:
.....so the "Hokey Pokey" wouldn't be a good song then???.....lol... :)
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Maybe the time warp from Rocky Horror?
That pelvic thrust will drive you insane!

But I see where TB is coming from Pornographers are finding
newer weirder nastier stuff all the time It must get into the minds of the
the young teens watching. And as TB said they think that is how its
done in cyber life so thats how it should be in real life
 
happytimes

happytimes

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TB said:
I hear the ladies comment.....
things like "He just pounded away for the whole time" or "thinks his big dick makes him fantastic"....."Thinks he is a porn star"......"He just wanted to do the big cum shot" and this has got me wondering....
If guys come in to live out their porn star fantasy....all well and good, however
this would not make them good lovers, and the problem is.....
They think they are great lovers when really they are great FUCKERS playing at being a porn stars!!
Making love ....as opposed to fucking.....well its like dancing in tune with the music and not just flapping your arms and legs about in some random fashion!!
Giver me a LOVER any day.
My conclusion....Excessive Porn watching leads to excessive wanking which eventually leaves dick somewhat desensatised...which allows a man to pound away without cumming for ages and in his mind replicating the Porn Star experience....ergo PORN STAR NOT A LOVER.
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What you say maybe true but flip the coin, the Ladies working are not there to fall in love with a client, most clients are not there for that reason either.
Yeah sure it has happened where a W/L ends up with a client, i know a few people who it has happened to, including me in a way. Though it's pretty rare.

Sometimes if you fuck for over an hour or so it is sometimes because both people are into it, there are some Ladies who like a good old fashioned bang.
Something you don't find every time your with a W/L but when you do you usually go back to see that Lady as much as possible as you do find that connection and that is when you can say it is something like being in love with someone, not the same but mainly lust i guess. Especially if you see someone for along time on a regular basis.

Also one W/L saying that to another doesn't mean that girl may have the same opinion about the same guy. Thought W/L's don't talk about there clients. Yeah i know that's not true but it can make a Lady have the totally wrong idea about a guy just because some Lady didn't like the way the client was to her. That i have seen happen, also i have seen a really good client and a W/L who used to see each other lots and had a great connection, only to be fucked up by a receptionist who passed on the wrong info on purpose.
Why because she didn't like the fact she only worked a few hours a week and had some very good regular clients who always tipped her well and gave her plenty of presents and never had to wait for a booking. Think it's easy to see what i am saying..
Also i am not a young guy as i am in my 50's so i understand what your saying but there is another angle to your comments..No disrespect to you, H.T
 
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jaxonjorja

Fudd said:
.....so the "Hokey Pokey" wouldn't be a good song then???.....lol... :)
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...not unless you wanted to put your left foot in, then take you left foot out, then put your left foot back in and shake it all about!!
 
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jaxonjorja

Just spent the last couple days fishing just up around Shark Bay. Sensational!!
Had to do something to keep myself entertained after the "powers that be" sin-binned me for my honesty
 
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AlexandraSilk

Lovers compared to Porn Star sex stars.

Last week whilst down south I met an incredible young man (30) who was a fabulous lover. We spent a number of sessions together. The discussion of porn was raised he said he doesn't watch much. My reply was I assumed so due to his sex style.

In the contrary I see an inquisitive older gentleman once a week who loves to masturbate to porn. He would rate amongst the top 10 lovers I have ever had the pleasure with. What I believe separates this gentleman is his aim when masturbating is not to orgasm as often or as quick as possible. His goal is to create the most intense full body climax his body can muster.
 
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