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honeyblonde
I thought I would start a new thread re be yourself. I read soixies post on her relationship and it occurs to me that married people often go for years with the worst sex lives yet have that façade of being happy.
I don’t know how it is for men except many are not getting the sex they want. I think they bed a virgin queen and want to wake up with the bi sexual fuck like a banchi who is Julie Andrews by day and sexy slut by night. Or kids and the daily grind wear people down and push them apart.
Women on the other hand feel like they become a hole in the mattress I don’t think my x would have minded if I were dead. I had as much life in me as a corps when I was married. A good indication is a litre of lube by the side of the bed.
Outwardly like sioxie we had the big house the good jobs the picture of perfect. We pretended we were attracted to each other we even kidded ourselves I think. I was never able to say no or I would get the big sulk all day long. I hated having a shower or he would be in there with me. He wanted me to blow him when I was breast feeding our child or even when I was on the loo he walked in and stuck his cock in my mouth.
I know women here were married to drunks or suffered abuse. Then when they are free of it they do go to extremes like soixie said. I have seen that effect on a lot of women that are at last free to explore their sexuality and they tend to go overboard and fuck anything that hits on them. I think it’s a validation of I am human again and guys want me. The swingers is a great place to explore your desires without feeling like you’re some kind of lesser woman for wanting to do that.
I think staying in an unhappy and miserable sexual relationship is soul destroying.
The women that go to swingers are to me the most open and honest and sexy beautiful women I have ever met. There is never any bitchy crap at all in swingers there is a sense of sisterhood and I think women that have the capacity to give generously of themselves are wonderful.
I admire the girls that can pleasure several men at one time. It fascinates me to watch them take on several men and see the total lustful delight on the men’s faces and on their own.
More power to the sexy goddess who shakes free of those fake unhappy relationships.
What do men think what to men do when they are in a miserable marriage?
Come on guys give us your points of view.
If there is one place we can understand each other better it has to be in a forum like this.
Honey blonde
I don’t know how it is for men except many are not getting the sex they want. I think they bed a virgin queen and want to wake up with the bi sexual fuck like a banchi who is Julie Andrews by day and sexy slut by night. Or kids and the daily grind wear people down and push them apart.
Women on the other hand feel like they become a hole in the mattress I don’t think my x would have minded if I were dead. I had as much life in me as a corps when I was married. A good indication is a litre of lube by the side of the bed.
Outwardly like sioxie we had the big house the good jobs the picture of perfect. We pretended we were attracted to each other we even kidded ourselves I think. I was never able to say no or I would get the big sulk all day long. I hated having a shower or he would be in there with me. He wanted me to blow him when I was breast feeding our child or even when I was on the loo he walked in and stuck his cock in my mouth.
I know women here were married to drunks or suffered abuse. Then when they are free of it they do go to extremes like soixie said. I have seen that effect on a lot of women that are at last free to explore their sexuality and they tend to go overboard and fuck anything that hits on them. I think it’s a validation of I am human again and guys want me. The swingers is a great place to explore your desires without feeling like you’re some kind of lesser woman for wanting to do that.
I think staying in an unhappy and miserable sexual relationship is soul destroying.
The women that go to swingers are to me the most open and honest and sexy beautiful women I have ever met. There is never any bitchy crap at all in swingers there is a sense of sisterhood and I think women that have the capacity to give generously of themselves are wonderful.
I admire the girls that can pleasure several men at one time. It fascinates me to watch them take on several men and see the total lustful delight on the men’s faces and on their own.
More power to the sexy goddess who shakes free of those fake unhappy relationships.
What do men think what to men do when they are in a miserable marriage?
Come on guys give us your points of view.
If there is one place we can understand each other better it has to be in a forum like this.
Honey blonde
...I WON"T settle for anything less now than an open honest sharing caring r/ship and if I cannot have that well I would rather nothing...